I'm annoyed, I've seen new TER clients whom have contacted me via TER & they tell me they do not do reviews??? I've had couple of them repeat already & still no reviews...... WTF??? This is a review site, reviews are like additional advertisement for providers... I don't get it.... You find providers & see them because of their reviews, wouldn't you want to review so you can also have some kind of "Screening/Verification" resource?  

Some guys don't write reviews for whatever reason, but most guys won't mind if you ask them

Oh I've asked, also reminded those who have repeated to write me a one.... They also always say ok but to date nothing.... I'm not one of those providers who say: write me a 10/10 or don't bother... I'm open to honesty & do not mind if it's a suck ass review... Cuz we are not purrrfffeeeccttt,!!! Lol

I bet $5, the next time you are on here "bitching" it will be about a faux review.

They would rather not leave an honest review and don't want to hurt your feelings or get blacklisted for not writing a favorable score.  
They are new or not recent reviewers and the reviews could have been deferred or denied by TER on technical grounds.
They are non reviewers and simply don't write them.
They are too lazy to write one or will only write one when they are on cloud 9.
They don't want to be bothered by providers who emphasize more about reviews and put it's importance over the session.  
They are on review strike.

This post isn't about ranting  about a bad review or is it complaining about a client.....  It's generally inquiring why wouldn't you want to write a review, thus this being a review site... Idc if it's a bad review or a great review.... Those who get pissed & blacklist clients for writing a honest review need not to be providing if they can't take criticism.....   Plain & simple this is a review site!!

Seems like you just want reviews no matter good or bad

Every one of us who write reviews has at one time or another pissed off some provider who expected higher scores. And many of you demand 9's and 10's so if we can't honestly give a 9 or 10, we're not writing a review and getting bitched at. You may be the exception but trust me, you're a rare exception.

I'm sympathetic to your issue, but I can tell you that recently I met with a provider I had never seen before but who had generally good reviews.  We had a great session...I mean really great.  Probably one of the best I have ever had.  She was a real pro....did everything I asked and really well.  I had absolutely no complaints and only compliments for her.  And she knew I was pleased with her performance.  I fully intended to write a review and just before I left she gave me a hug and a kiss and asked me not to write a review if I had planned to do so.  I couldnt believe my ears.  I said, "Did I understand you correctly...you dont want me to write a review?" and she said yes, please dont.  Since she already had a number of reviews I thought this was somewhat odd...and I asked her why not.  She just said, its personal and I would prefer it if you wouldnt write one.  Well, I try to be fair and decent with all providers and since that was her wish, I said ok, no review.  Still wondering why she didnt want one, but that was her wish and so I honored it.

Reviews keeps a providers profile up to date... Aka active... I'm not bitching... I'm inquiring & expressing my annoyance.... I don't advertise on 50 different sites like most providers I've done great via my reviews & P411, but I like being reviewed, I enjoy reading them, it's kinda of a turn on especially if the session was enjoyable....  Maybe I'm a review whora!!!  If this feed is offensive to hobbyist cuz u think it's me bitching... It's not!!! I don't cause drama nor do I want any for myself!!! 😘😘😘😘

You have some 30 odd reviews JUST in the last year and over 5 dozen since you got your first just a few years ago. You have no reason to be annoyed.  

Here are some of my reasons for not posting a review.  

In all respect, advertising is up to the provider, not the client. If a client wants to help you out, great. But if they just want to see us for what we advertise for - putting the money on the table is good enough for most.  

I see guys here who say they don't write reviews and yet complain if someone has no reviews.. Iagree.. she has a ton of reviews.. but her question is still legit.. How can you be a member of TER and NOT write a review.. If I write a bad review.. That's the way it goes.. I have not reviewed that many women.. and have been very lucky that I haven't had a bad experience yet.. but still.. why not give a review.. if the provider has an issue with it.. so what.. I just went back and went over some ofmy reviews..and they are all fine.. plus's and minus's..  

If you wanted the review, I'd be happy to give you one.
Should you not want one, I'm just as happy not giving you one.  
I will always ask your permission to make sure you are cool either way.  

"I'm not bitching... I'm inquiring & expressing my annoyance."
Noun

True, a lot of hobbyists don't want the drama and go on long strikes.  Several ladies have said only 1 out of 10 NEW clients write a review. Not sure how true that % is but it seems to have some truth to it to some degree.  

I enjoy writing reviews, and I do for all providers except for a lady I've been seeing recently who has asked me not to as she is UTR

I agree about the pull down menus. Pain in the ...  should be able to enter her ter number and autopopulate

Do your best to let it shine thru without reviews.

It is absurd that she is "annoyed" by guys that are paying her a fortune. What she calls "annoying", I call "her customer base."

1) Some of us don’t have all that much time

..happy to oblige.

I have an interesting story depicting just that. I had someone scheduled an appointment for me to come to their condo in Boston last Sunday they cancelled last minute when I don't have a limo parked out front. no not a stretch limo for a wedding it's more like just a huge fancy truck with livery plates nevertheless. knowing I can post an ad on Backpage and procure an outcall appointment to a hotel in Boston in 4 minutes or less flat. I am really pumped and ready to go so I post my ad and one of the first callers really nice Indian boy. I am always reassured when I hear an Indian accent.  
so he's at a very nice hotel I go to the hotel the drivers waiting outside with my cute dog in the car waiting for me patiently.
now this nice Indian boy on the phone before you even leave the house he is so concerned with asking me ten times over if I am associated with law enforcement.
I took the opportunity to try and explain the way this works to him and that I have three years worth of reviews which means I'm probably more than likely not going to be law enforcement North anyone who has the reviews
and then he is really concerned with the fact that I am NOT going to provide the services he is expecting.
I take that he has been having a lot of people take him for a run for his money where he has no idea about the erotic review and he is solely using back page as his source for escort fun.
     we did a really good Greek appointment less than 5 minutes and I got my money it was awesome the outcall from Backpage are so cool they are so quick the guys don't care about running for the basis they don't have the fact that they can write a review hanging over your head some of the guys that kind of manipulating you with the fact they can write a review if you don't go above and beyond they will back last you by giving you a bad review!
so there's that whole scenario that we have to deal with on our end
so anyways I'm sure there is problems on both and both escorts in hobbyist with this review process it can be helpful but it has its negatives and positives'
so nevertheless I did try to someone explain to him how it works and I told him I would whitelist him so that way you can look at the women on here and how they do have a profile which says what they do and do not provide as far services
he was really concerned that I wasn't going to do certain GFE activities
he actually had a lot of diamond and gold jewelry on these really cool patent leather shoes sitting out in the room he definitely seems very classy and he also seems legit imately worried that he wasn't going to get services as promised
well I luckily was the first one of the world he ever did Greek with
sometimes offering that service can make what would have been a 30 minute appointment knocked down to a five minute appointment
and especially when you have a driver waiting outside they really aren't expecting you to stay and sit around and chit chat after
another one of the positive benefits of the outcalls with a driver
so he tried to figure it out he said he would write a review of me I told him I would wait list him to help him get on the map
he was so shocked I look like my pictures when I came in the door he said oh my god you really look like the pictures!
anyways English was really bad and he couldn't really quite get it together enough to post the ad or figure out how to use this website
he told me to help him because he can't speak English well however I did have the little waiting outside I didn't have time to spell it out for him anymore than I already did
but I have been told that it is very confusing when they try to post an ad that they have to show a link to the ad that they found you on which seems very confusing for me anyway'
?
I know you say you kind of only use the preferred 411 all that but have you ever considered maybe tossing an ad up on Backpage and doing outcall only to the fancy hotels in Boston?
I've noticed the non ter clientele actually are a lot easier and expect a lot less of you
it seems as though the clientele you find on here are looking to get the most for their money they take the full 60 minutes they want to do every single thing possible if there's any down time they want to constantly be all over you and making out with you
all of my clients I've ever met from Backpage they kinda just want the Cliq f*** they don't really care about all the romance in the long makeout sessions
I noticed you can charge a lot more on this website however the clientele really do want that full 60 minutes and sometimes more often than not they try to push it over the 60 minutes and pretend they can't get off by the time the 60 minutes is up!
I'm not sure if it feels like they know they can manipulate you because they can retaliate by writing you a bad review with lies in it
if you don't allow them to abuse you the way that they are trying to?
I know for me I've experienced a lot of times where I wasn't going to allow myself to be subjected to the physical and mental abuse they were attempting to put me through and they do retaliate by writing a bad review when they weren't treating you well in the first place
maybe you disagree I suggest you get yourself a driver post yourself an ad on the back page and just make sure the person is at a Marriott and make sure they have a foreign accent you know a college student or business man with a fault for an accent he surely is not going to be a detective!
you could say you are running a special for Asians you know the Asians love there gambling and they love their hookers
chances are if you go do an outcall for an asian asian businessman with an Asian accent I almost guarantee you he will not be a serial killer he will not rip you off and he's not a cop
these guys love having the power over you hey love leaving you wanting that review and they purposely won't give you what you want just because of the fact that you're politely asking for it
like you would with a5 year old do you have to play reverse psychology with these guys'
take it from somebody with over 150 white list and close to 90 reviews
I get the most success with getting a lot of reviews by acting like I don't care about the review
I don't know what it is but anytime I have asked a guy for review they totally hate that they never will do it I don't know why reverse psychology works well with these boys ahem. I mean men.
you can also meet a completely new person of Backpage who will really benefit from learning about this website it may take some extra energy of you but you will not only be helping someone who needs to discover this website who is a classy hobbyist with lots of money but has not yet been explained how this site works.
and then you can beat his first review and then from there we all have a new person to go see who is a new hobbyist on the scene here.

not believing the review system .. as long as they are repeating and gave you  business  and fin why you should worry at all ??
 Yes the fact that they do not write reviews - shows - they do have lives ..  
 All my cleints almost all - do not like write reviews .. as I talked to them - it is women want have them .. as to men .. he looks at pic talks to woman and he making his own judgement ..
 I think reviews are over rated .. and mostly are for women competition  .. and own satisfaction  ..
 Yes .. it brings a business .. woman needs reviews is she is new  and not established  or jst when she does not have enough business , other wise why to collect them ??

I know when somebody gets me angry I end up working a lot harder and being even more successful something about anger kind of drives me gives me energy to overcome it and make better things happen just because of it.
so now that you have all this energy and you're all fired up I have a positive outlet for it for you!
ok go and post yourself an ad on Backpage yes I know you only use preferred 511 this is something new to try and if it doesn't work I will be very surprised
cut and paste an automated response so that to every phone call or text you can automatically sends them to check out your ter profile'''''
then explain to them that you need them to have references on this website in order for them to see you
you will be not only getting business for another lady but then he will come see you after when he has a review or two
also if you do an outcall in a hotel you can politely ask them if you can confirm that they are in fact a guest at that hotel fight having the front desk ring the persons room
I would never do an outcall to a person's house off of Backpage however going into the rum all out the client to hear you checking in with your driver
I know everyone on here is obsessed with filling out forms and calling this one that one and a lot of what is a long process to just get to that one appointment for me I'm old fashioned I would rather if I am behind and want that money and don't want to deal I'd rather just deal with the back page saying and go out and get it done without all the annoyance and back and forth and emailing
I know right now I have 92 emails in my email box and I totally am NOT going to go through them chances are it would take 3 days to respond to everyone and by then I would really be broke and not have done one single appointment it makes a lot more sense to just answer a call go to the appointment in return back to your normal life

Maybe 10% write reviews on TER, but even a smaller percentage of that group will actually get the review up.  (Lazy, like the provider too much to review her (huh?), review declined for not enough detail, you've got enough reviews already, busy at work, etc etc

They don't care about you, or your business

And had my ass handed to me. Never again!

Awesome. "Preferred 511?" Lol

I know if things are going too slow for me and I want to get a slew of new reviews.
I will kind of Jack my price down and next thing you know your phones ringing off the hook a lot of people that have wanted to see you will probably take it up on the offer but you have just lower your price a tad
I wouldn't be as concerned about looking at their alias on here because some of them may not want you to know
I know the whitelist are good but I wouldn't stress them out over it let them off for that info to you if they so choose
a lot of them have to make up a second alias because they don't really give the best reviews,
which is fine but they know if they show the provider their true alias with the really bad reviews most providers may state far away from them not wanting those bad reviews,
so for me if I really want to string of a lot of reviews and want to get a lot of attention I will jack the price down for a very short. Of time
you may only find two or three new good regulars out of all the new people
and maybe a lot of extra work but if you make sure you go through this. Of time you will definitely get a ton of reviews you may just have to lower your rate and work a little bit more
once you get yourself a whole slew of new reviews and some new regulars that you're really psyched about
then you can go back to charging what you like to charge if you're happy with the people you're seeing and you don't really even care if you see someone new why not go back to your higher rate if not higher it even more
I know if I am getting complacent or bored with my circle of regulars I will do sort of a short. Of promotional lower rates and I will go through a string of different customers I usually find two or three that are keepers
and I usually means a lot that I

more than many providers who have been around for a lot longer time. You might want to search for some of the threads where providers have discussed the pitfalls and problems of having TOO MANY reviews!

"Wait list him" lol

and then there are those other guys. They rely on the reviews but are too fearful or disinterested in submiting an account of their own encounters.
If the board only consisted of the "other guys"......welll....TER would cease to exist.

If/when I damn well feel like it. I don't give a horses ass what a hooker wants. Why not hire someone to write one for you like a lot here do? Lol

I feel like writing her a 1 / 1  just to make life fair for the ladies who aren't top tier.  

Maybe because she advertises as low volume?

I agree. Saw a lady that had great reviews. I was kind of surprised by the awkward/abrupt finish and compared to her friend she knew in the business there was no way to rate the same. Some guy gave her the ratings I was thinking of and she was on his ass immediately. Just not worth the hassle.

I usually ask a lady that I've had a good session with if she would like me to write a review, essentially telling her that it would be a very good review and asking some questions.  Do you want me to mention that you swallowed?, other questions where if I mention it, others will expect it to be part of the service.
The ladies (and honestly girls) that I ask appear to appreciate the question.  Younger ones that are looking for business tend to say yes more but appreciate the NQNS types of questions.  Older ones that are fully established often say no.  My gut says that they don't want too many reviews because it may make them look high volume.  Just enough reviews to stay current, but no more.

I do not like discussions such as this, and I have never commented on it, until now.
Why? because the lady/Op is putting more thoughts into her reviews rather than the date/s itself. Did she enjoy his company and have a good time and maybe a few laughs?? Did their bodies feel the waves of passion? We don't know, but We all hope so because that's what all this is really about.
I admit I do not have many reviews and when one pops up I'm happy that he saw our time together  was noteworthy. I have been asked if I want them to write a review and my answer will always be....Gentlemen's Choice!!

My dog gets to take naps in his muma s lap while i type away..aww, he so cute.

I review every lady I see, I think it's only fair to the lady and the other guys on the board

It's not hard to make a mistake on a review (pull down menu, etc.) or even get the TER number wrong and then all hell can break loose.  Usually the writer takes the abuse, but I screwed up a review with the wrong number (my mistake, admittedly) and the provider called me on it.  The two names were VERY similar and I had been trying to book with both of them.  The first one that I actually saw was one I should have waked out on (large boa got out of the cage during the session, she was 80 lbs heavier and 10 years older than her pics, etc.  The second one is now my regular, whom I think the world of, but do not review.  So sometimes things work out.

Lol thanks Robin!!!! Xoxo...... Wow, I didn't think a little rant would have some be so rude & disrespectful & others very kind & sympathetic... I received tons of Pms from very nice hobbyist....   Reading some of the rude comments, it's amazing how people read things into it & come up with their own means & conclusions......  Now I know why girls blacklist hobbyist, I've never blacklisted anyone but my GAWD .... I need to write a paper about this... I would definitely get a A on it!!!!   Wow!!! Lmfao!!!  

I've never complained, I don't blacklist & I take it as a learning experience & try better on the next guy...  It's just nice to be able to keep the reviews current, this is a review site, I don't understand why people don't want or get upset about a review... But thank you, I've been doing this for 2years & I'm still learning from the hobbying community... Lol

I personally wouldn't worry too much about the quantity vs the quality of what's written in the actual reviews themselves. I've also always had the philosophy of the 'less is more' theory with pretty much everything in life..including reviews lol. I think even reviews less than a handful, well written by a few select gentlemen may be just as effective as over ten handfuls. Its really all in how you view it I suppose.

I believe some men do not post reviews because they just do not find the time or care enough to post.

You're just plain fucking fabulous!!! What more can I say!!! I need someone like you to mentor me!!!  

I for one took forever to write my best story because I needed to wake long enough to write her the compelling narrative she deserved