So, what body language do you notice ?

- Hold eye contact ...
- Fix her hair ..
- Start a conversation ...
- Put up a smile ...

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When she is happy and excited to see you, sitting/leaning/standing closer to you, crossing her leg towards you, touching your arm once in awhile, laughing at your jokes, smiling a lot, eye contact, actually interested in what you have to say, conversation going smoothly, she doesn't play hard to get, flirts a lot, doesn't wait for you to take initiative all the time, makes fun of you in a playful way, compliments you. Main ones I could come up with.

OHHHLALALA

You gotta earn that tang tang in the civie world bro.
The written exam I pass every time.
It's the oral exam I have trouble with!
J/K
They will test your integrity. Keep an eye out.
It's subtle.

I've noticed a lot of that stuff too. But could that also just be a product of having good chemistry?
I do this with people I want to be friends with, in general. Touchy Feely.

I have never heard that one before. "tang tang".
But I'm kinda feelin it?

I usually get nervous and start fidgeting by twirling my hair or biting my lips.  

I wonder if guys notice my attraction and the fact that my nervous body language is giving me away...

XXX-Giselle

And the rest of the responses are board (not bored) guys who are trying to tell the rest of us what girls send as signals when they are attracted to a guy.

This is a board about paying for sex, right?  I'm sure that some providers and some clients cross the lines and get into things with each other because there is some attraction, but I guess I'm chuckling because the audience and the nature of this board automatically makes the answers a bit suspect.

Not saying that every guy who pays for sex couldn't get it legitimately on his own.  Some guys, like me, just pay for sex because it's easy and convenient sometimes, or because we are trading up to a hotter girl we could not get in civilian life.  So I'm not suggesting that everyone here is a troll that can only get pussy by paying for it.

On the other hand, if we could get pussy that easily, we wouldn't be paying for it unless it was the Charlie Sheen "I don't pay them to come; I pay them to go" mentality.  So how reliable is a client telling the rest of us what a girl does when she is attracted to us?

I'm more inclined to believe the girl's responses, but remember, they are also the ones charging the entry fee to the amusement park.

One example of a girl that seemed to like me:  The hour was up and I was getting dressed.  She helped put on my shirt, then when I tried to pull up my pants she had to kiss Mr Happy goodbye a few more minutes before letting me zip up.  Then as I try to get to the door she grabs me several times for more hugs and DFK...like not letting me leave, well past the hour mark.

Quite different from the girl that smiles and kisses you goodbye as you leave, then slams the lock-bolt as soon as the door is closed.  That has happened more than once.



One I will never forget...she was a young girl, probably 19 or 20.  Saw her on the 22nd floor of the Sheraton, Boston.  At the end of the hour we stood by the window and I named some of the landmarks we could see, as she was from out of state and did not know the area.  My car was parked on the street below and I pointed it out to her.  10 minutes later I get to my car, in such a happy mood I had to look up to the 22nd floor and wave.  I swear I saw her in the window waving back.

Big difference...as for work, her attraction might mean you are a great client and welcome back and her way of expressing this is an invitation to call again. Also, the above might be part of the GF experience and she does it all.

In real life, any or all of the above I would imagine.

you more kisses and extra attention in this business, just like all other

+20

I feel the same way. But had I said it I would have simply gotten in trouble.
I'll just cosign for now

very clean, respectful of an escorts time and boundaries and having the right fee is more attractive and will get you treated very well. I have heard that  looks mean very little...in fact some of the ladies have mentioned that their worst experiences have been with very good looking guys who think their poop doesn't stink and that the ladies owe them something just for being attractive.

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The the ugly, fat guys are treating the ladies better.

I agree that respect will get me a lot further than my looks alone, but its a great combo.

If she touches my arm, it's like a bell ringing. Also, if she does so gently, then obviously, I'm doing something right.