I vacillate between giving credit to la mademoiselle du jour, or just not mentioning, what appear to my medically trained and carnally experienced "eye" to be actual orgasms.  My thinking is that I don't want to write reviews that are really about *me*...   but a lot of hobbyists like to think that they are pleasing the lady so it could be a plus for her to write in the review that she is responsive....

I tend to leave a lot of that stuff out of the reviews. Part of it is, lacking any medical background, the mystery of what is real and what isn't is far too complex for me to concern myself with. But if a woman is at all skilled at getting into the spirit of things, she'll have to either enjoy it or pretend to. Since the gentleman WANTS her to be really enjoying it, she doesn't have to work too hard.

in a hurry -    

though every woman is a bit different there are certain things that are a part of having an orgasm -  the flushing,  the tensing of the lower abdominal muscles before,  the vaginal spasm(s),  sometimes a tremor in the pelvic floor muscles and / or inner thighs,  the lubricity,  often a certain catch of breath.....

It certainly comes into play when I review my experience as a whole, as in "forgot it was a service". However, I dislike the idea of attempting to break things down in ever more detail, or to "justify" an admittedly subjective and individual rating.  

No matter how convincing she was, or how much I may believe she did, you'll always find me qualify it.  As in "she seemed to come," or if she wasn't having an orgasm she deserves an Academy Award.  So I don't have a problem.  I'm well aware of all the signs, but too many can be faked.

And sometimes I decide to do a declared fantasy. I usually give this decision a bit of thought before dismissing the vanilla sex thing or not going with the provider's lead, which too often feels like a well-rehearsed routine, and sometimes like a staged ritual as dry of passion as a Catholic Mass.

There have been times when I was almost 100% certain the woman had at least one O. There's other times when I couldn't tell for sure, and others when I knew for sure she didn't, no matter what she did to fake it.  

for having or faking an orgasm -   sometimes I just say that she was "responsive" or "seemed to enjoy"....  sometimes she so obviously really Od that I mention it...      

One evening I was sitting around drinking with a provider I was seriously involved with and a couple of her provider friends and they all admitted they fake it the vast majority of the time.  Various reasons include, they had a lot of sex all ready that day, guy had a small dick, guy smelled, guy was ugly, guy was constantly going limp, etc.  They are very good at faking it and they do it because the guys are constantly asking them if they had a orgasm and if they lie they get better scores and the guy comes back.  The remarkable thing about us men and our vanity is that we can convince ourselves that we are the exception.  My advice is enjoy the sex.  She may even like you as a person but it doesn't mean she's going to have an orgasm.

that's rather my point -     if you don't mention in the review that the provider "orgasmed" then she is not getting the benefit -   and I think you are right that if johnny thinks she Od that induces him to give her a better score..

You said you were medically trained so in your expert opinion can those physiological responses be faked. I really would like to know. I had four out or five in an oral session a few years ago. I sure miss that young lady.

And if she delivers a very convincing facsimile, is she not doing her job? I keep repeating this, guys call us, they find us attractive and sexy but we get what we get and there are a ton of times the attraction is just not there. So, in order to pull off the fantasy and do a good GFE job, some of us do whatever it takes.  

Others who just want a warm body to deposit into, well, they don't care one iota. Just goes to show the two, and I am sure more, factions within the hobby guys.

It's part of the "experience".  After all - a theater critic gives Juliet credit for a good death scene.  Why not credit for a good "O"?

It's not a part of my fantasy. I can't tell for sure without using my fingers to know if it's real, but in most cases I can tell if it's being faked. Most providers are not Meryl Streep.  

in making the post....

The most obvious case of faking Os I've experienced was a session with a provider in which I lost count of her "Os" at 10.  And this was within 30 minutes or so.  But she was so convincing, it was great fun for me even though I knew she must be faking it.  If it were in my power, I'd give her a Tony Award for that performance.  

because we believe what we perceive to be reality -