I read it as "this girl really loves money"  

...that was willing to converse with me via email a couple of times. She's in a different city and won't be her until April so the email exchange was short but I value all the feedback and info the women can graciously give me in their busy lives.
I asked what percentage was for love of sex and what percentage was for love of money or was it 100% for both.
She said 100% for both. I know for a fact that everyone is different, but I thought this might be true for many.
I think the money gets rid of all the bull that is out there irl, and the two people (or three are able to just enjoy the moment. Sure the SW is performing and enjoying performing especially if that performance is giving pleasure to their client. I keep it gender neutral because I have been avidly reading a male escort's web page and that is where I get most of my information about this topic. The money allows the SW to take charge and allows the client to relax and enjoy. If the client is relaxed then I think the SW can enjoy as well.
my 99 cents.

The message brought to you by those clients who claim they have brought the provider to Multi "O" with their ATM length, pencil thick member.

…to get money as a reward for it, which she may love, also.  

Getting your information from web pages is like wanting to become an expert on cars by reading car company advertisements.  

For sex work to be seen as work. Nobody expects their surgeon to love cutting, or their maid to like cleaning, or their accountant to like numbers, or they're therapist to enjoy listening. Yes they can expect a positive and polite disposition, like in any business.  

Look, I love gardening, but dealing with the people who but my veggies gives me a headache. One can love coding, but not love each and every assignment they get. The "do what you love never work a day" phrase is so tired and inaccurate. You can love your job and not love every aspect.  

I have met all different types, ages, and personalities.  There seems to me many different dynamic formulas as to how a woman comes to the P4P world and then either moves on or stays in it as a profession, to those who thrive and absolutely love it resulting in a blend of personal, professional, emotional and financial reasons.  The latter being the special ones who truly provide a GFE experience IMO, even to the point where the lines sometimes blur between performance art/fantasy and a connection at some level/reality.  I don't think I am delusional, rather have been party to a wide spectrum of experience.  I am a more mature fellow and bring my own unique alchemy to the equation which truly is the erotic mystery, adventure and fun to be had; and on some very rare and special occasions everyone is just loving the one they are with in that one moment in time.

You sounds exactly like the guys I'm referring to. Your "own unique alchemy"???? Where do you get this stuff? Is there a course our book on writing cheesy literotic reviews that gets passed around?

I am sorry you fell out of bed on the wrong side today.  And yes, I am a unique person and bring something along to the meeting besides an envelope.  You can think I am delusional but it does not change my experience or feelings.  I don't need you to validate them, just as yours are what they are, and I am not going to judge them (even if tempted to).

at some point.

We live in, hobbying at least.  It's the same way I feel reading reviews that say "this girl loves Greek!"  Cracks me up.  When you look on the menu for the prices it's $400 for Non-GFE, $500 for GFE and $800 for PSE with Greek.  Yes, I can really see that you love Greek.  

Work is work, but consider something like acting (stage, TV, movies...)  People have to work hard and there is a lot of competition ... but many amateurs practice for months and put on plays and musicals for free.  

... but I've known a few providers who really did love sex and loved their jobs. One of them was insatiable and was the only provider to wear me out in a one-hour session.  She's retired now, got married (to a lucky guy!). Another is thinking of retiring soon as her SO got a job with big money but has to travel a lot, so she wants to spend more time at home with their kids and working on another business they have.  But she told me that she's planning to do part-time p4p then because she needs more sex than what her SO can give her.  She's told me she really loves what she does, except when she gets an asshat client and that doesn't happen to her often.

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Never did I say that providers can't love their jobs. Nor did I say that no provider loves her job. So your point is sort of irrelevant.

Too bad the really bad providers can't get fired.

I did talk about providers who love sex.  I never said you don't think providers can't love their jobs. I just gave some examples of providers I know who happen to love sex AND love their jobs.

Pretending there aren't at least some providers that actually really do "love sex" is about as narrow minded  and foolish as "needing" her to be that way to have a good time.

Just like every review is going to always be positive. (It’s not the case.) Although, I think that the better adjusted (maybe call it maturity), will find something positive to say in client/provider relationships.

No day in day out for me. Each experience I have is different and unique, some better than others. Some absolutely wonderful.

Everyone chooses for whatever reason to enter this world. Part of my reason is somewhat therapeutic. Just as much as I have found being inked therapeutic or disappearing into the wilderness on my own for extended periods of time.  

I won't argue the point that some providers, and you sound like a good example of one, may enjoy your work but that does not mean we as consumers should read anything into the fact that you seem to be having a good time while doing so. Maybe you are simply being polite and positive, but I would dare say many of us can tell the difference as while someone can be a good actress but we're a pretty sharp bunch, and that doesn't mean we can't tell you are acting nonetheless.

they like sex with ALL of their clientele.  Most of the girls I see ONLY like sex with me, because they tell me that when I see them.  I've known most of them a long time, so I think I can trust them when they tell me something like that as I'm handing them the envelope.  

I get indirect therapy all the time, from bartenders, hookers, et al, but NEVER from some douche bag shrink spouting psycho babble at hooker prices without ever pouring me a drink or sucking my dick. lol

Having a job I truly love makes my life extremely easy.
   
   Being securely employed in a great job with absolutely no concerns what other people think
 about my line of work, is a truly great feeling, and an awesome way to greet my  mornings,  
never mourning when there's negativity outside my World .  
   
   I love my country and my haters.  
   
  Different strokes for different folks.  

Ha! yes I am nosy and I didn't expect the exchange to last. But to be fair she did offer some insight into her motivations before I asked.
I bet there are a whole spectrum of reasons for people to do this work...perhaps because everyone is different.

Well said! I too have a job that requires me to be "on" and creative for extended periods of time to provide good service to my customers.
It's exhausting! and I don't even have sex with them lol

There's only one of us in this room that needs to cum.  

many people do love their jobs

Also that there needs to be reciprocity.  

if you can't trust the providers you're dating then you might want to date better providers

...that the love of the money goes up in an inversely proportional relationship with how much of a jerk the client is being. The more the client is a decent guy, doesn't give her grief for no real reason, maybe gets to know her for 10 minutes before getting naked -- well, then her enjoyment factor goes up considerably.

why on earth would we give them money....  

my view of the work I am lucky enough to be able to do is different from the one you suggest. I do expect the surgeons to whom I send my patients to love what they do and to do it with a passion.  
Like anyone, I like to get paid for what I do, but I am not working for money. Only once in my professional life was I working for money and I soon arranged a change in my professional situation.  
I love taking care of my patient.  It is my work,my profession, and I get paid, but I love what I do.  I often work on my week ends off and I always leave vacation time on the table at the end of the year.
I don't like all of my patients, but I love taking care of every one of them.  
I cannot put myself int he place of a sex worker or an accountant  or a construction worker or my colleagues (many of whom complain a lot about work conditions) I can only report that for me, at age 75, I have almost always loved what I do for a living and still do.

Awesome response! Let's get rid of the jerks!

i hope her love of money motivates her to do the best acting she can.... like she can't get enough of my ugly face, ugly dick, and nasty cum.

Exactly! I will go one further. She better love the money and I'm paying her to act like she loves sex with me and then I get to leave.
How she acts with everyone else is none of my business.

pretty spot on ^^^^

Do I love sex? Yes.  Do I love sex with every client I meet? No.
Do any of them know which one is which? No.
If I'm really not in the mood for it with anyone I don't work at all. That's the beauty of this job. If I'm horny as all hell then I can work more. If I start feeling a bit jaded or like my job is rubbish I take a holiday and after a while I start wishing I was back at it again and I plan my next availability.

If one has partied long enough, one does encounter the occasional woman who loves sex. The signs are abundant, and it's such a pleasure to make such a discovery. Usually their prices are low, and they'll see you anytime. The only drawback is that you better bring your A game, otherwise, money or not, you might not get invited back. That adds to the pressure, but it's fun pressure.  

Re: pretty spot on ^^^^

Well said.

I personally truly enjoy sex, romance and company. Of course money is great too...but I am not desperate enough to do things to my body and well being for some money. There are other ways.

I can honestly say over 90% of my dates in the "hobby" have been great!! I cannot see how that would be possible if the provider didn't seem to at least get SOME enjoyment out of it!! I honestly believe (as several have commented throughout this thread) that it's the financial rewards AND the enjoyment of the work that steers women into this life.

many providers provide this service. providers can be nymphomaniacs too

Saw a tweet that said something to the effect that nothing turns her on more than getting that payment.
Read on and she says stuff like she can relax because her business is working, she can pay the bills, book that vacation, etc. A relaxed woman is someone that can now provide a sexy service.  
Be a gentleman, pay up front in a nice card, watch your own time, give HER a massage, book 90 min or more, use a nail file, shower.....all these things can relax you date and lead to better service and an unforgettable time.
The sex is a bonus is my motto.

I think many girls get burnt out a little, perhaps due to volume.  The girls I've known who really disliked their work were generally high volume providers.  And yes, some of them truly dislike the job and even their clients.  But we are not all like that.  Some ladies are truly in this for the love of the game as much as the money.  Sure not every client is a peach, but enough are.  The anticipation of meeting someone new, the thrill of having sex with a stranger, these can be a positive attraction.  Also, some of you gentlemen who practice the hobby regularly have learned a few tricks and are pretty good lovers.

What an excellent answer!  You, dear friend are quite a clever woman.

I think it's great that a guy with as much experience as you can come here and give such sage advice to the rest of us poor saps that have been fumbling around for decades without the benefit of your vast wealth of knowledge on the subject.

Well said. The most that can be said is that providers dont mind the work, and in some cases genuinely like the hobbyists they are seeing.  

I feel the same way. I really do love sex! I decided to start doing this to keep me in check actually. It makes more sense to do it with respectful gentleman that gives me a donation rather than random tinder hookups for free. I'm only raising my rates because I was drowning in emails and I'd like to thin the herd so to speak.

Maybe it's because I follow the mantra of stick with well reviewed providers but I have been with very few ladies that didn't seem to "really love sex". If they didn't they put on a good show of it and really, what would be the difference and why would you care?