You know...looking through the various reviews etc, I just wanted to get people's feelings on single hour appointments versus multiple hours. It seems to me from reading the reviews that most folks seem happy to walk in the door...get their two or three pops in and are on their way. To me it seems counterintuitive in a way.

Not like I can really speak from any experience...I've only been with one provider thus far, but I booked a two hour appointment. I really appreciated just taking the time to chat and relax, plus play the game of seduction. I've read in some reviews that some of the clients didn't appreciate that maybe a provider was chatty or was taking up time with something other than the "act", like cuddling or kissing or a little play.

So I just wanted to see people's thoughts (both clients and providers) on one hour verus multiple hours. My personal feeling is I'll always book a two hour appointment. Partly it's physical (it takes me a good twenty minutes to reload), but mostly because I enjoy all the other stuff as well...

What are do you guys think?

I never do less than two hours anymore...and with my favorites it's usually three or four.  I don't want to rush or be on a schedule or not be able to talk in between 'activities'.   Most of the ladies I see are not clockwatchers so I'm not necessarily on a timer, but still it's nice to not have to worry about the clock at all.  And, if it's a first time with someone, it takes me a while to relax and get things rolling also, so with a new lady I'd still do the two hours.

Just my way of doing things...

taking my time and getting to know someone.  Then, you kind of get the feelings of his likes and dislikes.  Also, you know that you have enought time to REALLy make things special between the two of you.  Perhaps enjoying a bottle of wine.  Or a light touch massage while the two of you chat somemore.  I find people very interesting and everyone is different.  So the extra time is always great!  Helps break the ice.  Heidi xxoo

I usually go for the the 2 hour appointment, especially with a new lady and always multi-hour with my ATF.  Guys have stated they only do a 1 hour with a new lady because they might not click.  I disagree with that because I've already done my research here so I know some of the basic facts and I can click with anyone for 2 hours even if I don't like them.  I just won't go back.

Having said that, if you're on a TOFTT mission, those should probably be 1 hour appointments.  If she turns into someone I like, then go with longer appointments.  Also, if there is a language barrier, I'll generally go with 1 hour.

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I generally want a very nice GFE and time talking, cuddling, and kissing is as important to me as the sex- especially since cumming is sometimes difficult for me. One hour is just too rushed for me.

Like Dakube said, with new- I don't worry about not clicking because I research well and won't see anyone who does not have solid 9's.

With repeat- it is obviously with a lady I've seen and enjoyed very much and want to spend more time with, so 2 hours is also enjoyable!

However, it obviously varies from hobbyist to hobbyist and their budget and goals.  Some want to see more visits on set budget and prefer shorter, some see less reviewed hot lookers and do have the concern about clicking and not being tied to 2 hours.

Most of the provider's I've talked to prefer longer visits, but one really well known one I've seen strongly prefers one hour first visit for her fear of being tied to someone she doesn't click with.

No set rule obviously!

Had a wonderful multi-hour luncheon with a special lady earlier this year. Chose that option for a first meeting after reading up on many of her posts over the years. Felt like I knew her a bit before we met. My intuition was correct, because we subsequently did 2+ days together another time, and also a full day in NYC. I couldn't imagine just one hour with her. Would be like chugging a fine wine. (My goal on dates isn't to see how many 'cups' can be had, so maybe I'm not in the norm.)

No "Cliff's Notes" for this Prof!

See getting to GB for 2 hours was a great treat to me!  Heidi xxoo

as far as two hours or more allowing time to get to know a person, his likes/dislikes, general personality, our potential chemistry together, etc...that is something i establish before a meeting ever takes place. i exchange detailed, lengthy emails as well as phone conversations with every new gent, and during the course of that time i can get a good feel for who he is and whether or not he is someone i should spend any time with at all.

so when it comes time for that first meeting, we are not strangers. so with all that said, i prefer 1 hour appts. for the first time, because you never know exactly how things may go, how the physical connection will work out, how comfy i will be with them in person, etc. if all went smoothly and we fit together nicely, then 2 hr and longer appointments are fine and welcome. the only time i do multi-hour appointments on the first date would be when the particular gent and i have been talking on the phone and emailing extensively, say for several weeks or even a few months, and we have a great rapport established.

I've stated this previously on the board-----I'm regularly seeing a high end provider, so 2 hours is too expensive & 1 hour is too quick----the 1&1/2 hour timeframe is perfect for me--allows time for extended conversation & multiple pops----(multiple pops---sounds like the name of an X-rated cereal---- )

One hour just not enough time
I mean, do you want the bing-bang thank you maam
or a more sensual fun session?

I used to do one hour appts, now only minimum of 2, this way you get to chat, have wine, and tonnes of play

to cuddle and talk... call me a pussy, but if i want to dine at the Y for a little longer, or take a nap with a warm body in my arms... one hour limits the possibilities... with that said... some women an hour is perfect with... some day you only want 15 minutes...

One time I actually painted a painting of the woman between eating lunch and her...

I treat a gentleman the same with a one-hour appointment as I would a two-hour appointment.

However, the big difference is what you get and the length of it. It's almost impossible to give a great full-body massage, then take my time with oral (which I love to do from head to toe), then have the rest in one hour. Sure, I can rush it for him for one hour, but the experience is so much better when both don't have time limitations. I like to think of myself as a courtesan. Some of my friends actually share passages from books with me, we share stories of our travels, of sexual escapades, whatever. It's so much fun.

Now, for you one-hour guys: That's okay too. I love getting kinky right away, too. There may not be a great massage in the midst but -- hopefully -- you'll still feel satisfied and have a wonderful time.

Hugs,
ciara

Considering the amount of time I put into selecting, booking and preparing for an encounter, I certainly don't want it to end in just one hour.

My fantasies entail a goodly amount of "exploring", which for me, is a great stimulant. Being a "romantic" at heart I'm not in any marathon for positions or pops.

Everytime I see a review, of a one hour appt., that has virtually everything but a trampoline, I just laugh. I can only imagine a "fast-forward" film with everyone collapsing at the end. So sexual aerobics is not for me.

My survey answer is: 2 or more

I find that 2 hours works better for me especially in first encounters. Time to relax and chat a bit and still time for a 2nd cup.

 That said there are a couple of very lovely and well reviewed ladies who have made it clear that they prefer a single hour appointment. In their case I respect their wishes and book a single hour.  

-J

and while I enjoyed it, something was missing.

I always prefer multiple hours because I like the unrushed feel, the time to be able to relax and really enjoy the ladies company.
What can I say, I'm a snuggler.

I usually do 2 hours at a minimum, but would easily go for 3-4 or more if financially able.

I'm not it it just to "get off".
To me it's not all about the sex, but all about the intimacy.

Just my opinion...
B

I usually prefer a 2 hour appointment, but sometimes I will do a 1 hour appointment. When I am travelling, I always do 2 hours or more. When at home if I have a date with a 9 or 10 rated provider, I will try to schedule 2 hours, but sometimes I do not have time, so I will just go for 1 hour. On the other hand, sometimes I just feel like a quick 1 hour date.

I'm actually kind of surprised by the number of responses.

At least I don't feel like so much of a wuss because I like to cuddle and play a little.

Besides...my general feeling is that the anticipation and the building excitement of a slow tease and seduction just makes it more worthewhile. I mean if I just wanted to put one into a girl...I can just hop to any of the local bars in the area during happy hour and pcik up any of the horny housewives who've had one too many Long Island Iced Teas. But frankly...that's just not my style.

I usually do 90 minute appointments.  Chit chat is nice and all, but I don't need to pay someone $400 an hour to talk to me. 90 minutes provides plenty of time to reload for the second round and ample time for "get to know you" chatting.

I really enjoy the 2-hour appointment.  One hour feels rushed to me and takes some of the enjoyment out of it.  My budget only allows me one 2-hr appointment per month, and I'd much rather do one 2-hr appointment than two one-hour appointments.  If I want a longer date, for example a 4-hr dinner date, I pretty much have to skip a month for that. The downside of that is I'd have a 2-month wait between appointments.  
The 2-hour appointment allows for getting-to-know-you time for new appointments, and for repeat visits it allows some catch-up time. I enjoy enjoying some wine and just relaxing, with less pressure from having to rush through the hour.

Runningman