Had a session the other day, things went very well (I'd say a "9")... I was very respectful and gentleman-like (left a tip in envelope before disappearing for the shower).. now here comes the "but":


But, both times (I've seen this provider twice) she kind of "flipped" a towel for me to clean myself with.

I don't like to make something out of nothing, and of course I'm always looking for signs that the provider doesn't like me (so that I won't return and waste both of our times), but this just bothers me.  Especially when I see a review the same week where she attended to someone afterwards.

I know it's YMMV, so the reason why I'm posting here is to hopefully find out what is defective on my personality so that I can change it.  Am I too deferential? Not aggressive enough?

In my experience, I find it half and half.  Either the provider insists on doing the "wipe up" to the extent that they get upset if you try to do it yourself (Picture a waiter in a restaurant freaking out if you get up and pour yourself a glass of water from the wait station.)(Most of the time it is the Asian providers who are like this, but not always.) The others leave it all to you.  Myself, I don't put much store by either way, in fact, I often arrange a pair of towels by the bed (if it is a hotel room) so that we can wipe ourselves or each other depending on each's desires.  I have also met women who do not want you to wipe them, and insist on cleaning up themselves, often in the bathroom out of sight.
It's all just part of the wonderful unfolding of the moment.

Nothing's wrong with you, I'm sure.  She just probably didn't feel the chemistry.  As you said yourself, YMMV.

It sounds like you have the type of openminded, introspective, self-improving attitude that makes you well-liked by most people.  But you can't change yourself to please everyone.  Some people will just be not that into you.  There doesn't have to be a reason.

Dr. Phil would be so proud of us...

It's true that I usually like to bring a warm towel back to the bed to clean someone. I find it soothing and another part of the pampering process. However, there have been some men that don't have towels handy (at their houses) or wish to towel themselves off. Perhaps, she was kind enough to offer you a towel but didn't know whether to wipe you or have you do it. I think you shouldn't worry about it. However, if you're really sensitive about it, then ask her. Although men are from Mars and women are from Venus, we sometimes need to be told what you want from us. I think it's different for women. We need to clean inside, too, and it's a little awkward for men to do this and do a proper job. Wink!

Hugs,
Ciara

Perhaps we should ask him exactly why he wants a hooker to fall in love with him the 1st hour or 2?  I cannot help but note that there is no mention of the amount of $$$ involved.

I *CAN* understand ymmv when it comes to BBBJ for one hobbiest and CBJ for another hobbiest, and things of that nature

But, a wipedown ymmv?


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that sucks!!! you may be right, though

strange thing is, during the session, she does so many extras... then, wham!!.. flip of the towel, not even lying next to me in bed.

So she's got great skills, but it's just a job.  No fake GFE.  Sometimes that's actually refreshing, don't you think?

I'm a submissive pervert.

Hey fellas don't bash him.  This is a guy with standards.  Somebody that pays attention to detail.  If you're ass were on the line, say in Afghanistan or during neurosurgery or on a Cessna during a thunderstorm, would you want professor curious or mr. cynical?

You need to give me a call sometime so I can hear more.

I have been seeing mostly asians for the last 1 1/2 and 95% of the time I get the full treatment.Table shower,massage,daty,cbj,3-5 positions,wipedown with hot towel,and alittle more massage.AT 2bills plus tip.You cant beat that.My ATF just left the biz,but she was absolutly the most beautiful women I have ever seen,the most stunning smile and eyes,and busty busty busty.I think you getting alittle petty and if it bothers you talk to her about it.

Maybe if she thinks you are headed for the shower she thinks you don't need cleaned up?

and Sabbath. Wink!

Hugs,
Ciara

I am sure SantafollowmeClaus  himself  Wink !

Thank you
Ho Ho Ho
Merry Christmas

we could use him as the sacrifice!