I am not attempting to upstage BWB(down below(oh that i wish(BELOW ME THAT IS) LOL))so please offer her your support as well.

I remember speaking with Bizzo years ago about what we choose to wear to our appointments. It was within a thread where the ladies claimed a nice suit turned them on excessively.

He and I agreed that in order to have fun casual attire suited US better. I'm lucky enough to be catagorized as blue-collar exec. and i refuse to accept that WE don't warrant the same attention as white-collar. Now i haven't any idea what that fine fellow did for a living.

Now here is a typical picture of me(first one)of how i may show up to your incall. Any thoughts?

http://www.buzzfeed.com/memecore/best-poorly-dressed-images-1ea9

I don't see anything wrong with this.

It's not what you wear but what you carry within, under your skin.

I'm not looking for any stuffy providers hoping I'm wearing a Hickey Freeman or Devil forbid a Zegna.

The only time I wore a suit to a session {different  provider than below} she made such a big deal out of what I was wearing I knew her mind was superficial.


The whole truth .

If she sees this post I hope she will give her honest opinion what her first impression was .

 Alias fine by me.

 My best first time visit , wearing my  bathing suit, T shirt, carrying my board oceanfront incall.

She became my favorite .

Being already stoked to the max  when I arrived, might have helped .

So if anyone is lucky to see me after work on a workday, they get me all spiffy up.

On the weekends I prefer a nice casual shirt, slacks and a sportscoat., except that in summer I go into Aloha shirt and shorts mode.

Whatever you wear on your feet, be sure it had parents.

....the mullets!

  In all seriousness, I do prefer my gentlemen to be dressed in a suit, or jacket/slacks.  It does, however, also depend on the day of week.  If a gentleman has not visited with me before, and it is Monday through Friday, I prefer he wear a suit, or similar.  During the weekend, he can be more relaxed; jeans, khakis, and the like.  During the summer months, I ask that gentlemen do not wear sandals/flip flops; even during the weekend.  

Hugs and Kisses

more formal attire.  Since most of my fun takes place when I travel, it's troublesome for me to pack more than my usual garb.....questions about "why the jacket" are ones I prefer not to have to answer.

I always make the ladies quite aware of my limitations WRT to dress so they can make their own decision about whether they think we'll "connect".  I've found that, almost universally, a lady has expressed relief at an opportunity to "dress" down" for dinner.

I own one tie. It's a Jerry Garcia(yeah, THAT Jerry Garcia) I won on a radio contest like 15 years ago. I'm 44 years old and I don't know HOW to tie a tie, lol!

Polos, sweaters when it's cold, those silk Hawaiian type shirts(mrfisher knows what I'm talkin' about), jeans, khakis, cargo shorts and tenni-shoes.

I'm all about being comfortable and don't give a flying fuck what anyone thinks. My money's green like everyone else's and the way I see it whatever the fuck I wear will be in a heap on the floor in 5 minutes or less as soon as the lady du jour opens the door to my gorgeous self!

It's what is underneath that matters

As long as his clothes are clean and in good repair I don't really care what he is wearing if he is coming to see me at my Hotel.   If we are going out to dinner first then both of our clothing should reflect on the quality of the restaurant.

You saw Edrienne Cole and Sasha GFE, you bastard!

I should return the courtesy. Of course, up here in VT, a guy in a snazzy 3-piece suit would look MUCH more out of place than Picture #1, so dress has to be location-appropriate!

Sometimes I hobby on business trips and sometimes for business I wear a suit and tie. I really don't notice any difference in the date whether I'm in a suit or dressed casually. However, it is fun to use the tie as a collar and leash  around the lady's neck.

In the summer, since I live in a climate where the average temp is 110 to 120, during that time of the year, I have shown up in shorts and short sleeve casual shirt. Never a problem for the ladies.

BTW, MP67, if you read this see the link!

You know, I have a cousin that lives in your neck of the woods. You keep testing my ire I'll be forced to get your address, give it to her, and she'll come over and sit on your face and smother you to death and not in a good way!

She's a big girl. Pretty face, but has a real addiction to chocolate and seeing as how I'm her favorite cousin, well.....

I'm with TB... Grew up and lived in the inter mountain west... Own one tie, and it's reserved for weddings and funerals..

Levi's, long sleeve shirt and cowboy boots are the uniform of the day for work and play.. I've had a tux on twice in my life, once in college and once in London...

So far, no one has turned me away at the door....

Just being practical, I guess. We're gonna be nekkid in a matter of a few minutes, and obviously she doesn't have to dress up for me cuz we made the date together and me being me...

Don't get me wrong, I appreciate when a girl wants to get all snazzed up for a date. I just don't think it's necessary.

Was talking with a guy thru PM and agreed if they show up in jeans and we go eat wings or a cheeseburger, whatever makes them comfortable, is fucking great with me. Just laugh and have a good time before the festivities start I think makes for a great experience.

So much shit is put into being pretentious. We are who we are. Why not be comfortable with each other and enjoy the time rather than trying to make a masquerade of the whole thing?

I'll shut up now...

a man can be dressed to the 9's but if he treats me like a whore I am not going to enjoy him.  If a man is very dressed down with ripped jeans or stains on his shirt(I have had both sometimes at the same time) and he is sweet and respectful then I am going to have alot better time then with the sharp dressed that acts deserving.  

To be honest that is all that is required, treat us well and we will do the same.  Like follows like, so in turn if you want to treat us like shit realize you are likely to get the same in return maybe not at the time maybe after with gosip and rumor.  We don't typically "talk" about our sessions unless they are REALLY bad, and the really bad ones, well we remember their names after just one visit(so don't be insulted if we don't remember you by name after just 1 date, you really don't want us to because we remember the bad ones!).  Word gets around if you treat girls badly or nastily.

Attire doesn't matter, it is how you treat a lady in this industry.  It also shows alot about your true character.

With yu on this one. My money is green. I dress how I am comfortable. What thevhell would I get suited up for if I'm just taking it off. I always shower before I as a lady and I have frequently shown up in shorts tshirts and sandals. Never had a problem with a lady not answering the door. It's not like I'm on a date. This is a sure thing so I drop the pretense. Mp. I really like your posts and attitude. I also won a set of 6 Garcia ties once at a football game.

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I own one tie. It's a Jerry Garcia(yeah, THAT Jerry Garcia) I won on a radio contest like 15 years ago. I'm 44 years old and I don't know HOW to tie a tie, lol!

Polos, sweaters when it's cold, those silk Hawaiian type shirts(mrfisher knows what I'm talkin' about), jeans, khakis, cargo shorts and tenni-shoes.

I'm all about being comfortable and don't give a flying fuck what anyone thinks. My money's green like everyone else's and the way I see it whatever the fuck I wear will be in a heap on the floor in 5 minutes or less as soon as the lady du jour opens the door to my gorgeous self!

as long as it's a female who is doing the sitting! ;>)

The pretentiousness that exists in everyday life, as well as this site, confounds me.

Why people can't just relax and be who they are is beyond me.

I appreciate when a lady wants to dress up because it makes her feel 'prettier'. But it's totally unnecessary in my book. Just wear a smile on your face and let me believe it's genuine.

I was wearing a suit and they were also dressed appropriately for the occasion.  I'd met both of them previously and one of them many times.  Neither had seen me dressed like that before, including when one had been to my office.  I often wear long pants to appointments but the only given is clean underwear.  Oh, and shoes of some sort.

The suit is a rarity.  Shorts or jeans are common based upon temperature.  When it gets hot, sometimes the choice is "neither".  The neighbors have learned not to look.