I do not have an inflated opinion of myself. Average face, almost average below, few extra pounds. when the door opens I am like WOW how lucky can a guy my age get. I really try to please her. Maybe that is why I am having so much fun this year. Makes my time so much better when she convinces me she enjoyed me.

I hung around a lot of really good-looking, raunchy young dudes in my youth...since I was 'one of the guys' they talked about girls as if I wasn't there (well, sometimes they covered my ears). They were predatory and disrespectful. I guess maybe that's what made me skeptical of charm & looks...watching stupid young girls get ensnared, and hearing the dudes relish the telling of sordid tales the next day. Then watching the girls come back time and again, completely infatuated and utterly clueless.  

But you must know, you can't be replaced

Oh by the way darling, I give great foot massages, you and I might get along very well

I'll be honest: I am VERY impressed by good looks. But I'm shallow like that.  

But then again, when I'm drunk even BCG might look pretty to me. LOLOL  :

LOL. Actually Looks like DA beat both of us.

I guess being a guy, I tend to be a lot more visual and used to be very shallow. Maybe still am shallow cuz I've never ever dated anyone I consider less than 9 out of 10 in looks. But as I get older and my youth deteriorate rapidly, I don't see that trend holding much longer unless I go the SD/SB route. I have never done SD/SB and have no interest in going that route any time soon for civvy relationship.

Hahaha fuck you

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But then again, when I'm drunk even BCG might look pretty to me. LOLOL    
   
 

Just not on super-hot guys. Except for Leo Di Caprio.  

That actor immediately popped up in my mind when I first started talking to gagambler years ago.  Maybe cuz they both tell it like how they see it and don't hold anything back lol

So, by that math I'm a 1.5. What is a 1.5? A scared ugly guy? My only saving grace I guess is that Benji is a friend of mine and I'm willing to set him free, he keeps coming back and I keep setting him free

badgirl, we must have seen the same guy as he was makin his rounds through the hobby world.....in the midwest here, perfect tans durin the winter time are kinda rare, especially the ones with blonde hair, & defined muscles to rub my nipples all over... yummy, I always love it when they stop by...... I see alot of very sexy men, but none of them have ever made me feel as if I'm out of their league in fact some have even made me feel more special/more important.  I figure if they are calling me, it's cuz they've seen my pic & heard something about me that interests them & I aim to please when they walk in that door. Looks are just the outside of a package, nothing more. I have several of my clients that I'm attracted to, the hobby has helped me, in away, try to figure out what type of guy I would be most happy with for a long term thing. I've found a certain body type that I like, but then there's another body type that I physically seem to groove with better, but then it really comes down to personality for who really draws me in to want more....
 In fact one super sexy young guy brought me back to the reality that some guys aren't always looking for that PSE or for a provider with the most open mind, their just wanting a relaxing hour of intimacy. No drama or worrying if they are doing the right thing or has she gotten off so he can finally let loose, roll over & be done. Their wanting a sexual encounter without worrying about hiding their insecurities....just a nice release in the middle of the day without the stress of how long to cuddle or what to say afterwards to keep her frm getting too emotional, before he walks out the door..... just an hour of pure ,raw, passionate, body rubbing (jus plain ole mish)..... someone to tell them how great they were & then they can get up walk out the door without a second thought or worry of any repercussions, all while knowing as soon as they feel the need arise again, they can call me up & I won't chatise them for not calling the day after, but welcome them with open arms.....
There is something odd though, I have had a cpl very, hmmmmm, how should I say.....fugly guys over the years (only a cpl, theyve not seem to ever call again). I'm very nice to everyone,(Ive heard of girls shutting the door on guys before) but 2 of these guys seemed to spend the whole hour trying to make me feel as if I just wasn't worth thier $ (all the while I was trying not to gag frm their odor). I laughed all the way through their negative review of my looks & performance....
I don't have a master's degree & as I age I get further away from being compared to the looks of a young hot model.....but in no way ever, would I entertain the feeling that I'm not in someone's league... Even on a date with Brad Pitt, I'm sure he would find me just as facinating as I find him attractive. Secure people build up those around them, while the opposite do their best to bring people down....