but the main thing is that I made it to base safely.

It was way back in 1974 - a massage only provider.  She did a so-so massage and a HJ topless.  It was over in about ten minutes or so.  She was a very skinny blonde gal, but had a pretty face and OK personality.  What the hell, it was only $25.

I'd score it a 7/5.

But since then, things have gotten better and better.

As I read thru reviews I notice that a lot of guys first provider that they saw was a 9/9 or even a 10/10 girl their first time out. i am not talking about the guys who have only posted a single review but guys like "inicky" who has gone onto see what looks like quite a few great girls you lucky SOB. Maybe you are like me in that you did see and review girls on other boards first before using TER or you could be like me that when I first started I was so green that of course I got burned bad my first 2 times out.

was over 30 years ago...and TER (or any review sites) didn't exist.

I didn't even have a bed, just a chair in a room upstairs from a strip club in TJ, but she did get me off, and I vaguely remember her being nice, but what do you want from me? It was 1974, I was fifteen, drunk, and in Mexico.

I just had a thought, we never used a condom, maybe Udon't is fucking my bastard "hija" from all those years ago? What a horrible fucking thought.

My first was almost 20 years ago and agree - no forum to review...  She was a 10 for me (in Vegas at a convention) and I remember her bringing along a portable CD player and danced on the bed before we went at it.  A lot of fun and memories

I made every stupid mistake there is to make.
Had trouble with the condom, asked her how old she was.
The list goes on, and on.
Now don't get me wrong. I had a great time when I wasn't fucking it up.
She was very beautiful.  
Now that I know how to score. The performance numbers would go down a point or so.
Her looks score would stay the same.

It's an interesting question, so I will not turn loose The Cunning Linguist and Conan The Grammarian on your post.
And, yes, I did get lucky with my first provider a few years ago.  (Technically, she wasn't my very first, since I played extensively in the pre-Internet years.)  When I decided to come back I got on TER and another site and began doing my homework.  I faced the usual Catch-22: none of the good gals would see me because I had no references.  And I was afraid to go with a BP girl.
I discovered a gal whose reviews were amazing.  I saw some pictures of her and she became my Holy Grail.  I emailed her and she asked for 3 references.  I told her I had none, but understood why she was being careful and asked her to suggest a few girls who might see me and provide what she needed. Long story short, there was something about the way I communicated with her that, after a bit more back and forth, she said she'd see me.
The session was off the charts, even by my current standards.  She was (and is) a beautiful, insatiable sexual athlete who squirted like crazy and ultimately (a couple of years later) invented what seemed to be an entirely new sexual position.  We subsequently became friends and have had a relationship well beyond P4P which continues today.
She's still active and, for various reasons, I don't want to identify her.  She is in my early reviews but all I'll say is, it's not my first review.  Friends who read this can easily figure out who I mean.

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My second was actually supposed to have been my first. I got verified through rs2k and set everything up and she had to cancel last minute. I was disappointed but her assistant said she could vouch for me with a girl that did doubles with the girl who was supposed to be my first and it was on. That session was quite good, but I was able to see the girl I had originally made a date with next and that was a home run. I've seen both ladies since and they were both great. I will also say that fortunately I didn't start with a BP girl, because I've seen a few BP girls since and I may not have continued to hobby if I had.

hi there  

It wouldn't be quite so funny.  Shit...paying 1k for an average looking woman...whatever    

My first one was a 2 hour drive away, ( and back home of course ) her ad said ," beautiful home over looking Tampa Bay", Turns out her home was a real dump and if she could even see Tampa Bay it would have required a 40 foot tall step ladder, plus the pictures of her on her website were at least 20 years old

This was so long ago I may get some of the details wrong.  First I got the smoke signals all mixed up. Did she say 5 pelts and the 3rd cave from the left or 3 pelts and the 5th cave from the left.  When I finally found her there was some damned Austraopithecus lurking near the cave entrance picking fleas out of his beard and eating them. Hey evolve already will ya buddy. When I get inside I carefully place the pelts on the big flat rock where she can see them from her darkened perch in the back. When she finally comes into the light I have to admit I was a little disappointed--I mean she was barely bipedal and I must have read the cave painting wrong because no way she was middle paleolithic more like lower paleolithic.  Well I figured what the hell I'd already put down the pelts.  We sniffed each other to get that out of the way and then I pointed to my crotch and to her mouth.  Well next thing she's making whooping sounds and throwing her feces at me. So I guess it's regular old doggie.  Given the constant threat of predators I didn't take any more than my usual 15 to 20 seconds. She skittered back into the darkness of the cave (but not without grabbing the pelts) leaving me to wipe up with my own leaves which I had fortunately gathered on my way there. Walked out to the sound of Australo laughing as he rubbed one out against the cave wall. Oh well. Still gave her a 9/9.

It was the early 90's and the internet wasn't an option. She was a streetwalker in DC and I barely remember her. The next lady was also a streetwalker who was a 7/8 today but was a 9/9 for me then. She was about 35, dark hair and thin an was a really good provider. I saw her about 6or 8 times until I moved on.

I heard about an agency from a friend. I found out about TER from that same friend. I lurked on the agencies board for about 6 months and on TER too. The lady was highly rated and well reviewed. Back channel on the agency board was all positive. I was also able to read her posts there and to PM with her. I had no problem passing the agency screening and made an appointment to see her. She was all I expected and more. I was not especially nervous but the butterflies were there. I didn't live up to my expectations but she more than made up for my shortcomings. I did not review that session and didn't review other sessions I had with providers for another 6 to 8 months. I saw her several more times after she went independent. I did eventually review her so like inicky she is in my reviews but she isn't the first one.

She blew my mind and set the bar so high that it took me nearly a year to find another 10.  Thank God, I've had way better success since then, but even with all the success I've had, she is still a 10/10.  If she ever wanted an updated review, it would still be a 10/10.  

was also her first review on TER. Fantastic MILF/GFE experience including greek. AS a rookie I graded very high and as I've learned the grades have dropped. Mainly after seeing a true 10/10.

session was before I was aware of TER.  

Then again I didn't walk into this all doe eyed. I walked into this shortly after my first time thinking.  "This is sex?  This is what idiots bust their asses for? This fucking sucks. I better call a pro to make sure I'm actually capable of enjoying this."  

I really hope that you desperate gentlemen can "hit a home run" with a women that you are paying for sex!

It was a "GRANDSLAM" !  

back in the 1980s. I think I lasted less than a minute. No 10/10, but she was hot!

I lurked around here for quite a while and made an appointment with a DC legend.  By the time she was through with me I was hooked.  Probably my 6th or 7th lady before I left disappointed

No fucking breaks for you "cum boy".

Seeing a pattern here. The ones who started with TER had good first times. See guys - you really do help a lot! Thanks for being so generous with your advice. It really does make a difference and a big part of what makes TER work. Oh yeah, hubby rates his first time a 8/9. Not bad for starters.

Late 70s maybe early 80s, can't remember exactly, hanging outside a porn theatre on 14th St when a street walker approached me. Took me to a tiny room and gave me a bj. Broke the ice and I began to dabble. Things were way different then. Better now, but not bad then. I liked and in some ways miss the Cat House experience.  

but I didn't even know about TER and reviews back then. I heard about her from a friend and just forged ahead. She set me on a safer path, and also was my first solid reference so my way into the hobby was fairly easy.

My very first provider is the one who got me hooked on the hobby.  She was a true nymph and truly loved what she was doing.  She didn't just do it for the money.  She was a pervert too.  And she was smoking hot too.

rocket science to read the details in reviews and make decisions accordingly.  

Using hindsight as a judge now that I've experianced a bit of what Hobbyland had to offer I'd say I'm probally 9-13 in the extra base hit department. A couple a thought were homers early on if say were doubles at best now. Funny thing I was killing time a while back in a shopping center parking lot while my ATF got things ready. Saw a gal that I had saw early on a BP girl no doubt walk by my truck heading torward the low rent incall she frequents (not where I was meeting my ATF) and thought boy have my standards changed. No way I'd hit that again but at the time I enjoyed her enough that I repeated less than a month earlier. She didnt even remember we had met. That broke me from BP and made me stick to higher end gals. Stupid me I started high end and then went slumming a couple times. Good thing I changed my ways, was definatly more rewarding, safer and tons more fun. Moral of the story quit worrying about notches on the proverbial gun belt and take some time to scour the gals in you're area and do some research before calling.  

The first time I was with a provider, I was the pitcher and I delivered a high hard one to her!!

I was as inexperienced as you can get - and not just hobby-wise.

i live in an area with is the like the Sahara of hobbying so finding the first one took a long time. i would search the adds everyday checking out every detail and reviews if they had any. then i came across a provider that visits the area for a while at a time and decided this would be the one. when she showed up at the door i was aw struck. 5' 9" 115 b cup perfect breast and super clean. she is super talented too just the perfect women! all of the searching and checking paid off. now she is the only one i see on a regular basis, i lucked out big time and she is worth every penny. i love my Provider!!!!

I came into the hobby world late compared to most.  I have no experience of what this was like before TER and other similar sites.

Being lucky enough to have a few $$ stashed away, it was pretty easy to look at the Top 100 list in the city of my choice, and head right for the top of that list.  And yeah, it was pretty friggin' awesome.  Maybe not a 10/10, but definitely a 9.5/9.5.

Depending on your point of view, it was either a very good or very bad thing that I went that route, as now I'm a hobby junkie.  If the first time hadn't been so good, I might have decided that:

Once is Enough for this Lifetime

Instead I say:

YOLO!

It was more of a blow by the face, not to the face!

My first time was in the red light district in Amsterdam. I was really young, and she was definitely a 10 in looks, but at that point in my life, I'd have no clue whether she was a 2 or a 10 in performance - in my mind, it was a solid 10.  It cost the equivalent of $25 US (back in '91).  What a bargain!

My first 2 times at bat I struck out Nothing, nada I really did believe that the first girl would come back after delivering the donation to her driver and that the second girl was honest when she told me that "anything goes" until I made the donation and found out nothing goes and thank god I was not dumb enough to try to get anything back as after storming out of the room a guy who could play left tackle for the Giants was standing outside who would probably have taken great pleasure in hammering the "Hammerhead".

Vegas casino girl. 6/4 $500 + $100 "tip" for 15 minutes. Second vegas casino girl 7/2, ripped me off, robbed me, no sex at all. She was given $300 and stole $800. Would you believe I was stupid and desperate enough to try two more times before discovering TER? lol

more details. I meant "rain" figuratively.

Er, the girl stole 1100 from you as you didn't get anything in return, and you still give her a 2? What would a girl have to do to get a 1, go all Lorena Bobbit

I figure a 1 is reserved for physical threats or "I was left with a stab wound."

Reminds me of the line from Clint Eastwood's "The Gauntlet".  About Sondra Locke's hooker character, he says "I give her a 2, but that's only because I've never seen a 1 before"

My first provider was INCREDIBLE.  I just lucked into it,   so to speak.  But, she set the bar very high for future ladies.

I see we're stuck in the "post got to be approved mode" again.

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Was a hot looking blonde with a fantastic body in downtown San Diego.  I would still give her a 10/10 after sampling so many since.  I could almost feel her sucking my cock and the taste of her pussy when we 69'd as I write this response.  She sold me on hobbying!