You do the shave and a haircut before a session.   Afterwards your SO - who you don't normally groom for - notices.   How would you, or how did you, splain your way out of that one?

In hopes she will want to give your johnson more attention!  lol Smile 4 me!

I am pretty careful and it hasn't actually happened to me but if it did, that excuse wouldn't fly.   If it did happen,  I would just say that it's more comfortable, especially in hot weather.   I am just curious to know if anybody has been in that situation and what they did to get out of it.    But I do like the way you think, Patricia.

Or I'd try a variation of MP's suggestion where I say I saw the suggestion on the TER fuck board!  

…so I'm not getting caught on this one!

I met my SO, so not a problem for me.

would help it go away.

In fact I used to suffer from crotch rot and manscapping did make it go away.  But it wasn't a doctor who suggested it, it was a provider, of course.

True story, I once had a good female friend who asked me if I manscaped, and when I asked why she was asking me, she told me that out of the blue her hubby had completely shaven himself.  Needless to say, with my hobby sidey sense, I figured he was up to no good, but I simply said I do occasionally as it tends to get a bit unruly down there after a while now.  Turns out her hubby did get busted, but it was much worse and shocking then I even thought..

Don't wait until she sees you and asks you why, start a couple of days before and mention you're thinking about it. Seems to be a trend out there and you want to jump on the bandwagon.

gosh.. if I'm ever in a long term relationship I hope my SO doesn't  take me for granted and stop bothering to take care of himself for me.  
   
I would never do that to him

that way you aren't "getting caught" at anything, if you handle it right, you might even make it "her idea" Who knows, it might even lead to some "wife pussy" at home? if you are still interested in that type of thing that is.

I get hair cut very 3 weeks and shave every week. Been doing the shaving ever since  I started growing here. Part of my up bringing.

... and pulling them out.  And it hurt.  Since I'm an older guys with a sack that sags, she bought it.  You could still use that one if if you're not older with a saggy sack.

Yes —although I am a.) not married and b.) not "manscaped," either— and the principle of "staying ahead of it," i.e., if one has a significant other, not adopting some radical new grooming or other such change without some consultation with said other seems as a general rule both considerate and wise.

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