I have seen this commonality over the months and wonder why guys are not communicating this  discreetly of course.

Not only for a guy to learn about "Sally Hooker," but for her to learn what kind of session he likes.  Lots of gals have read my reviews and figured that out.
Of course, if he doesn't review...which is most guys...that won't work.
So why not just rub up against him and ask him what he wants?
Then the only problem is guys like Tidwit who are too shy to tell you they like CG.
Bottom line: if a guy is too dumb to tell you what he wants or just do it (assuming he wants to do BDSM with a GFE) he's just plain too dumb for this game

The only time I've had problems is when there's a language barrier.  My Spanish still sucks.  But, as you know, most Ticas speak acceptable English.  I do love it when a mutual friend of ours starts yelling, "Duro! Duro!" That's one word I do know.
That and "leche." LOL!
Pura Vida!

They just don't want to accept that they are the customer and the gal is the business. It would ruin their illusion, or in many cases, their DElusion.

Could not agree more it bothers me as a hobbyist a bit when they want to sit and chat for 20 minutes then take that off your time. We book an hour for an hour of fun not chit chat. I like to chat in between rounds to regroup. I had one provider sit down and want to talk first to "get to know each other" before I know it she was telling me time was up! I was a bit put off by it and started to read reviews more carefully so I know who likes to talk and who likes to get down to business.

Not that I don't like reading her posts, I do. But it doesn't change the fact that she talks a lot and whines about a lot of stuff. lol

There is a reason I come to TER and places like this and look for GFE escorts. If I just wanted to fuck, I could save a lot of money by sticking with streetwalkers and AMP girls.

to be comfortable continuing the conversation -

Don't you run specials so they can afford you?

So you always run your ads with that VIP thingy?

Those who cannot chew gum and walk shouldn't be fucking anyone. I find it sexy to be talking and fucking at the same time. BJ' s work well too.  

There is no pij tin me rubbing up against him if he wants what I can't deliver once he is there. The whole pint is to get this ironed out BEFORE anyone wastes anyone s time.

However some of us are not into non stop action for the entire hour. My body cannot deal with that and so I seek clients who are not of that mindset. This advice is to aid us all, those that want it and those that can deal, time limits aside.

Be civil or I will yank your scrote sac over your head to make you look like an uncut prick.

Ahh I just know what i like and what I don't and those that feel it's whining, well clearly I don't like what they do. Good thing there are other hookers and other tricks for us to choose from.

It will almost always result in the woman canceling.  This is one reason why it's a good idea to link your reviews to your web site.  You can even attach the link to any correspondence you have with a client.

I am not about chatting the time time away but nor am I able to take a 59 minute vag drilling either. I like a mix and some time to let the money maker cool off. I want to know about the 59 minute dudes in order to let them find someone who can and be very willing to meet their needs.  

And he promises, "if the pix aren't me, it's free."  That one aways brings them in in droves.

There are guys who feel not fucking for the entire time is not getting his monies worth...those I wish to avoid like bubonic plague.

I am not reviewed and many ladies are not or have been de-listed by choice. You are only really referring to hookers who have active reviews.  

That way we can get to know each other.

Where else would she pull it from, fungus?  Gawd you are one sour, negative butt-wipe.

But I'm not responding just to you.  I'm responding to the general question.  And, sure, there are always ways of getting the job done if people are reasonably mature and intelligent.  But, as you can see from this board, an awful lot are not.

There would be quite a few here happy to pay to see you work him over.

a little bio in his initial email (I'm this ethnicity, this age, blah blah for a living…) and I've screened him then by all means straight to the action, but if I don't know whether Bruce Lee or Michael Jackson is walking in I expect a little get to know each other time. Like 5-10… other than that I over time get to know more about the clients I like immensely.  

Must go check.

Didn't know you had my addy although I did post it on here a while back...fyi:
staysafeladies at gmail dot com

I can see your point....   especially if it is a first meeting there are benefits to being a bit patient and giving the lady an opportunity to feel you out, get comfortable, perhaps even find something to like about you....    :p

Those guys is not because I feel they should not do that but because I physically cannot take it. Even  IRL. Not built that way. And I have tried everything known to man and beast...metaphorically speaking.

If we get the small talk out of the way via email before we meet, have a great phone conversation to flirt a bit. I can see where it's highly possible. The issue is with pseudo streetwalker last minute be-there-in-an-hour type of appointment. A truly GFE encounter cannot be rushed. Either you're the kind of man that respects that things are sweeter when she's comfortable, or you don't care.

Just talking with an intelligent girl and having brain sex gets me off,  
especially when girls spill their life stories and drama to me,  it's a serious turn on.  
she doesn't even need to touch my weewee.  Lo

to try to find clientele who are compatible with your personality and your own needs - best all around....

I now have to be a total experience kinda gal now. Anything else and I'm ruined for several days on end. It sux but it is what it is and I don't want a guy to be disappointed that he chose to see me.

Steph xoxo

This shit is on you..
If you don't like the customers you are getting..
Change your buisness plan...

It's just not natural for me to start banging a total stranger the second I meet him. It just weirds me out. The funny thing is, most guys don't want that (most of the ones I've seen anyway).

Girllllll I'mma start sending you cat pictures and chain letters.  

I thought you provided a nice balance of everything.  And as I recall I took my socks off...it was cold as fuck, too.

I never got that.

There's no worse look for a guy than naked with socks...it's the equivalent of granny panties on a girl

Thanks, booboo. You saw me in rare form though since it was the ass crack of dawn and fucking -30 outside. Thank you for losing the socks.

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I thought you provided a nice balance of everything.  And as I recall I took my socks off...it was cold as fuck, too.

Nothing in my marketing strategy or my reviews would suggest that a GFE date with me would go down like that. Like I said, I soldiered through the appointment and did my best even though he made it awkward as hell.  

Tobi, you are an escort, you are paid for sex. If what you were doing did not heighten his "sexual" experience then it was not part of the gig...  

If a guy just wants to strip down to his socks (yuck, but whatever), jump on the bed and start ticking off the acronyms there are many, many options that are frankly easier on the wallet than Tobi. I don't get why anyone would want to push that kind of session with her...she's pretty clear on her site about the approach that puts her at her best, and her reviews back that up, so why anyone would book with her and push a different agenda is baffling to me.

Sex is part of what I'm paid for, sure, but it's not the sole basis of what I'm selling. If someone is interested in nothing aside from getting the ultimate nut, then he should buy a blow-up doll (it'd be a hell of a lot cheaper too).  

And that is exactly why you got a much better experience than that guy did.  

I think it was Oscar Wilde who said something like the worst thing is when the exceptional becomes commonplace.

Those special moments are special exactly because they are so rare.

So, we should all relax and learn to savor in slow and thoughtful ways in between the hot action.

A guy saying to a waiter, "Hi, I'd like a ______________ martini, straight up, with three olives, please. Oh, you don't have __________? Do you have ____________? That will be fine, then. Thank you very much."  

Fuck but more typing = more trouble but you and Tobi are worth it!  

Who said that the categorical imperative was even relevant here? Even the question of whether it is relevant or not is irrelevant. One of the central tenets of this biz is...I think Mr. Fisher said this...for ever hat, there is a head. But not all hats fit on all heads...

But I think he picked the wrong girl and didn't have as much fun as he might have.