Guys always have stupid ideas about sex-workers....because most guys are dense as a brick.

Big surprise...but it's just a job to them. Just another daily grind that we all go through.

When they aren't "on"...they are just (prepare for the shock of a lifetime) real people.
Women with thoughts, feeling, emotions, families, stress, headaches, and dealing with bullshit on a daily basis...just like the rest of us real people.

Treat them like human beings and not cum dumpsters you cheat on your wife with....and you might expand your horizons...and find more meaningful shit to read.

I remember reading many years ago - I think it was in the book "Everything you wanted to know about sex - but were afraird to ask" that came out in the '60s/70's.  That guys who married former prostitutes hoped that they would get frequent and great sex every day. But in reality, former "providers" were not that different from typical housewives. They had just as many "headaches", "not to night honey", etc. they became typical "PTA" or "soccer moms" once they gave up the profession. Just curious if this perception is true today, some 40 years later?

Why would you think it would have?

Or just respond with your witticisms?

I guess post count is everything, right?

Does that count?

no just kidding. I would make a great house wife.

This is similar to a question I posted in Another thread , I was wondering if many providers were married.  I guess the obverse of this question is would a housewife make a good provider?

Baby, you are hott stuff!  But a housewife???  Bwwwaaaaahahahahaha!  Remember, I've seen your house!
Luv ya, babe!

All I know is, you can't generalize about why, what their marriages are like or anything.  Except they all continue to provide.  For different reasons, too.  In other words, based on what I know, your question has no answer.  Only answers.  Clear?

she does cook in the bedroom, and the living room, and the dining room, and the bathroom.  Even in the kitchen.  Nice girl, too.  Love that tat on her back.  My favorite, and I'm not even that into tats.  Tits, yeah.  And what an ass on that gal...Sheesh!

but since, according to you, you only have time to spend "a few minutes a week" over here, there isnt any way for you to know what I offer, now would you? Ummm...no. And why not? You're WAY too busy hanging out over at that super nifty "other place" with all the dudes. As for me, I'm into dudettes, thank you very much, so as much as your peeps keep trying to pry me away from this cess pool, I'm gonna hang tight.

I wasn't aware that you know SO much about everything and who does what.
Know why I wasn't aware of that?
Because you don't.
Just where do you get the hubris to assume that you know what I, or anyone else does?
You're just talking out of your ass and making shit up. Seems to be your stock in trade, so to speak. And make no mistake....you're not important enough for anyone to "pry" you away from anything. No one gives a rat's ass who you are, how much you think of yourself, and your newfound obsession with this place.

I will say one thing for you though.
At least you were finally smart enough to figure out how to work whether or not you show up on the top posters list. It was fun baiting you to post for a while....just so it would show your real user name. I do love toying with the mental midgets who have delusions of grandeur.
If only you didn't make it oh....so....easy.
Dumbass.

and I really don't mean any offense, though I know it's an offensive thing to say. It's typical of a lot of questions around here that assume that there is one answer to a question about human nature, or human behavior.

Prostitutes are people, contrary to some of the opinion thrown about here. So some ex-prostitutes are nymphos, some have high sex drives and enjoy frequent sex, some just really enjoy pleasing their partner, some have sex when they "have" to, and some avoid it at all costs. Just like regular people.

A guy who gets involved with a provider, "falls" for her, and wins her - and expects the sex to be the same as when he was paying for it is probably an idiot. When he was paying for it, I'm guessing she never said "not tonight, I have a headache". I'm guessing that she was always dressed in garters and spiked heels, always horny, and always had multiple orgasms (honest!) It's her job. Once you settle into a relationship, she might actually have a headache once in a while. She might be in a bad mood, be pissed at you for something, or just not be in the mood to give you athletic sex in nine different positions with a deep throat bbbjnqns finish.

And sometimes they will just want to be held

Seems I knocked you off your equilibrium a bit. I like it. And if no one gives a rats ass who I am, why are you devoting so much time to me? Looks like someone certainly does gives a rats ass...you just don't have the intellectual honesty to admit it. G'night skippy!

Perhaps we need to find you a publishing house that will give you a nice tidy advance so you can write your new book:The metamorphasis and domestication of courtesans. A psychological and intellectual handbook of navigating them back into the mainstream way of life.  
Then we can have you on talk shows with various companionship professionals discussing your book and there experiences as they left the life and entered the mainstream economy. At this point, you could discuss your book and they could discuss any difficulties or barriers as it would relate to their own experiences.

If they are like me and marry a guy they are attracted to and not for money/stability, they won't be like a "typical" housewife.  I'd want sex a lot.  But, because I'm a former provider, I might want to be with one of your friends especially if he looks like you.  But, it's ok, because we can find a hot girl, too.

The boards.  No different than the likes of MDSTUDS2003, halfhour or, more recently, serpius.

Sits at his computer with his dick in his hand whacking off every time he thinks he's funny.  He's like a kid with a new toy.  Been around for six months or so, giving 70% of his reviews 10's and writing just enough of them to keep vip for the alias which probably makes them bogus.

Probably got kicked out by the wife last year and living with mom.  He'll go away when mommy makes him get out and find a job.

If she ever truly enjoyed sex with the man she married she would please him anytime & any place!

men will do, when we don't hold up our end of the bargain. I was married twice and engaged 4 times...sex was the last thing I ever stopped doing. I just get bored with the same "person" up my ass for too long, so my next hubby will live in another state or work offshore lol. I am very domesticated in that I love cooking, cleaning, and taking care of a man I love in every possible way, but if it got to the point I was no longer interested in sex, I would leave. Done deal.

sitting on the porcelain throne the romance/mystery is dead!

 If you want an always eager, willing, and wild sex partner; HOBBY!
If you want true intamacy, acceptance, and partnership; Marry a best friend!

whether the guy who is in the relationship, can handle what the girl does or more improtantly has done. I don't think anyone has mentioned about the woman. Will she be able to handle any ghost from her past, considering she got out of the industry. Will she always be wondering if she is going to run into somebody from her past when her and the new hubby go on vacation. What if that same guy approaches her with a deal for 2 hours? Is the lure of the money stfonger than the happiness of the marriage.

Good questions,

MM

feel the temptation to come back, if she is financially set, and in love on top of that. I would have no desire to be a provider if I got married again, but I would seriously be tempted to post on TER lol. That's my addiction, not the damn hobby.