hbyist truth=;( hit on a touchy subject below; how does one communicate expectations without running afoul of the prohibition against explicit talk?  For example, if I include in an email the statement "I'm very high energy and I hope you are as well," does that adequately communicate my expectations?  Personally I don't say anything explicit in an email or text unless I know the provider quite well, but I'd love to hear some euphemisms providers might be comfortable with, if there are any.

I don't think I ever use euphemisms or code, but I might say that I'm excited about seeing her or that I would like to visit for a longer session in order to get to know her better. Think about wording things so they communicate on two levels, business and social/flirtatious. It's a fun game. Play it.

I'm actually pretty easy, I've always just booked with girls that interested me for one reason or another and for the most part it's worked out fine.  I'm really just curious what guys that have specific expectations do to up the odds that the provider will be on the same page,

Steve Jobs vs. Bill Gates delivery. One energizes the crowd and the other puts them to sleep.

TER's Private Mail is much safer for open/candid communication than is the NSA monitored "E-mail". The problem is some ladies don't utilize PM regularly, or at all. And some ladies are simply not savvy to the fact that PM has far less visibility to government/LE spying.  

Dear SuzySquirtsAlot:
Hi, doll, I hear great things about you  from guys like CPA and GaGambler and would love to add you to the long list of hookers I've boinked.  But I want to be sure about your menu, so please confirm the following by placing a check mark next to each item:
BBBJ?
BBFS?
CIM?
COB?
CIP?
DATY?
DATO?
Rimming?
NSNQ?
If you answered "yes" to all the above, perhaps we can meet.
But I will require a drastically discounted rate if you want a guaranteed 10/10 review.
Yours Truly,
inicky46

Maybe stick with providers you've tried and liked their energy.

I've had little trouble finding the "right" providers for me using reviews, etc.  I was more just curious if anyone had an approach they were comfortable with; I don't plan to send anything except screening info and "are you free at such and such time on such and such day."  If it ain't broke I'm not gonna fix it!

Boy or girl?  

I like a theme so that it makes sense. My theme is cycling

I pay attention to reviews especially to certain people's reviews who have a similar approach to mine

realize my situation is different than most but I love being able to talk explicitly without fear of legal reprisal so that I know how to meet my client's expectations

The answers vary greatly. And going only by that fraction of the "real" person who created each persona out of whatever aspect of themselves, it appears that for some, multilevel communication is second nature while others are less practiced at it. If I knew the persons better, I'd find out if my appraisal is at all accurate.