Escorts or an atf in particular? What happend?  
How did she find out?
 i see some ladies specify no calling them on your work phone or personal phone. They request you buy a go or track phone before contacting.
                        For me i had one guys wife find out about me then report me to the police, she found out my address and i had to actually move.
       I had few months ago a woman leave me voicemails saying she found address and number in her husbands things and that well she wnet on and on swearing on the machine saying "your a fucking prostitute! your a fucking whore! and again the threats to snitch on me same as the last wife that found me in husbands life.
              Another time i think I was being stalked by a guys wife that found out bout me this old weird tall neurotic looking miserable looking old wench actually, I could kinda sense she was proberly an old hag a man would get vindictive toward and cheat on, She seemed like just a huge cloud of negativity and annoyingness, and really looked un healthy, It showed in her looks , like run down haggardley didnt take care herself, You know the type that is the reason i have a job, The husbands cant bear to see the nasty old hags naked so they go fuck women ten years younger that actually get up from thier couches on occasion and apply make up or go for a walk,  
 So this weird gangly tall odd bird... Gid was she a site. WOW. She like aggressively was following me in stop n shop. With her lips pursed together so tight I thought she was gonna spontaniously decombust!  
   She was dressed like moms mabley.
                The lady was like trying to play bumper carts with her cart and mine and like liturally up my ass through the entire super market experience, I finally as she was leaving called her a kunt cuz once she smashed into my cart and actually my dog was in the cart, Now she crossed the line, Fuck with me but dont abuse and inncoent fuckin small animal that didnt do anything to you . Any one that hurts or attempt to harm an animal. I will go down swingin. This fuckin bicth smashes into me I was flippin out and said you fucking kunt what the fuck?
                          I am certain it was some old miserable menopausal hag that doesnt blow her husband so he pays people like myself too cuz she is so uptight and miserable .
                 I am sure there are some that request phone bill records and google any odd looking phone numbers or they hack into history on computer.
                 What do you guys do to ensure your respecting the escorts right to discretion and privacy from your scorned lovers at home your lying and cheating on, And in most cases spending money that is meant to be used for the family on. You naighty, naughty, boys......................

But everyone of those times, SHE was always the escort in question. lol

Truth be told, it's never been an issue for me. Whenever I promise to be "faithful" I remain that way. Of course I very rarely make that promise, so it has not been much of an issue for me.

It's not that I am overly moral, it's just that I am lazy, too lazy to make my life a lie. It's just too much work, and too much to keep up with for me. I simply have a very hard time understanding how some of you guys (and women) do it, but I try not to judge as many of my friends are lying, cheating whore mongers, and the rest of my friends are hookers. lol

Yes,i found out anout my husband seeing not one but two escorts last oct in vegas........i will say i sorta gave him permission...told him to get it out of his system......what i DIDNT know was that he saw one in august when she was touring.....he saw her again in vegas....now i didnt care that he was going to fuck someone else,be cause it was just a fuck....what devestated me was that he took them to shows and expensive dinners and sent them a shit ton of gifts....and he became freinds w them on twitter and text....he got wayyyyy more involved than he should have.....and he saw one outside of our agreement. ....it was to be vegas only.......also i wk in the beauty industry so i am well put together. ......but we have been married a longggg time and were having lots of trouble..........have i stalked or blamed the providers? No (one did tell him to divorce me though,but he shut her down quick) to me it was my husbands fault,not the escorts, and i will say the good that came out of it far outweighs the bad, i am now in the hobby as well, we only see providers together........i feel bad for the women that this does happen to,but the wives need to blame the proper person...the husbands.....and to they guys out there cheating,i say get out of the marriage if its that bad, this almost ruined mine,but lucky for my husband i wasnt going down without a fight....and i think he was more damaged from hurting me than i was.........i say if your unhappy or not getting what u need at home,then leave first and play second.....

......or I will become a bad smell coming from the attic.

On the whole, despite the cost of divorce, it was worth it for the freedom.

I got caught the first time because the stupid hotel sent the bill to my house along with a list of calls made from the room and the phone numbers that were called. (This was before cell phones.)  My ex called some of the numbers and made some gals quite upset.

The second time I was seeing a gal in a hotel in my home town (mistake #1), with my big red Buick parked right out in front (mistake #2).  My ex saw my car parked outside the hotel and quickly put 2 and 2 together.  She went up to the front desk and showed her ID to get my room number and knocked on the door.  I was still waiting for the gal to show up, so I opened it without even looking out the peephole (mistake #3, game and match)  

Of course the gal showed up just seconds after my ex did.  We weren't exactly in the mood after that, if you can imagine.

Now in the age of the internet and TER I am a sadder Budweiser boy.  So all you gents out there read up on this and be safe.

your post is such a rant that I dont think it would lead to an interesting discourse.

Guess you didn't like it however....what was wrong with him seeing a gal for an extended session of a year or three?  LOL

Delete your browsing history, I failed to do so once and suffered consequences.

Than to allow one of us to defile you?

If you are really that hot, I volunteer to be "used" by you to get back at him.

Come to think of it, that's how I lost my virginity all those many years ago. A pissed off ex GF of one of my buddies older brothers wanted to get back at him by not only fucking some other guy, but a friend of his younger brother. Right place, right time, I suppose. lol

Wouldn't want a reputation, would you? lol

try to see it from the wife/SO's point of view. I know you are all about open relationships and that cool. Most civvies are not. And there usually is a sense of rage followed by extreme sadness.

Every woman who finds out feels a huge sense of betrayal. Also knock it off with the comments about old women. you'll be there one day. You'll be menopausal one day. I was knocked into it early because of a procedure to fix the problem of very painful, debilitating fibroids.

You come off as WAYYYY to cocky sometimes. Yes you' re hot, but try and have some humility some times! Yelling fucking cunt at a woman in public? Asking her what her problem was or saying what the hell doesn't attack her on a level crassness. Her behavior probably came from a place of extreme hurt and pain. She should not have smashed into your cart true, but really? Was your pup really injured, I doubt it.

Also for your own safety, saying those things to a woman probably scorned and maybe a tad crazy at the time could end badly. People like that have been know to  blow someone's head off in a moment of insane rage.

Think about bringing it down a notch, "young blood", lol. There are some "old broads" on here ya know!

Stay sexy,

Steph

Will you file a restraining order to gagambler for avoiding to talk to you?   Why do you stalk dudes now,  do you find them more attractive?  

discusses hating her johns.

Posted By: MatureGFE

try to see it from the wife/SO's point of view. I know you are all about open relationships and that cool. Most civvies are not. And there usually is a sense of rage followed by extreme sadness.

Every woman who finds out feels a huge sense of betrayal. Also knock it off with the comments about old women. you'll be there one day. You'll be menopausal one day. I was knocked into it early because of a procedure to fix the problem of very painful, debilitating fibroids.

You come off as WAYYYY to cocky sometimes. Yes you' re hot, but try and have some humility some times! Yelling fucking cunt at a woman in public? Asking her what her problem was or saying what the hell doesn't attack her on a level crassness. Her behavior probably came from a place of extreme hurt and pain. She should not have smashed into your cart true, but really? Was your pup really injured, I doubt it.

Also for your own safety, saying those things to a woman probably scorned and maybe a tad crazy at the time could end badly. People like that have been know to  blow someone's head off in a moment of insane rage.

Think about bringing it down a notch, "young blood", lol. There are some "old broads" on here ya know!

Stay sexy,

Steph

Common sense and compassion.

Unless they fight each other over me, which has never happened and I have no fear that it ever will.

I completely understand both points of view as I have been on both sides of the coin.

so, you don't think you're talking to a girl who sounds like Angle

What if marketing didn't exist, would retards sell?

Use Chrome in "Incognito" mode - so much easier..

Thank goodness. It sucks that the ladies you mentioned felt compelled to contact you at all. It's not your fault or your business that he is cheating on his wife. And they always seem to blame everyone except themselves for their husband straying. Certainly its his fault and its his cross to bear (as it were). But its also these women's fault. They don't take care of themselves, they get the old lady hair styles and don't bother with any make up and sit around eating bonbons and then wonder why he strays. Case and point Gen Patreus' wife, oh my goodness, that woman looks like she hasn't even tried to look good in the last decade. It's no wonder why he had an affair. If she looks that awful in photos, imagine how hideous she must look when she crawls out of bed in the morning, shivers just ran up my spine thinking about it.

and I like her. She goes a little haywire sometimes and I know why, but that's her story to tell, but she's discussed some of it on the boards.

She is mostly a sweet, hot, sexy thang. This post just really got under my skin.

Steph xoxo

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The part about you not being shallow that is, I am going to name a river after you, we will call it Rio Russ,  it will be a mile wide and an inch deep,that's  SHALLOW if I've ever seen it. Just for you. lmao

and for the record, I am every bit as shallow as you, maybe even worse.

You're absolutely right. I stand corrected. I am shallow. Hello, my name is Russ and I'm a shallow bastard.

... at least you are off my nuts now.

and yes, lather, rinse, repeat. I plan on doing exactly that by about mid week. pura vida

I've heard guys say their SO is attractive and they have sex regularly but "they don't like to eat steak everyday of the week" or it "enhances their marriage to get some strange on the side".

Everyone has their reasons for what they do and it's not always because the wife is ugly or fat, ect.

Steph

so put the blame where it belongs - on mongers who are too stupid to be doing business with....

She's even older than me!

Could self-parody have existed before parody?  Does self-parody sell?  What if it didn't?

LOL, i didnt say i was HOT, i said i work in the beauty industry, but  i think im pretty, it was never about how i looked as the reson he chose to do this, it was because we were having personal issues, it was a fantasy of his and so i gave him a hall pass, he chose to go ABOVE AND BEYOND what we agreed to, THAT is what almost did us is!!!   and sorry hun, but i am crazy in love with my hubby, so no paybacks will be happeing here!!!!  

i am actually a plus size girl or "FAT" as you like to call it, but i DO take care of myself, i wear makeup daily as i work with it, i have no choice, and being 45 yers old i do NOT have an old lady hair style, my hair is long and red, and well taken care or, ialso work out several days a week, but as my goal isnt to be skinny but healthy i do not feel the need to live up to others standard of what they think is perfect, my husband is ALSO a larger man  and i in NO WAY find him less attractive for it, and i will say that one of the ladys he saw was not as attractive as i am (his words) but she was cheap, even though she is VERY well reveiwed, she usually gets 5s and 6s for looks, so its NOT always about wanting better than what you already have, oh and even though i am a BIGGER girl, i have NO problem "showing off" my body, and i NEVER lack for attention when i do.

I'm single, and would never cheat on an so..
I would just dump her ass..

I am a nerd. I have no earthly idea what "at least you are off my nuts" means.

it's when he starts to make sense to you that you need to start worrying. In the meantime just treat him like that annoying elevator music, you know it's there, but you don't really pay any attention to it, except of course when they turn the volume way up, but we have a mute button here on TER. lol

Saying you were a nerd, I was glad you found a friend.

but I will have to say my persona is retarded.

I like to see what goes up... and what doesn't.

I DID NOT (since you like to caps your words for emphasis) cheat on my ex wife, I clearly stated in my post that I didn't start my hobby until after the divorce, because I don't think she deserved to be betrayed

I thought you were a gutless, brain-dead pussy.  But you're not?
Ok.  If you say so.

Jungian Slip, Nick, it's a dream variant on her curves, only chiseled out of stone, non-organic and cold.

Pimpathy, Rapathy and international terrorism?

We live to an old age. Very fortunate we retain a degree of health and good looks. Thanks Steph. No matter what, she should never involve herself in a domestic dispute. A good way to wind up dead right.

Who puts you back in line when you act out in public?

All of you..
Shut up!

What if rape fantasies come true and you end up raping your daughter?  What then?   Your daughter is to blame?

Even more so if you actually happen to be female.

Are you with the counterintelligence agency?

But that was a funny video.
Tell us: did you rape the Corgi after you shot it

If you as an escort were using a burner phone and taking incall at a place that you didn't live in (both basic precautions), how did the wives find you?

What if the world was just a hologram and you never really exist?  
What then?

Thank you for your concern i appreciate it , i was scared to death to do the 3some,but did....and it was the best thing ever,we are more connected now than ever before......and as for him doing it again,i know he wont,hes always despised cheating, this was a one time thing, a hall pass sort of deal.....so im good there....he saw the devestation it caused me once.he cant stand to see me like that again, and we only hobby together now.  

Posted By: RobbinYoung

Posted By: vegasgirllover

Yes,i found out anout my husband seeing not one but two escorts last oct in vegas........i will say i sorta gave him permission...told him to get it out of his system......what i DIDNT know was that he saw one in august when she was touring.....he saw her again in vegas....now i didnt care that he was going to fuck someone else,be cause it was just a fuck....what devestated me was that he took them to shows and expensive dinners and sent them a shit ton of gifts....and he became freinds w them on twitter and text....he got wayyyyy more involved than he should have.....and he saw one outside of our agreement. ....it was to be vegas only.......also i wk in the beauty industry so i am well put together. ......but we have been married a longggg time and were having lots of trouble..........have i stalked or blamed the providers? No (one did tell him to divorce me though,but he shut her down quick) to me it was my husbands fault,not the escorts, and i will say the good that came out of it far outweighs the bad, i am now in the hobby as well, we only see providers together........i feel bad for the women that this does happen to,but the wives need to blame the proper person...the husbands.....and to they guys out there cheating,i say get out of the marriage if its that bad, this almost ruined mine,but lucky for my husband i wasnt going down without a fight....and i think he was more damaged from hurting me than i was.........i say if your unhappy or not getting what u need at home,then leave first and play second.....  
 

   
 I remember reading your numerous threads and posts on the Las Vegas board.  At the time, I thought you seemed too nervous/excited about a 3-sum, and I hoped you could handle it.    
   
 I'm sorry for what happened to you, and hope you and your husband engage in marriage counseling, before adding another person to your relationship.  
   
 I lovingly give you this advice, from one who experienced a similar situation with my ex-fiance (years ago, before I was a provider).  I learned, no matter what I did to try to please him, nothing was ever enough.  Also...Leopards Never Change Their Spots...so, I dumped him.

That is kinda funny i cant picture you being caught in those situations,,,

it is best to just ignore people like that, The stories about my arguments and drama with guys on beach. I had a neighbor i told story too immediatly after I talk to alot and she said same thing, Dont even give people the time of day its not worth it, Another neighbor witnessed one the events on beach and alos gave me a fatherly lecture on how i shouldnt get into it with people . Then he said but i know you cant NOT get into it with people when they attack or start with you, Its true i have a hard time being the bigger person and i often stoop to that level and join in the anger and negativity, I try not too who wants to fight with people it drains your energy thats for sure, there are way more things to expend energy on and they are actually fun!  
 Advice taken, Thank you, You guys are smarter than me and bigger than me, I stoop to peoples level and fire back at them all day long and with out regard for the concecuences, I been in MANY a street fight from my not backing down and having a wise ass mouth right back with well people who wanna start with me, MANY MANY a bloody street fights, So I should learn by now it aint worht it, But it is sometimes to see the look of sheer terror on thier face as you kick their head in and win a fight! hehehe.

consistant and my interpersonal relationship skills are TERRIBLE.  
 I am stricken with borderline personality disorder, but am working on it and it has ruined and is still a torment I live with and it is a TOTAL buzz kill and tiring and overwhelming....
   In the definition link below it states "Intense anger and irratability THE REASON FOR WHICH OTHERS HAVE DIFFICULTY UNDERSTANDING."
 My therapist I have met with since 5 years ago just diagnosed me months ago after I hitch hikes to Conn.  then over-drue  bank account .Then took in a pigeon that was beginning to rot and half dead that I thought had bonded with me since it drank water out a bowl I held in hands. I found it in a parking lot in a pool of blood and put him in a carry case meant for a cat then got obsessed with saving its life and didn't do appts. when I should've and ended up finding an animal hospital to take him to save him. I managed to get the maintenaince guy at hotel to drive me in his pick up truck with country music playing it was a total crazy person scenerio yes i realize I don't make sense what is the point in pointing this out repeadedly we all know that....  
     Oh , yes, well in response to your wanting to show links to my saying I hate the johns. I do wish I could hold a job and wasn't awaiting disability which my therapist suggest I apply for . Got approved while back in 08 but been too proud so i escort, It is a way to make food and rent , it isnt fun , no, but i pretend it is ok as a survival mechanism of sorts and pretend to like it and just tell myself that,
          I wish I didnt have to fuck guys for rent and food money,I been relying on guys for 18 years for food and places to live, With out this job I d be in a homeless shelter and was last time I tried and did stop escorting, Proud of that?No. But thats me thats my story since you apparently want to draw attention to my short comings. It really doesnt concern you and wasnt nessecary since that was a great thread topic.... But any hoo.
           Trust me times when I feel I have even cryed at appointments, Friday I had a full blown break down at just a massage appt. Imagine how embarrasing break downs are at work in front of customers and a store full of people? I once threw a donut at some fat assholes head that gave me shit and got fired that day. He also threatened to call police ! Over a fuckn donut!
      I do bounce back and forth from hate or love with every one in my life, Co workers, associates, family. i am either obsessed and overhjoyed or like all a sudden outta no where hate the fuck outta the person, Trust me you hot the nail on the head. Are you sure your a cpa not a psychologist? Maybe you should switch your career.  
 Very smart  ,,,. Yoy figured me out, I have 3 or 4 other mental disorders and go to therapy 3 times a month and take some medications also to help me.
What is your point here?
 I have sever mood swings every one is aware hun.  
 You totally dont need to hunt down my old posts on hating johns for any reason under this thread here where I am attempting to like start a good conversation, I like thought this one out man! I actually ran it by 2 people before fucking posting it too. Geezus, Can i geta fuckin break like at some fuckin point here?  
 It seems i cant postf anything with out some one proclaiming how much space i rent in thier head, I dont get why you care what i think anyway whats it to you???????do tell?
 Sucks but evry one has issues, I was abandoned and physically abused as a kid and I also have mental disorders atop that to boot. So I landed where i landed and for most part am pretty satisfied with my life as a whole, the craziness is such a part of my life that i have grown quite accustomed to it and know how to handle it, Diet , excercize, activities that bring me peace,
 Today during a massage i did deep breathing , and remained silent and focused and positive white light energy for a whole 40 min, It dam near drove me nuts i am always hyper and love to talk. BUT activities like that are whats going to help in long run. Many tld me that medititation can help.
 Any hoo yes i am crazy but I manage and have many outlets to use as therapeutic activities ti cope, ...
   But yes i do either hate or love thingsm Its never in the middle its one extreme or the other and things or my view of everything bounces back from hate to love despixe or am obsessed, Odd thing is there is no meds for b.p.d. and the only thing they suggest is d.b.t or dialectal behavioral therapy WHICH if you ever read my bio graphy on my web site i mention is one of my new hobbies!
                                 No one hear is sane at all i could pycho analyze you totally. I d say you definetly havesome form of serious mental illness also but your in a genration that didnt accept that and doesnt believe in medications or counseling, My mums generation, She is 64, I d take a gander your some where in that generation the old school as i d call em, I d guess you maybe are a sociopath, or anti social disorder personality, or adhd, People with adhd would rather have an argumant than a normal conversation cuz the adrenaline produces in an argument actually helps them concentrate better.....
                       I d guess ALL the usual suspects that frequent this board , especially the ones that get into it with other alot, Probly would benifit from seeing a therapist and possibly taking some form of medication, I dont see anything wrong with knowing what mentak issues . I am probly more sane than most because i actually DO go to counseling and have for 18 years since i was committed at 15 and diagnosed with a severe anxiety disorder and bipolar, Come to find out I have ptsd adhd and bpd now too,
                      MY wiring is a tad off dont make me a bad person, the key is to better yourself and never stop workin g on yourself, Which i dont...
   I now I am a tad loopy and off I am ok with it, You dont have to be ,,,Luckily we arent friends or lovers so you arent ever gonna have to be in my life or struggle or drama i may live or lived through, Just be grateful your not me i guess?

COULDVE SAID HOW ANGRY I WAS AT HER FOR STALKING ME IN A STORE AND PLAYING BUMPER CARTS WITH ME FOR AN HOUR  MY ENTIRE GROCERY STORE TRIP.  
 With out making or poking fun at older aged women or menapause, Your right i am gonna get menapuse soion i am 33.
So yes that wasnt very cool. Sorry.....
 what else is new I said stupid isiotic dumb ass stuff? that seems to be the routine here with me,,,,grrrr. dqm yiu angle ...what the fuck is wrong with you angular angle crazy katahootchie psycho,
 You know my 2 closest friends one calls me psycho, other calls me crazy, He says hey whats up crazy?  
 That was not crazy it was rude, .. i dont mind being crazy but rude is worse..

get pissed over the bumper carts game that goes on there, Never mind by a super aggressive lady that was intentionally trying to get a rise outta me and pushing my buttons!
 I knew for fact it was a customers wife i just felt it. It was not like i was imagining she was like aggresively stalking and ramsakcing all around me, And yes she just had that jealous lady thing goin on like you say your wife would get at gym, I could just tell that was where she was at in her life, The husband is straying she is just given up so it my fault some how!
 My dog was in a carry case in cart and  he does have a problem with his ears so if they get hit or ricochet off sides a carry case he  just may yelp, He yelps if a client go to scrathc his ears and i forget to say dont touch ears, I have to take to vet AGAIN after i pay july and august rent, I didnt work last week cuz I really wanted to try my best to get the apartment in as good a shape as i can , After the bad reviews makin fun my place. I wasnt in a position too but i took a week of and just cleaned and cleaned, I cant work and do thorough cleaning in same day cuz I get tired easy cuz my fibro and all my meds i am on ... Its one or the other.

shallow, He even said she wasnt JUST fat she was bitter at the other girls tight clothes, She could still wear tight clothes too, I have a big ass and istill rock tight sexy outfits with matching sneakers and lipstick and prance my ass around on the beach with my 1980s dumbells. He just didnt like the negative attitude that went with her lack of self care, I eat hella lotta sugar and junk but not til after i ate a ton of fruit and veggies and I totally get it, Its not beig shallow at all. It was the atitude that accompanied her letting herself go, You bet your ass if you still wear those tight clothes even if you dont look as good as them and you swagger when you walk or as i do I kind of sashay, he just didnt like her negative attitude change that followed that he now associates with the letting herself go after the marriage,  
 You can let yourself go a tad and let loose with yer bon bons and still make a small effort just for moods sake,

stalking the lady or guys in one case the bf cheated on me with, I just got even and cheated right back, Then told them about it,
 Both guys i speak of wouldnt own up to it with me but i had found out they did,,.
                          Both timjes i just cheated on them had some strange had some fun, Strange is hella fun when you been lookin at the same dick for year. I understand the guys cheating and or ladies.
                SOOO. I CAN blame the wife that harrased me and allowed herself to furthermore allow it to escalate to getting physical by smashin into me SEVERAL times.... because I AM NOT IN A RELATIONSHIP. I can fuck whomever I please, .  
 So the negative character, It isn't a negative characterization.  
                    She was being physically violent with a women she never met, . I didnt make vows to her or him, She need take that up with him and either cheat back, divorce, or whatever its thier life.  
               Attacking and stalking me, ramming her cart into mine and yes she was scary. Looking and acting,  
 I have every right to spaz ,
             So lets say tables turned, Let me play devils advocate, Lets just say that I am married. You don't know or care, your just a male massuese whom makes house calls. I hire you, I pay you and get my massage.
       Now days later your washing you car at a car wash and a guy keeps walking circles around you and body slamming you with an eveil look.  
         Would you my dear have a negative characterization of this man? How would you handle,. If YOU got pissed and ragged on him in a thread WOULD THAT REFLECT on you my friend as a male massuse that makes house calls?  
 HMMM> yeah thats what i thought, Think before you speak . That made no sense, Fucking negative characterization my ass! HA your a riot, And it reflects on me as a provider? REALLY? seriously?  
 WOW. and i thought my posts dont make sense, That just fed my godam ego that takes the cake for pychotic psycho babble that dont make an iota of sense award, That trumps any my rants,
    HA "negative characterization!"
 reflects on me as a provider, No it does not reflect on my that a guys wife was bashing into my cart so I got pissed and made fun of her, What should i do offer her over for coffee or buy her roses then? Tell me then smarty pants how as a provider one should respond to a scorned wife that stalks you in a store and is getting physical, Please do school me on how a "good" provider should act so it reflects good on her, School me bro, Since you with 144 reviews are a seasoned hobbyist, NOT hobbyist, Your not a provider, So you have no place telling me how anything is gonna reflect on me as a provider,  
 That has nada to do with my skills or my place as a provider, That is off the clock and at that moment at that store i wasnt working and was enjoying picking out groceries which is one my favorite activities actually,  
 And the oh! you may be in that situation one day! I was, I am 33 .. How can you think in 33 years I never as of yet experienced being a scorned lover, Are you 5 years old and that dense?
                    Who is in thirties and never experience a cheater by that point, We all been there hun,  
 And i sure as fuck didnt go after the lady or in another case it was several guys,with a bi guy I dated and he wouldnt own up to it, He cheated with men and women and never would admit, I dont care if guys cheat actually but let me have fun too, If they cheat all i ask is then i get an allowance of one cheat too,  
 I enjoy variety too. But if we arent poly then i wont, It aint fair what you said at all. I cant really blame the wives?
 what if I was i situation? I never would go after the people they cheated on me with, OR call police on em!
 Are you serious! I cant blame his wife for ratting on me so i have to move from my home?wow.  
 Your first sentence contadicts the last 2, Is it the mongers are to blame too stupid to do business with?Or is it the wives fault for reacting in a childish and vindictive way when I am single and i am not breaking a vow to them, They need take that up with the man in question not the lady he cheats with hun.
                           If you cheat and your wife goes and rats out your atf and she then has to move. The provider is a bad person for being upset and ranting about your snicth miserabe wife, or worse lets say one of the 140 ladies you seen has your wife follow them in a store and smash into thier cart a sick dog is in, It then reflect on them as aprovider for being angry???your a total dumb ass.

So lets calla spade a spade, .  
 If i was tooturn around and start slamming my cart into a lasy that my man cheated on me with then it her fault not mine for initiating getting violent or stalking a person, That is never a good solution and no one ever deserves that, The husband is lying and betraying her, I am not married, I have no one to ansewer too and i will and do , fuck as many and whom ever i please and will continue too,  
                    How do i take zero precaution it is common sense any adult with a brain should know if they are cheating not to use thier cell they can have a wife be reading the call log or bill of.  
That isnt my responsibility and if i chose to jump her and slice her face in the parkin lot after then who's fault would it be? Mine still????
   So you WERE gonna leave the state to see me but now not because a lady stalked me in a store and i got angry? What the fuck.  
    I dont ignore any advice advice for saftey or anonimity I aint married bro, If a dude lies to his spouse and she attacks me after thats on her and reflects how ignorant and blind and idiotic she is to believe he isnt gonna do it again cuz she does something vindictive toward me. Thats actually not having to do with me at all.
                                   I CANT work from hotel cuz I cant do more than one gfe a day cuz I am suffering fron a debilitating pain disorder, I am trapped in this situation for what its worth, I cant do a hotel for discretion purposes. So dont go attackin me for the way i live or make my rent and food moey unless you walked a mile in my shoes first and knew my reasoning behind things,  
 I cant even operate a cell phone so use a landline with the large buttons easy to press and agin thats from fibro.
 It IS NOT my fault hun so stop flippin it around , IT WAS A STORY about the topic and either answer the fuckin question or move on, It wasnt a thread about " So was I in the right here guys or was i in the wrong."
 That wasnt the thread.
 I was giving an account of my experience when a clients wife found out about me and another account that happend, Any one that knows me knows I am get anxiety at hotels, I tried using them and would get there then freeze up and not even make my moeny back. I aint in this to bank it hun so get your facts straight before you insult people you dont know.
            I do the bare minimum to survive that doesnt ever give any human an right to attack me or worse get physically violent by smashing into me. And my dog. Nor does it warrant an excuse for going to the police on some one .
 There is never an excuse for that and the person who is the victom has a right to be on the defense, has a right to want to vent and discuss thier feelings on the incedent they experienced.
               The part about making fun fo menapausal older women wasnt cool i agree, But now all you guys saying it was my fault and i was asking for it and i should follow safety requirements,  
                           YOUR DEAD WRONG. The guy who s married should have enough respect to put an effort in to protect my privacy from his wife especially if she is crazy .I would take the safety suggestions but have my own reasons for doing business the way that i do and that STILL isnt ever my fault .  
 So if i get raped or robbed is it my fault too?
   "Dont get bent all dick hurt when crazy ugly women start looking for you though.  
It's kinda your own fault."
WOW thanks, thank! wicked cool of you, thank alot, wicked nice of you, what a fuckin dick,

at this stage in time to afford a seperate incall. I never in my life have been able too, I am not doing this cuz i want to make alotta money i have ohysical and mental problems and i cant work, Nor can i drive.
 My situation sucks but i have to live in it, It still isnt my fault nor do i deserve to be attacked by guys wiives ever, For doing what i do so i dont have to live at jolyns or transitions in mattapan, You all dont know my life or why I dont have the hotels or seperate apts, I cant even get rent on time for one apartment,  
   I am lucky mr fisher paid my cable bill of 600 last week before it got shut off. I also am lucky that appt friday didnt leave after i couldnt stop crying cuz I was trying to do a massage even though my fibro was actin up so bad i could lean over well with out extreme agony.
 You dont know why my reasoning is and why my work habits are what they are so dont judge me. And dont ever say the person whom was acttacked or the victom is to blame, That is super rude and mean and just not cool. In any way....... Your dead wrong, I didnt deserve to have cops called cuz HER husband cheats, How do i deserve to get ratted on cuz a guy is betraying a lady he took vowes with?
 Cuz i cant afford a seperate apt? why does that ean i deserve to have to move from my home last minute, I didnt ever deserve that and it sucked,
           If you have story about the topic cool. I wasnt asking for your two cents on how you think i deserved it, I was trying to start a conversation. Thanks for contributing, I feel so much better now, Very valuable to the tiopic glad you gave your opinions.

I wasnt involved in adomestic dispute.

Take a breath, try to calm yourself. These kinds of posts only get you worked up and that ends up hurting you.

Stay sexy Angel!

Steph xoxo

to be desired....