anal sex...is it a necessity?  is it a no-no? or is simply a viable option...

and a VERY pragmatic "option" on several levels.

doing on "demand." It's like Hmm I have to have anal at 3 p.m. on Thursday...like I am going to know if I am horny for that then lol. It's just one of those things IMO that are better when it's with someone you are dating as opposed to being paid.

However, I don't mind doing it if a lady asks me "should we try greek".  It doesn't nothing for me other than feeling like I've been through many of the menu for completeness.

Interestingly, there were some providers who wanted me to continue in greek for a while longer,
even though I suggested we try some other position.  Sometimes even longer than a while  longer.

So two possibilities. Either 1) they didn't want to see my face, or 2) they really truly enjoyed Greek.
( Considering, the girls in question DFKed me constantly in between, I rule out the first possibility.)

Then again, there are two holes down there so it's simply another viable option for me.

Typically, the endowed man would have difficulty finding a taker yet not be necessary since a vagina fits snug around him...could be wrong but if sensation I an issue either you watch too much porn, whack/jerkyourself off to HARD or you're not well-endowed.
Now, those are the rambling thoughts inside a blonde mind thats never partaken in anal...lol (no joke, I've pondered this...why an ass over a vagina, seriously)

K, done

I am a woman that LOVES a good ass pounding! I do like vaginal sex and get off with this with the intensity of any other woman F&%@ING BUT when I am aroused to a certain point and then you put a cock in my ass OMFG!!!! That is the most incredible orgasm I can have!! As far as size goes, well the size is really not an issue big or small. You see when I am ready for greek my ass conforms to the size cock that is penetrating me. It will open up as big as the cock is.
So for me, BRING ON THE GREEK BABY!
Hugs and kisses
TL

Sensation IS an issue....medication related.
Really though, i haven't entered the poop-shute in many yrs!
I think for some, it's just erotic to do so.

why not both.

If you love it so much why the upcharge

As well, is this true ? What is different ? Do all providers have anal orgasms ?

I've been a little afraid of it, I don't want to hurt anyone, and I don't want to do something that some else finds painful while I am trying to complete something.

I get complaints about being too tight in the front, so very few ask me for anal unless it is just something they have never tried. The part about anal I never understood was women who "prepare" using a butt plug to stretch it out prior to a date...umm what's the point then? I mean if the whole idea is it being tight, why stretch it out? I certainly have never stretched out anything else prior to seeing a guy, and I won't do that either.

clitoral to full vaginal orgasms so having something inside me all the way usually stops me from being able to achieve. Even a finger in there all the way during daty, messes me up.

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I enjoy the extra sensation, but then again, the most tight orfice of a gal is her hand, when you come right down to it; so that's not the real issue.  Also, a hand job is done without a condom, an even bigger plus for sensation.

I think the main allure is the taboo.

The gals I do have anal with seem to enjoy it as much or more than I do, and that is also a big part of the fun.

As a guy whose tool is not that large, I seem to get invited to Greece quite often, even by gals who do not indicate that they offer it.

Too tight in the front?? Now that i like!! lol

London -

The ladies who "prepare" are usually not using a buttplug to stretch...they're taking an enema to "clear out"...

to follow up...i am not an anal guy..i do not request it or expect it..some providers [ even porn stars ] abhor the idea of anal sex..they will never do it and tell you why..that is an entirely different thread..some providers will ask you in the session if you would do anal for them..i will comply seeing that it will increase her pleasure..why say no? i never ' demand' it during a session..ruins it completely..if she doesnt state she provides it..always ask..providers need a heads up to properly 'prepare ' as for heathers statement about the difference in holes..every man has his preference..most prefer the vagina as i do..it is like that first cookie that comes out of the oven..warm and moist..yummy..

Whether you enjoy anal or not depends upon your state of mind and the skill level of your partner. Men that are good preparing a woman for anal have the woman relish it, regardless of his cock size. I don't book providers that offer anal as a menu item. On the occasions when I have done anal with a provider the event have come because she had been wondering what it felt like and was game for it with me. Gentleness and demonstrated care about a provider that one has seen multiple times helps with her decision to offer special event anal.

Any provider that does not have interest in anal should focus on other menu offerings.

In the occasions where I have had anal with a provider, she has orgasmed repeatedly. Any person, including woman have only so many orgasms in them each day.

I have had women tell me their orgasms with me in their ass were off the map and that they lost track of how many they had. The first woman that I had anal with with screaming and moaning so loud that the sound likley could be heard well outside my home. Since that time, I kiss women and put a finger over their mouth when they start getting loud, some ladies bite pillows.

And no visits by me for business to what looks like your home area. It seems to be a challenge for a man with his shaft up your pooper. Once you meet a man that understand what he is doing when he has his coks up your ass, you likely will change your tune.

I have found from experience that women's assholes have varying contours. Taking the time to understand a woman's contours and shaping penetration to her contours increases the pleasure for me at the woman.

If you're lucky, one day you will meet a man that knows how to fuck a woman's asshole while giving her all else like body kisses and deep french kissing.

around with a plug in for the very reason of stretching the area, so it does not hurt going in. Anyone attempting anal should very well use an enema and a few other things I won't mention lol.

He does not have to know what he is doing, because I do. I simply will NOT see an above average man for anal or vaginal sex period...has more to do with anatomy than ignorance.  The point I am trying to make is I am not a guy...I don't just "get horny" for anal because you scheduled it.

It is something that I have to be aroused for and that is not going to happen with every guy paying the fee. Just being honest here. Sure I can put it in there and act like it's all good, but it will never be as good as when I am the one asking for it. If I am not attracted to a guy...even worse.  Just because I don't enjoy it with "everyone" I meet, does not equate to not enjoying it at all. Huge difference in P4P and other situations.

to have a hole stretched out to accommodate "any size." I really don't care how much money or how many 10s one gets from it either....thinking long term in my real life vs. just today in hooker world.  Diapers at my age are not very appealing and I can show you actual medical FACTS, vs. mere speculation. Too much pounding and too much size back there on a regular basis will in fact PERMANENTLY jack up that area, so again...thanks but no thanks.

Bravo for posting on the forum and expressing your opinions.  I for one appreciate it and thank you

Do you know what kind of prep this takes not mention healthcare (colonics and exams) for my ass? Plus not to mention if I didnt charge more just about every guy would want to do it every appointment! It is my specialty and I enjoy it more than most know BUT there are reasons why a lot of us ladies charge more PLUS if you havent noticed this is a business for us ladies. If a gent wants greek believe me he is getting more XXX action than he can handle! lol It does intensify my performance.
Hugs and kisses
TL

them it's always because "we don't enjoy it." Funny, all my boys in real life never paid for it much less paid extra lol. It's not something I am going to serve up to just anyone in the hobby...why? Because I don't have to. Why do many of us charge more? Because we CAN!

What's not to like?  LOL

Of course when you are average in endowment like I am (6"), it makes a lady much more likely to be interested.

The sphincter is an air and liquid tight enclosure. So, you don't get water up your ass when you swim. So, in order for anything to come out, it has to relax and open. This takes some time. Think about when you are constipated... if you force it out, it hurts like hell. So, you just sit there and wait while the sphincter relaxes and opens up enough to allow something bigger than normal (since constipated poop doesn't have the "give" of normal poop) to pass freely.

The same thing happens trying to get something in. Even when a guy tries to just force a finger in to open it, it can hurt even though a finger is relatively small. Most guys do not have any understanding of how to relax and open a sphincter either with their fingers or with their c*ck. You can't trust them to make sure it's done in a way that doesn't hurt (which it does when forcing it to open). And a lot of guys who want anal just want to "try it" so they can cross it off their bucket list so they don't know what they are doing.

This is the concept of preparing for anal and using a butt plug in advance. You use the butt plug to relax and dilate the sphincter so the anal doesn't hurt.

And my reasons above are why I don't do anal with clients. They have no motivation whatsoever to avoid hurting me and to take the time needed to actually make it feel good.

For me, this is reserved for guys who care about me. When done right, anal can feel amazing for the woman (but usually not the first time!).

If I have anal with a guy who is 9 inches and a wee one comes along, it is not going to feel as tight as if I had done "nothing" at all before he got there. That's my whole point.  Whether you call it relaxing or something else, it still makes the hole open up so it's not going to feel as tight.

I will clean it to all smithers, but I am not going to take away the very thing that makes most men want anal. I would prefer to do this "relaxing" during the act and not before so when he goes in there it's tight as fk to start with. See my point?  I get what you're saying too, which is why so many women prefer to do this prior to a date, but not me. I just kick em in the nuts if they hurt me!

What I have done with boyfriends is let them get down to a semi and then put it in that way, and let it get rock hard after so it's not so much of a shock. Does not work for everyone and it's hard as hell to get them to a semi when they know what is coming next, but you gotta train em bwahahaha.