LOL. Actually Looks like DA beat both of us.
Happy Sunday All....
I was sitting here wondering to myself How often is a provider attracted to their client, and taking it a step further- has their ever been a time where you as the provider felt "out of a someone's league" while on a date.
I ask because clearly I find myself so taken by so many of your looks, personality, abilities, etc... I was wondering how often the verse happens?! Just a light topic....
I opened the door and said out loud "holy fuck you're hot."
And let me tell you, this guy was FLAWLESS. Perfect tan skin, bright blue eyes, in fantastic shape (defined muscles without that goofy P90X look), and covered in tattoos. The whole date I was giggling, blushing, and acting like a total fucking dork. This guy could get any girl he wanted, and was totally out of my league. I felt like a chubby little troll getting banged by a Roman god.
Holy shit that guy was fine. I've had some sexy clients before but I was honestly astounded by how beautiful he was.
I was sitting here wondering to myself How often is a provider attracted to their client, and taking it a step further- has their ever been a time where you as the provider felt "out of a someone's league" while on a date.
I ask because clearly I find myself so taken by so many of your looks, personality, abilities, etc... I was wondering how often the verse happens?! Just a light topic....
I have met some handsome men, and some not so handsome, but one in particular really stood out and he knew it. Body, eyes, charm. I felt like he is too pretty and I had no business being in the presence of this hunk of a man. This was a year 1/2 ago and we continue to see each other when time allows. I still feel inferior to him because of his looks, but I know I can be me and he enjoys me for that.
Ok, you've piqued my interest. Please explain what that "goofy P90X look" is.

But my issue is with the obvious overkill on the muscles. To me, it's a sign of vanity, which is usually a sign of insecurity. I dun like.
Cocky is needing to draw attention to yourself to prove your worth, confidence is knowing you don't have to. I must admit though he has a much better body than I do, I admire his commitment and the obvious hard work to get his body sculpted so well. But as you said usually those guys are self absorbed and vain which is a typical of sign of insecurity. Now the hair, ughh, I assume he thinks that's attractive. Hmmm
So, where does the "P90X" come from?
So, where does the "P90X" come from?
And let me tell you, this guy was FLAWLESS. Perfect tan skin, bright blue eyes, in fantastic shape (defined muscles without that goofy P90X look), and covered in tattoos. The whole date I was giggling, blushing, and acting like a total fucking dork. This guy could get any girl he wanted, and was totally out of my league. I felt like a chubby little troll getting banged by a Roman god.
Holy shit that guy was fine. I've had some sexy clients before but I was honestly astounded by how beautiful he was.
I was sitting here wondering to myself How often is a provider attracted to their client, and taking it a step further- has their ever been a time where you as the provider felt "out of a someone's league" while on a date.
I ask because clearly I find myself so taken by so many of your looks, personality, abilities, etc... I was wondering how often the verse happens?! Just a light topic....
I also have a regular who looks like Dermot Mulroney. OMNOMNOM
And let me tell you, this guy was FLAWLESS. Perfect tan skin, bright blue eyes, in fantastic shape (defined muscles without that goofy P90X look), and covered in tattoos. The whole date I was giggling, blushing, and acting like a total fucking dork. This guy could get any girl he wanted, and was totally out of my league. I felt like a chubby little troll getting banged by a Roman god.
Holy shit that guy was fine. I've had some sexy clients before but I was honestly astounded by how beautiful he was.
I was sitting here wondering to myself How often is a provider attracted to their client, and taking it a step further- has their ever been a time where you as the provider felt "out of a someone's league" while on a date.
I ask because clearly I find myself so taken by so many of your looks, personality, abilities, etc... I was wondering how often the verse happens?! Just a light topic....
LOL. Actually Looks like DA beat both of us.
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Funny you say this because it has happened to me and not only was he "HOT" but he was AWESOME in the bedroom with a huge member. I was a happy girl until I actually had to leave.
Thank God I get to go back every once in a while!
Love
Zana
And let me tell you, this guy was FLAWLESS. Perfect tan skin, bright blue eyes, in fantastic shape (defined muscles without that goofy P90X look), and covered in tattoos. The whole date I was giggling, blushing, and acting like a total fucking dork. This guy could get any girl he wanted, and was totally out of my league. I felt like a chubby little troll getting banged by a Roman god.
Holy shit that guy was fine. I've had some sexy clients before but I was honestly astounded by how beautiful he was.
I was sitting here wondering to myself How often is a provider attracted to their client, and taking it a step further- has their ever been a time where you as the provider felt "out of a someone's league" while on a date.
I ask because clearly I find myself so taken by so many of your looks, personality, abilities, etc... I was wondering how often the verse happens?! Just a light topic....
This guy looked like a hot surfer dude, was in med school, and was amazing in bed. I felt like I won the lottery haha, and to top it off he complimented me quite a bit.
I do not have an inflated opinion of myself. Average face, almost average below, few extra pounds. when the door opens I am like WOW how lucky can a guy my age get. I really try to please her. Maybe that is why I am having so much fun this year. Makes my time so much better when she convinces me she enjoyed me.
badgirl, we must have seen the same guy as he was makin his rounds through the hobby world.....in the midwest here, perfect tans durin the winter time are kinda rare, especially the ones with blonde hair, & defined muscles to rub my nipples all over... yummy, I always love it when they stop by...... I see alot of very sexy men, but none of them have ever made me feel as if I'm out of their league in fact some have even made me feel more special/more important. I figure if they are calling me, it's cuz they've seen my pic & heard something about me that interests them & I aim to please when they walk in that door. Looks are just the outside of a package, nothing more. I have several of my clients that I'm attracted to, the hobby has helped me, in away, try to figure out what type of guy I would be most happy with for a long term thing. I've found a certain body type that I like, but then there's another body type that I physically seem to groove with better, but then it really comes down to personality for who really draws me in to want more....
In fact one super sexy young guy brought me back to the reality that some guys aren't always looking for that PSE or for a provider with the most open mind, their just wanting a relaxing hour of intimacy. No drama or worrying if they are doing the right thing or has she gotten off so he can finally let loose, roll over & be done. Their wanting a sexual encounter without worrying about hiding their insecurities....just a nice release in the middle of the day without the stress of how long to cuddle or what to say afterwards to keep her frm getting too emotional, before he walks out the door..... just an hour of pure ,raw, passionate, body rubbing (jus plain ole mish)..... someone to tell them how great they were & then they can get up walk out the door without a second thought or worry of any repercussions, all while knowing as soon as they feel the need arise again, they can call me up & I won't chatise them for not calling the day after, but welcome them with open arms.....
There is something odd though, I have had a cpl very, hmmmmm, how should I say.....fugly guys over the years (only a cpl, theyve not seem to ever call again). I'm very nice to everyone,(Ive heard of girls shutting the door on guys before) but 2 of these guys seemed to spend the whole hour trying to make me feel as if I just wasn't worth thier $ (all the while I was trying not to gag frm their odor). I laughed all the way through their negative review of my looks & performance....
I don't have a master's degree & as I age I get further away from being compared to the looks of a young hot model.....but in no way ever, would I entertain the feeling that I'm not in someone's league... Even on a date with Brad Pitt, I'm sure he would find me just as facinating as I find him attractive. Secure people build up those around them, while the opposite do their best to bring people down....
And let me tell you, this guy was FLAWLESS. Perfect tan skin, bright blue eyes, in fantastic shape (defined muscles without that goofy P90X look), and covered in tattoos. The whole date I was giggling, blushing, and acting like a total fucking dork. This guy could get any girl he wanted, and was totally out of my league. I felt like a chubby little troll getting banged by a Roman god.
Holy shit that guy was fine. I've had some sexy clients before but I was honestly astounded by how beautiful he was.
I was sitting here wondering to myself How often is a provider attracted to their client, and taking it a step further- has their ever been a time where you as the provider felt "out of a someone's league" while on a date.
I ask because clearly I find myself so taken by so many of your looks, personality, abilities, etc... I was wondering how often the verse happens?! Just a light topic....
The first was short (I'm into short guys), skinny and hairy, which, apparently is my type because I could not stop just...touching him--stroking him, more like. He also had an Irish accent (if you were wondering how hairy he was) and this just makes me sound weirder and weirder as I go on, but, I would never think I was his type and he's definitely the kind I'd try to pick up in a bar.
The second was tall, thin, muscular and hairy with a great face and the best hair I've ever seen. I opened the door and got self conscious, and not just because I was jealous of his hair. We had amazing conversation and he made me orgasm more than I ever have even in my civvie sex. My entire time on top I couldn't believe I was getting paid to be with him, that's how amazing he was. Swoon.
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I mean, I'm attracted to all my clients, duh. :P
So it does happen....
tend to make her look a bit thinner.
Looks like the dieting is working.
When are the invites going out?
when I come home from work.. I just use her tummy, or sometimes her boob...
Invites will go out as soon as we figure out how much food we need. That will depend on how much of her family members, and close friends attend the wedding... They tend to eat a lot.. You might have figured...
She calls me her lambchop.I hope she doesn't use me to serve her friends
Is that a problem Nick? ![]()
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I'll remind myself to not open a post from you while eating. I don't understand how they make a bathing suit that big or why for that matter. It is a bathing suit right? I don't want to look again.
Well, you wouldn't have to shake the sheets to find herhttp://www.theeroticreview.com/library/style/i/emoticons/teeth_smile.gif
I have had crushes but no one I would date seriously.... Oh how I have some major crushes on couple of my ATFs..... Yum!!!! So much Id give it away for free due to it's some of the BEST FUCKING IVE EVER EXPERIENCED!!! But shhhhhh the free part I will keep to myself!!! Lol
but I've got to know, is it a soft G like gem or is it a hard G like Gamma Ray? OK, I don't have to know, but I'd like to.
Like GEM ......
But you must know, you can't be replaced
Oh by the way darling, I give great foot massages, you and I might get along very well
The attributes that impress me the most are not physical ones. Although, I have to admit that I am partial to a large bulge in the pants....if that bulge happens to be a wallet
Only the very big ones for me!!!
I had a client come in once like 'I bet I'm the best-looking client you've ever seen!' He wasn't. He WAS the most obnoxious, though. He thought he could pay me for one hour and then I'd be overcome by his charm. When that failed to materialize, he'd text me some random sh** like, 'Just found the earring that you left here last week! It's here. What should I do with it
' (dooche actually expected me to come over) or something like, 'Wanna watch [stoooopid TV show]? I have sushi and wine
', or even 'I'm in XXXX hotel, and it has a REALLY nice shower
'
Yea...we all know how much hookers love to get their blown-out hair wet.
I find the whole idea to be so cliched. EVERY client seems to think THAT GUY is going to be HIM. Except the ones who don't...invariably, those are the great clients, the ones for whom I actually WOULD drop what I'm doing to go play in the shower. You know, the ones who don't take advantage, who treat us nicely, and whose company is actually pleasurable.
Was gonna go all grammar police on your a**, too...but really no point in it.
I've found that the ones who describe themselves as "good looking" are usually average looking at best.
I had a client come in once like 'I bet I'm the best-looking client you've ever seen!' He wasn't. He WAS the most obnoxious, though. He thought he could pay me for one hour and then I'd be overcome by his charm. When that failed to materialize, he'd text me some random sh** like, 'Just found the earring that you left here last week! It's here. What should I do with it
Yea...we all know how much hookers love to get their blown-out hair wet.
I find the whole idea to be so cliched. EVERY client seems to think THAT GUY is going to be HIM. Except the ones who don't...invariably, those are the great clients, the ones for whom I actually WOULD drop what I'm doing to go play in the shower. You know, the ones who don't take advantage, who treat us nicely, and whose company is actually pleasurable.
Was gonna go all grammar police on your a**, too...but really no point in it.
A 9 is more likely a 6 when they mention they are "good looking"?
The sexy ones never say anything about their looks. They don't need to.
So, by that math I'm a 1.5. What is a 1.5? A scared ugly guy? My only saving grace I guess is that Benji is a friend of mine and I'm willing to set him free, he keeps coming back and I keep setting him free
I've found that to be true, too. I guess it's an insecurity thing. I never understood that, myself.
o, You'd rather go for an average guy who is charming?
Not a good looking guy who is just as charming
I hung around a lot of really good-looking, raunchy young dudes in my youth...since I was 'one of the guys' they talked about girls as if I wasn't there (well, sometimes they covered my ears). They were predatory and disrespectful. I guess maybe that's what made me skeptical of charm & looks...watching stupid young girls get ensnared, and hearing the dudes relish the telling of sordid tales the next day. Then watching the girls come back time and again, completely infatuated and utterly clueless.
I'm not turned off by either charm or looks...if there is a good person behind the facade, I quite enjoy both. But (and I might be flattering myself by saying this) neither quality has much power over me. Hot guys hitting on me in a bar never get anywhere. People who use their looks/charm to get what they want seem so.... obvious to me.
I've dated two clients. One looked like a frog. The other was cute, but a little pudgy. The one civvie I dated was from a longtime social group (the one I described above, but he was shy and not so corrupt)...he was quite good-looking. However, I had known him for years, and never had the hots for him until we were forced into proximity. I got to know him, and that was what led me to find him attractive.
In all instances, it was character and personality (or, at least perceived character) that attracted me to each dude.
I've never in my life had a crush on a hot dude in my life...except for a movie star, lol
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I guess being a guy, I tend to be a lot more visual and used to be very shallow. Maybe still am shallow cuz I've never ever dated anyone I consider less than 9 out of 10 in looks. But as I get older and my youth deteriorate rapidly, I don't see that trend holding much longer unless I go the SD/SB route. I have never done SD/SB and have no interest in going that route any time soon for civvy relationship.
Biggest thing I have learned over time though is that, seeing my friends hook up with so-so girls with solid careers, I realized I prefer more successful women with an awesome laid back personality over a drop dead perfect 10 gorgeous girl who may have no other skills. Reason being, her looks aren't going to last much longer past her 30s but her career and personality will last a life time. Success doesn't necessarily translate to their 'income level' though. I'm not a gold digger at all cuz I don't need or want anyone to leach off. As long as she's good at something and recognized by her peers, I find those more attractive than just a pretty face. Pretty faces deteriorate quickly. IMO, it doesn't last any more than maybe 10 years max for a 20 something year old, give or take a few
Given the same characteristics, I would definitely go for the hotter and younger girl but my priorities seem to be shifting dramatically ever since I reached my late 30s. I have dealt with a handful of drama over the years from young drama queens. I've learned from the school of hard knox that I can never even think about spending the rest of my life with them.
It's understandable you never had a crush on anyone, cuz you're a girl and it's usually the guys doing the chasing and having crushes. lol But seems we have similar thoughts when it comes to selection criteria.
Just not on super-hot guys. Except for Leo Di Caprio.
Thinking of it now, I also used to be very much swayed by looks when I was younger. Like, pre-18. That was before I was exposed to the wiles of my friends, lol...so I really can't separate the effect of those experiences from the 'maturity' that comes with age...if I can even claim that.
I agree with your second paragraph completely. I can enjoy a person's company no matter what he/she looks like. Sex is different, obviously...but if I'm looking for a companion/partner...I don't want a hot-looking dooche who can't see past the end of his dick and just wants to run around with teeny-bopper-lookalikes the minute I turn my back. And I KNOW those guys are out there.
With that said, if I'm not physically attracted to the dude, I can't see how a romantic relationship would be satisfying for me. The guys I dated were not the best-looking (expect one), but I found each one of them gorgeous (dopamine goggles). I kissed the Frog and thought he looked like a prince (now I see photos and want to barf...that guy was seriously a dooche). But if I couldn't get past something, physically...I don't think the relationship would work.
Some of my predatory guy friends are getting married. I know less about their exploits these days, but a few have gotten engaged to OK-looking girls. Cute, but not Kate Upton. One of them is married with two kids to a woman who is super super cool, but really not very good-looking (and since I like her, I'm probably exaggerating her level of attraction). So I guess maybe he went through a metamorphosis like you're describing.
I'll be honest: I am VERY impressed by good looks. But I'm shallow like that.
So, You'd rather go for an average guy who is charming?
Not a good looking guy who is just as charming?
But then again, when I'm drunk even BCG might look pretty to me. LOLOL :
Hahaha fuck you

That actor immediately popped up in my mind when I first started talking to gagambler years ago. Maybe cuz they both tell it like how they see it and don't hold anything back lol
Amen to that BadCollegeGirl. With all the chatter on here about provider's looks or pictures not being "exactly what I expected"…
If the shoe were on the other foot it would blow your minds what men would claim was a ten. "handsome" "in shape" "young/youthful" are all words I ignore because it really doesn't matter and I won't set myself up for disappointment because someone's described themselves as Maximus Decimus Meridius.
Yes I've opened the door and actually had a little gasp before at the sight of an extremely sexy man. Either one of two things follow. The chemistry is electric and we both at some point (verbatim) ask "what are you doing here?" Here meaning why is a woman like you not married to some rich fuck, and why would a man as sexy and amazing in bed ever pay for anything other than a bodyguard to keep the women off.
The other is sad enough to make me cry. That beautiful man turns out to be so awful in bed…like so so so bad and I have what Oprah calls an "Aha moment".
None of the ridiculously hot guys I saw ever mentioned their looks - never even acknowledged that they might be somehow out of the ordinary. God bless 'em.
Yep, there have been a couple of clients that were so crazy handsome, so sweetly scented, and so naturally personable that I felt just like Tobi said: a "chubby troll".
I had to assume that these gents - who could get laid by much hotter chicks with a mere flutter of an eyelash - enjoy playing with women who are unlikely to sprout emotional needs, and who leave when expected without any complications. Even if I felt like a freakin' defective with them, at least I was confident I could satisfy the non-sprouting and easy departure needs
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