First time coming up, who watches the clock?  Is it up to me to gracefully know when the time is up?  Thanks.

I certainly know that being fully immersed in the experience lends itself to losing track of time, and it's even more difficult when there isn't a clock within your line of sight.  

Yes.  

Most really good ladies will not broach the time... unless you grossly overstay. But why put them in that position? Terms and conditions are clearly spelled out well before hand. Minding your manners will get you further in the long run.

Did you do your homework and read her reviews? Does anyone say if she is or is not a clock watcher? If things seem to go over too far (for her), she will definitely let you know! If you can see a clock, you can discreetly check and be a gentleman to note when your time is almost up.
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Opinions differ only slightly regarding when time starts and stops. When you arrive, as long as it is close to the scheduled time, the clock starts. You shower and it is on the clock. When you clean up and get dressed and tie your shoes, it is on the clock. You should be out the door at ~60 minutes.
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Some guys don't want to waste their precious clock time in the shower so they try to skip it or fake it. Don't. The 5 minutes it takes to shower makes you much more presentable and makes her much more comfortable to be intimate with you. Do not fret over shower time!  
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In the best case, nobody watches the clock and you both just feel and know when it's time to part ways (almost always about the right time: out the door at 60 min + or - a few.).  
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In the worst case, she is a "one and done" hostess and tells you you're done when you're done.  (15-20 min elapsed ... You mumble "Where did my hour go?" to yourself as you exit the lobby and check the time.)  
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But, you don't want to spoil things, either. I do not recommend that you pull out your phone and offer to set the timer for 60 minutes. That's kind of rude and crude. (Others might suggest that.)  Take a quick look at your watch or phone when you arrive (or in the elevator or whatever). Maybe place your watch or phone on top of your stuff for a quick reference.  Look around for a clock in her place (may I assume incall?).  Her clock might be set fast or slow, so don't compare it to your own clock. By which I mean:
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You enter the premises at 1:00 on your watch.
After a while, you look at her clock and it says 1:45 so you prepare to leave.
You check your watch on your way out and it says 1:45!!  Her clock was set ahead 10-15 min.
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Check her clock. Maybe make an excuse to ask, "What time is it? Am I on time? I had trouble parking and I was worried I'd be late. ... [If her clock is fast, then you appear to be late and it's your fault, and it comes out of your 60 minutes, so ...] 1:15!!! Wow! [Check your phone.] Hay! My phone says 1:00 exactly. I think your clock is fast!" Confirm that you are on time (according to network time) and then just let her clock tick off 60 minutes. 1:00 to 2:00 or 1:15 to 2:15.  You'll both know it's an hour and she won't have to fiddle with her clock.
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The best thing is to not worry about the clock and just to focus on having a good time, especially the first time. A good time that ends 6.37 minutes early is much better than a lousy time that ends at exactly 60.00000 minutes.  
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Good luck! Have fun!

Well, it would be nice if it fit into a neat policy, but honestly it all depends, for me.  
Typically I like to be fairly relaxed and liberal with my time if I can be and if I am enjoying myself. I worked as a personal trainer for years so an internal bell goes off at the 50 minute mark, but i'm often blissed out from our session and prefer if the gentleman brings up the time if it seems like we might run over. It seems more appropriate and less uncomfortable than me having to raise the issue first.  

Most providers have a large visible clock in the room. I make note of the location of the clock and time when I enter. I need to be out in an hour (or longer). Sometimes the clock is set ahead, but I make the adjustment in my head to be sure I get a full hour. Then I can periodically check the time during the session to be sure I finish on time. From time to time I am caught in bliss as the hour approaches, and the provider needs to remind me. The vast majority of the time I am wrapping up just in time to catch my breath, have a quick chat, shower and leave on time.

I don’t know who you’re seeing, but that hasn’t been my experience. Now is there a small bedside  clock in the room?
Since I prefer incall and many times it’s at hotel, yes there’s a clock visible and I may take a peak  at it every once in awhile to keep track of the time.

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Calls With the room number to the hotel or apartment. Once I had a hard time finding the apartment because of the layout and size of the complex. In that situation I used up 10 minutes trying to find her place. She politely informed me of that which kind of ruined the session. I never returned.

Its also not all about you. Be mindful of the client after you. If you don't like cooling your heels in the parking lot for 10 or 15 minutes, just be aware neither does the guy waiting for his appointment. Then it could very well stack-up on the provider if she has a back-to-back booking and the rest of the day is FUBAR. I get that the world is made up of different people. I hope that the assholes who only think of themselves don't win. Then again we elected President Trump.

I've never heard that before. For the ladies I see, it begins when I enter the room assuming both parties are on time or if she's late. If I'm late (which never happens), then it starts at originally agreed upon time.

Maybe once or twice was there a clock on the wall. I look for a clock of some kind and glance at it occasionally.  I can usually tell when it's about time. If there isn't a clock I can see I then will ask what time it is and begin preparing to leave unless the lady says relax there's time.

I like to chat first to get to know you and have a drink, so that usually takes 10 to 15 min.  Sometimes I take more time telling lots of stories about my dogs, cat, or chickens, and gentlemen graciously sit there and listen to them.  I appreciate that and would never deduct that from their time!!! LOL  
Actual bedroom playtime is around 45 to 50 minutes, and then if the gentleman wants to shower around 5 to 10.  (Assuming this is a 60 min session).  
I always book at least an hour between my sessions because I hate to be rushed! If you are having a great time and want to stick around for some more cuddle or playtime, there is nothing wrong with asking "how are we doing on time?" She can then let you know if she is expecting someone or if you need to scoot.  
Last but not least,  if she is not a clock watcher don't take advantage of it.  I have several clients that have stuck around for 2 + hours and only left a gift for 1 hour and no tip.  Even if I might not have another client right away I still have to do laundry, pay bills, answer e-mails, etc.  
Use common sense, and when in doubt, ask!!!!  

Lots of gals have a musical program timed to run out just as your time is running out.

2+ hours?!!
No.... that's not cool.  
You're being too nice to them, and they're taking advantage. Playtime should be over after the 60....unless compensation were discussed or presented. These guys screw it up for others.  
I've been asked to stay. Tried getting dressed for 40 minutes,  but she thwarted my efforts. But I was clear from 61 minutes, that 60 was all I was there for.  
Guess I caught her on a boring day...

80's hair metal had the perfect song for that....
Skid Row's " Get the Fuck Out"

For a first timer, anyone for that matter, the last thing you should be thinking about during your hour of companionship is the next guy’s hour of companionship.
Be aware of the time out of respect for the woman? Absolutely.  Maybe, as noted above, the provider is going to be OK with making sure it’s not a clock-watching experience.  

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.. is to mitigate the problem by avoiding ladies who have dense calendars since they will necessarily be time sensitive.

Just to clarify, I do massage sessions not escort sessions so maybe things are different. I have been seeing more and more providers short me on time. Often times I am back in my car after only 40-45 minutes despite paying for an hour. I haven't said anything yet but I might start saying something just to see what they say. I understand not wanting to see the next client but you would think with the money they are charging they could put 15 minutes between session. Or at least give us an extra 10-15 minutes so we are back at our car in 60 minutes. It's not like they ever let the next client in early. One thing that I do is to point it out in my reviews, both noting when they short me on time and giving credit to those that actually give the whole hour.

I watch her for cues, so I can enjoy my time and relax. Once I notice her starting to get interested in her phone, or she gets out of bed to go into the bathroom, I figure I have around 10 minutes to get dressed and GTFO

If a lady is visiting me at my hotel I pretty much leave the clock management up to her. At least when it comes to her leaving. I mean I’m not going to be pushing her out of the door when the time expires. If she lingers , sipping wine or visiting , no prob with me.
 If you are indeed new at this may I advise you not to get caught up in so much “ get to know ya” chit chat that you find yourself being rushed when it comes to the primary purpose of the engagement.

and yet at the same time, don't make me have to be the one to bring it up each time we meet. Sometimes we may finish a little sooner, sometimes a little later but if you are NEVER aware of the time, then you're just pushing boundaries. No one likes to feel taken advantage of.

An hour is an hour. Being considerate of your fellow mongers is not a 'first timer' issue. Its a respect issue, which you obviously have none. If she wants to keep you longer, she will. Obviously, you haven't read any of the posts by the women. Your presence on the board has always been "me, me, me , first" so not surprised by your response. Are you Jewish?

I personally am single love the company low low volume as a matter of fact really have just seen one man last 3 years but have always been low volume .
So if ad says no time limit and mine does than that’s what it means so I guess it comes down to what ad says then client should comply your right

..... I know it's time to go then.

no more than 3 hobbyists a day and most days either 1 or 2 gents.

Its not ok.... what she just posted.

They might do something such as put on a robe, or nightie, which is your cue that time is up.   You don't want her to have to say it.  Also, you should have/keep a sense of time, and know more or less.  If you want to extend playtime, you can say so, and maybe she'll be ok with that.  Make sure you have the means to make it worth her while, of course.  But at the end of the day, you should gracefully know.

I have had very few people take advantage of our time together.  I am not a clock watcher.  I like to take time to get to know you and I do love to talk lol.  The good news is, I don’t take talking time away from playtime.  I also am very low volume and usually only schedule one or two clients in a day!  I truly believe taking some time to talk and relax before a date starts, makes for a better date!

I never really look. She feeds them to me in a very intimate way. I'm kind of distracted. I'll check the next visit.

Am I the only guy that wears his watch while with a girl? I don’t look at it much but i don’t like to be surprised by getting too close to the end and then having to “work” to close the deal in time. So I might glance if I think I have been lost in the moment and lost track of how late it is. And I don’t ever want her to have to be the one to point out end of session.  

That's true. I like relaxing and enjoying... go with the flow.

I haven't worn a watch since I started always carrying a cellphone, more than 15 years ago.

If they're the blue ones, check to see if they are round or diamond shape. That could be what keeps you coming back for more!

Lillian is NOT a clock watcher and is a pleasure both talking to, very intelligent, and playing. See her when you are in Vegas gentlemen.

but it's pretty fucking dumb.

Some say it has to involve specific acts (DFK, BBBJ, DATY, MSOG). Some say it is all about attitude and personality during the session. I have never seen anyone say GFE has to do with how many guys a provider sees per day.  I have certainly had many full GFE sessions with gals that see a lot more people in a day than your claim of 1-3.

I'm with hh and xyz here. I have been doing this for a lot of years, and I can't honestly remember any incalls with a "large visible clock." Many incalls I have been to had no clock at all. Many hotel rooms have a small clock on a nightstand next to the bed, but sometimes that is hard to see, depending on the size, direction it is facing, and distance from the bed.

I always schedule for at least two hours.  I have a good feel for the time and usually sense as we head into the last half hour, allowing time to talk and touch and still get up, shower, and be out the door in time.  
Providers like physicians are selling skill, knowledge, etc, but, in the end, we sell our time.  When I see someone with a complicated and difficult situation and am forced, for medical reasons to spend an hour, I am paid by insurers for that visit about 4 times as much as for a visit needing only 15 minutes.  Unfortunately, providers do not have such a situation so unless you agree toward the end of your visit that she can spare another hour and you are willing to pay for the extra time, you should be sure not to run over and not to make her make you aware of the time.

Because she told you? LMAO!

I have found most of the gals are pretty good timekeepers, whether it is by having a soundtrack playing, or having a visible clock or watch, or their phone nearby, or they just have a good internal body clock. They usually give hints when time is almost over, asking do you want a shower, or even getting up and preparing a shower, or maybe throwing on a robe or cover up, or making comments like what are you doing next or what are your plans for the rest of the day, or mentioning her own plans.

Pay attention to the last verse of this song...

One day about 15 years ago I started to strap a watch on my arm and realized that I hadn't looked at it for the purpose of telling the time for lord knows how long.

I think your mind must have been a few stations down the tracks when you came up with that as a reference to M&Ms. Or maybe you had too many drinks in the club car. Next time, stick to the M&Ms.

But would someone who is seeing 3 guys a day say she is seeing 12? Not likely! Just like a 30 year old hooker wouldn't say she's 40.

You mean.... they're not all 25? Whoda thunk it?

Hey Jake, who do you think is more likely to be lying, the hookers that tell KK that they see "no more than three clients a day, and usually only one or two", or the hooker who "admitted" to PS that she once saw a dozen clients in a day?

Want more book two hours . What's even watch the clock means!!!!

That's cuz you're a handsome motherfucker, perfectstorm, and they don't want to leave. That and you're a true gentleman. Totally dig how you humble yourself, though. When I go to Hawaii you have to turn me on to your skills while we have not enough drinks...!

When I wrote "PS" it was in ALL CAPS, meaning Post Script, not an abbreviation of perfectstorm's handle, which I always write in lower case.  So my comment wasn't actually directed AT him, even though I was technically replying TO him. I was poking fun at kk.
Dolt.
Now put your dumb, drunk ass to bed.

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Just had the worst experience. He refused to leave. Wouldn’t get dressed. He overstayed 45 mins and after 10 mins after the end time I was saying oh shoot our time is up. He just would not leave. It put me in a very uncomfortable spot. I kept telling him you gotta go.  
Not to mention he was an hour and a half late. But I had paid for the incall which he knew and had a commitment at home that he also knew. I’m sure he will write me a bad review. I couldn’t even sleep that night. Seriously asking him to leave for 30 mins ruined the appointment. He didn’t compensate me for staying 45 mins over. I try to be generous and not kill the mood by going over a few mins. But I’ve had to since block him. I feel taken advantage of and on egg shells worried about the review stating I kicked him out and didn’t keep going. I’m sure after blocking him and telling him he shorted me I’ll somehow get screwed over again by him on this site. I wonder if you all even understand the gravity of these reviews and how much one can hurt us. I gave a great appointment. If a provider asks you to leave be respectful and go.  

You look at the clock and say:

Out him. He's a dick. He deserves it, and shouldn't be in the hobby. Do it back channel if you have to, but it needs done. I'm sure you were starting to fear for your safety, and no doubt he'd do it to the next girl too. He took advantage of you, knowing you were in a precarious position. That was no mistake, no misunderstanding, no accident. He knew....you wouldn't call police, or hotel security, and he used that to rob you. Fuck him!

wow, you went deep with that one. Yes, my love is mostly in vain. lol

Thank you both! I’m new to hosting. If only I had thrown his clothes out the door and pushed him out!  

Drumguy I remember that song! You make me laugh!  

You shouldn't resist. That's a perfectly legitimate issue. And one of those things that could become more prevalent under SESTA. At least right now, you have this board to come to and bring it to light. And other ladies can back channel you to get the info of the offender. It's less important for us to be able to contact you ladies.... we'll always find you. But it is important for you ladies to network together. So if this all does go to shit, you'll be able to still share this type of info between one another. Fuck income....your safety is paramount!

Hahahahahahahahaha. This reminds me of that Cheech and Chong movie Nice Dreams. Cheech and Chong take a very drunk Donna back to her apartment from that Asian food place. They all go up to her room and Donna had that picture of her criminal biker boyfriend "Animal" on the nightstand. Just say yea, thats my man, but he's not going to be here until after our appointment so don't worry about him.

Yep, you called it Black-Panther. Well done you are a typical  arsehole.
"Are you Jewish?"

You "might" have been able to weasel your way out of it with that excuse if you didn't place your post directly under the post of PS, or are you going to use the excuse that you are too drunk or stupid to be able to properly follow a thread?  Something you routinely call out others for doing I might add.

White privilege appears to be working everyday for fourty years to pay taxes to support a lot of welfare loafers. Thanks for the privilege.

You said that you "had paid for the incall" so I'm assuming hotel (and not airbnb or a friend's place).  You do need to assess each situation to decide what to do. Someone posted the Cheech and Chong clip. If your guest was a version of Cheech or Chong, you can probably get away with tossing their clothes into the hallway and telling them to leave. But if your guest was the biker dude, he could put his fist thru door or something else if antagonized that way. You might not even get to the door!
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You can put some of your clothes on in a normal "I'm just covering up like I usually do" way and at least make yourself publicly (even just a robe if that's all you've got) presentable. Take your phone as if your are checking messages or say you have to call your backup and let her know you're running late before she calls security to check on you. Maybe grab your purse and keycard and maneuver your self towards the door.  Now YOU can open the door wide and stand in the hallway, perhaps even in full view of other guests.  "Come on! Hurry up! Time to go!" might get him moving. Depending on how the situation develops, you can call hotel security from the house phone  (usually near the elevators) or ask someone else to "please call security because my boyfriend is getting abusive." Remain in public (hallway) until he leaves the room.  Don't worry about the name-calling ("Don't believe her! She's just a fucking whore!"). If it gets to that level, the name calling is just a minor distraction from just GETTING HIM TO LEAVE.  
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Do you have someone that you call as "backup"?  Agency girls usually call-in when the guest arrives and then call again AFTER he has left. Indies sometimes have a friend (in the biz or not in the biz) that they can call. If you are 100% indy and no one knows, you might be reluctant to have such an arrangement. Maybe some other Providers can chime in with suggestions.  
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It's always easier to think clearly and come up with ideas when you are NOT in the situation. In the moment is so much harder.

Face it.  You gave some really off point advice to our newbie.  He’s paying for an hour of time.  That’s between him and the provider, nobody else.

Sorry you went through that. There is always some arsehole being a power crazy prick. I'm glad you dealt with it the way you did. One never knows how a prick like that will react to stronger measures.  

Long post, no retort on #whiteprivilege-cks175.  Obviously hit the nail on the head. The white boy prep school privileged attitude shining through. Who cares about anybody else but myself. Really, that was a hilariously long back-pedaling response for my little post.

If I'm guessing, I would say look at the rant above from CKS175. THAT is why you should be concerned about providers and other mongers. Otherwise you get assholes like CKS175 who don't give a shit about anybody.

I bet the guys TER handle starts with CKS and ends with 175.

Looks like MLBB is back!

1. I don’t take PMs from alias accounts. I delete before opening.  
2. If you want to try again, send a subject line message Requesting Permission To Communicate. If you don’t get a timely reply (within a week), the answer is no.

So just curious...... what did he say to you when you kept asking him to leave?

The batteries for my atomic clock wrist watch are too heavy to carry around. But I'll try to remember to be more careful with the pointy parts of my wrist sundial.

If you don't take PMs from aliases, why are you sending them to one, mine. I never asked you to contact me, but you reached out. I don't do trannies, but I heard you do. Does your ass still hurt? Was TSAmy's dick too big for your tight white ass? TER doesn't allow posting of PMs, but I'm happy to share with those who would like to read his butt hurt message to me.

When you get appointment times of 1:10, 2:20, 3:30, and so on, its a 10-12 customers a day girl for sure.  

that she's sharing the incall and staggering appointments with a housemate so mongers don't run into each other.

He kept begging "Five more minutes"  
I was completely dressed for 30 mins asking him to leave. Looking back, if this is the worst thing to happen to me in 2 years Im ok. I wasn't held at hurt or busted!  

What.... was this a young guy?  
To him: Jeez, sound pathetic much?
I'm surprised he wasn't dry humping your leg like a horny chihuahua, with you trying to shake him off. Him with a bug eyed, slack jawed expression...trying to spooge on your pants leg, before you can buck him off....finally to go scurrying down the hall with a little jizz trail leaving reminder of his exit.