I've planned a meeting with a rare woman who also happens to be a provider in the near future and am trying to come up with an evening that will be memorable for her.  I have a couple of good ideas but thought I would try the peanut gallery for some suggestions.

Hobbiests:
If you had an evening to spend with your ATF, what would you do for(to) her?  Remember, you want to provide something that will bring both of you as much pleasure as possible.

More importantly,
Ladies:
What would you least expect and most like for an evening to consist of?  I am very interested in her pleasure as well as mine since that is one of the things in life that I find very enjoyable.

I'm planning an evening that will be memorable, make her think, anticipate and, ultimately, enjoy.  Like I said, I have a pretty good idea of a memorable evening but you never know when a good suggestion will come along.

http://www.seamountainranch.com This is the place to take that special Lady, if you want to spoil and impress her. The open, free atmosphere here is the ultimate lovers hide-away, IMHO...

This sounds like "whats your Idea of a perfect first date?" on those cutzie-pie dating site profiles. None the less here is an Idea.

  Rent a cabin in the mountains. Fireplace, view, the whole shabang. Take your ATF there via motorcycle. The sensory overlode of the ride, the vistas, clean sweet smelling air; It's primal!. Have a nicely catered dinner at the cabin. More than one bottle of GOOD wine(this is going to be an allnighter!)
 The "athletics" should take place infront of the hearth among numerous pillows and soft comforters. The glow of the fire, the romance of seclusion, wishing on stars between rounds.
 In the morning treat your gal to a home-cooked steak & eggs breakfast complete with Mammosas(sp?) then fire up the Iron horse for your ride into the crisp morning air.
 
 Gee'z I got misty-eyed thinking about this one.

  FR225

I've often thought about the same thing. The cabin or country inn is the way to go in my opinion. Nothing like making love by firelight.

I recently had a provider friend from Vancouver visit me for a week.  These are some of the things we did (keep in mind, I live in the New York City area):  A shopping spree at Victoria's Secret; dinner at The View rotating restaurant atop the Marriott Marquis on Broadway; a carriage ride through Central Park; two Broadway shows, The Producers, and The Lion King; and finally, a hot air balloon ride.

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WOW...what an amazing night you provided.!!! Did she still have the strength to play...? When do we get to read that review..??  She definately was a lucky girl...You sound like a real sweetheart...!!! Kisses, Robyn

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Wow that sounds like on heck of a date!!!  

I once had a "friend" of mine take me to a cabin in the North Georgia mountains where we actually cooked dinner together (a touch of romance, I think) and dranks lots of wine with our home-cooked meal.  We did have the whole fireplace scene going on.... Dessert was served first on me, then on him.... It was a grrreat night.  We didn't try the whole motorcycle thing..... although that probably would've been fun too!

Jaclyn

Shopping with a doting gentleman, being taken to dinner and the theater, a romantic carriage ride in Central Park, and to top it all off.... the hot air balloon ride.... WOW!!!  I have to agree with Silky here.... You sound like a wonderful gentleman!!!

Jaclyn

Reinner..Flowers.. A White Limosine & Hot Tub!!

Leave The Rest To "Me"!!

You give me too much credit, Robyn.  I picked my friend up at the airport on Monday night, and dropped her off on Sunday.  So, our itinerary ran over the course of a week.  Also, I'm afraid this was a private, social thing between two friends, so beyond the conflict of interest issue, I'd feel funny writing a review about our week together.  Let's just say a good time was had by all.

Like I said to Silky, this all took place over a week (I'm good, but, geez!).  And this was a private, social thing between me and my friend, who happens to be a provider in Vancouver.  

However, in a business oriented evening, it's not uncommon for a special lady and me to see a Broadway show, have a an upscale (upscale = expensive) dinner, and maybe go for a carriage ride.  In almost all business evenings, I at least provide a bubble bath (accompanied by Bach), champagne and strawberries, a scented massage, candles, and flowers.  The fingernail marks on my ceiling speak for themselves.

No.  It was a private, social thing between me and a friend, who happens to be a provider in Vancouver.  That's why I won't write a review.  There'd be a conflict of interest, and frankly, since it was personal, a review would be bad form.

to Vegas for three days.......limo to and from the airport, penthouse suite, dozen red roses, had a small party, fine dining, saw an art exhibit, helicopter ride, pool cabana.........gambled, partied, shopped, did a double with Roxy........licked her kitty till my tongue was sore ( :

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I'm cummin to NYC!!!!!  Just kidding..... but I'd love that, really.... Sounds awesome!

Jaclyn

All of the ideas are great!

I wanted to do something similar to the New York City experience with Phantom and a romantic dinner at either Le Cirque, The Gotham Grille or One If By Land, Two If By Sea thrown in!

It is a shame that Windows of The World is gone! My ATF would have loved it as she does all of the New York experience!

The add on would be a private jet to take us up there! And a visit to Tiffany wouldn't hurt to top that trip off!

But that's not all, folks!

Another trip would be a tour of Europe. Details and scheduling are still being worked out but I'll do my best to rock her world and make it a memorable experience in every aspect!

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You must let me know if you decide to plan a trip here.  Seriously.

Reo All Of The Above!!

I've been to Windows on the World, the Rainbow Room, and The View.  Of the three, IMHO, The View is best. If you decide to go, make your reservations for a seating later 5:30PM.  The restaurant doesn't open until then, and a line forms at the express elevators (which takes away from the experience). Also, ask for the waiter I always request, Nagy.  He'll make your evening even more delightful (tell him Craig says hello). I like to reserve for a late supper after the show.  Then, have the doorman get you a cab to The Plaza.  There, you'll have plenty of opportunity to take a carriage ride through the park.

Phantom is a good choice, and it's easy to get tickets. But, make sure you get seats in the orchestra, and NOT in the first four rows.  The effect of the chandelere crashing down on you is lost otherwise.

But, if you can get tickets, The Lion King is more fun.  Again, stay in the orchestra because the animals come in through the audience.  Also, stay center or stage right, otherwise you'll miss some of the action on Pride Rock.

Another neat place is the comedy club, Caroline's on Broadway.  Let me know if I can be of any further help.

I vote for a week (or two )   At hedonism III in Jamaica all of the above plus public nudity sex and and general debauchery........Just my .02

Reo All Of The Above!!

Thanks for the tips!

You are right about Phantom. Having seen it on several occassions and being an original investor in The Really Useful Group, I know that 6-12 rows back in the center is the prime place to experience Phantom.

I didn't know that The Rainbow Room at 30 Rock was that good!

Thanks again for the info!

Hey Man, they have any openings where you work? I'd love to have cash to blow like that!