I just booked an appointment and had a discussion on dress code for the appointment and it got me to thinking.  I never make specific costume requests, but depending on the situation, the most specific I will get is "I prefer you stay casual, no need for high heels or anything fancy, just stay the way you normally would if you were hanging out".  

Some providers have greated me in jeans and T-shirts, others in sweats (in-call).  In one case I met a provider for a lunch appointment and she showed up in a really nice gym outfit (tight yoga pants and a sports bra)...I never knew how much I liked that type of outfit!!

In my specific case its an outcall and we are meeting for drinks first so I said, "be casual, I'm going to be in jeans" So it raised some questions:

FOR THE PROVIDERS: Given the option, how would you prefer to dress for an appointment?  Does dressing up get you in your "provider place" or is it a big pain in the ass?

FOR THE HOBBIERS: Do you usually request special clothing for an appointment?  Specifically, is it important to you how the provider dresses for the intitial meeting, whether publically or in the room, or do you request specific types on lingerie?

Which for me is 90 percent upscale casual.
I do this in everyday life...
I enjoy matching outfits .. bold jewlery.. high heels or high wedges.   But I always try to be appropriate to the situation, place, and person I am with also.

I do sometimes wear underwear and bra specially for dates.  If I'm only doing what I do for myself .. I often am not wearing panties and sometimes no bra depending on the obsenity factor... don't like to disturb or offend anyone. and when I am wearing bra and or panties, for myself, they are usually plain and simple, not lacy and spangled.
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I also enjoy the casual look. I like a knee length sun dress with sandals. Always have; always will.

I have made dress requests. Some comply, some don't. I absolutely hate hooker-heels.

Or some reallyyyyyyyyyyy nice jeans and a pair of heels.

I am always dressed EXTREMELY conservatively. I don't do the hoochie momma dress code ever under any circumstances....it's just not my style.

If I have never met the gentleman before,and we are meeting for drinks, I tend to dress upscale, and classy... like a nice skirt and blouse and conservative, yet sexy heels, very subdued jewelry. The last thing he nor I need is when I walk into the lounge everyone secretly know who I am and why I am there.

If he is coming straight to my room, I will wear a sexy skirt and top with no panties, or lingerie too with stockings that I can peel off piece by piece during the massage.... its a fun tease to take items off as I am massaging him and rub them on him to let him know I am getting more and more naked lol


If I know the guy, and we have a rapport, and have established that comfort level, then I might wear slacks and a nice top, and flats. Or even a VERY nice pair of jeans and a blouse. But I would never dress completely down... not my style. I may do the summer dress and sandals look too


This reminds me of when I worked in Elko MANY years ago, and I was working the late shift, where I was the first girl to come out in the middle of the night while the others slept for a bit... I was the "early girl" meaning I got to go to be d early while they worked till 2am then after 2am any visitors saw me first and the others girls slept, only called on if I was busy. Well, I was still FRESH and NAIVE lol and CLUELESS. I came out to meet the guy in sweats lmao! The madam gave me the 3rd degree and said "don't ever come out like that again, if they wanted to see that, they would go home to their wives!" lmao

Then I turned 22 in the house, she bought me lingerie for my birthday.. the first time I had EVER had lingerie if you can believe that! I NEVER to this day meet clients like that@! If I begin to, I always hear Mona's voice in my head ROFLMAO!

I love when blind dates arrive with no underwear on.  For me I like have new underpants to impress.

I also prefer real clothes to lingerie but I don't make requests for 1st meetings. I think it's important for firsts for my hostess to be comfortable and to make me feel comfortable. Usually, that seems to be something not meant for the street, shopping or clubbing that nonverbally says "You've found the right room."

I always prefer the provider dress up for our appointment, especially sexy lingerie.  To me, part of the GFE is slowly undressing my partner down to her lingerie.  A provider who shows up wearing sweats and flipflops just doesn't cut it in my book.
Always wanted to meet Sophie Simone just because of how she dresses for her appointments!

or any outfit that makes them feel sexy and sultry. When an escorts asks me if I have a clothing request, I sometimes asks them to wear an outfit from their web site gallery. The outfit usually doesn't stay on long, but sure gets the session off to great start.

That's just me.I love dresses,skirts,and business suits.Alot of the time gentleman are pleasantly surprised on how I dress.I love heels always wear them if a gentleman wants me to wear jeans and sneakers I will,but haven't had any request like that yet.Casual for me is a nice pair of slacks or a below the knee skirt.Most of the time I look like I'm going to work in the office none of that sleazy attire.Sexy lingerie touching my body makes me feel sexy.So,it's not a pain for me to dress up because that's how I dress everyone has their preference on what's makes them feel most comfortable.

for some ladies I do request something to show off any favorite feature I might like...

For me, the lingerie thing hasn't done that much for me, but yesterday I had an OFF-THE-CHARTS time with a favorite lady who was in town. She was wearing a sort of glittery silver short dress like you might wear to a night club. Totally commando underneath.

HEAVEN!

I usually like dinner to be part of the session so I tell them where we're going and they dress accordingly.  I've rarely had a provider be under dressed.  But they have an unfair advantage since they start out looking better than I do.

her choice of attire in the bedroom, and in public.

Where I live, people are notoriously casual. During the hot summer, I wear a nice Polo shirt, white slacks for outcalls. If I wore a nice dress, security would zero in on me and I don't like sticking out like a sore thumb. Polo shirt and slacks are casual, but elegant.

In the winter, I'd wear a black turtleneck and slacks and a nice belted winter coat with heels.


For incall, I come to the door dressed in nice lingerie and high heels.

I've never requested an outfit, but I think casually dressed women are extremely sexy. A t-shirt and shorts/jeans is a real turn on. A gym outfit sounds even sexier. I don't like fancy dresses (light summer dresses are OK) and high heels.

I live in an extremely casual city to begin with, and I don't even need to wear business casual because I own my own company, so most days I'd just look like a bum next to a well dressed lady. Not that it matters much in the comfort and privacy of an incall, but still. I actually dress up to jeans and a polo shirt for my appointments. Taking it further than that would look suspicious.

When I meet Allure` downstairs she looks like everybody else. Well, except a hell of a lot better looking!

But she'd be there, with her bag, just like any other lady.

Except, 'I' know what's in that bag. And it's gonna hurt. But just for a little while.

I never request anything special, as I hope the lady will dress how she is most comfortable, but I love the casual girl next door jeans and T-shirt look and the gym look
I prefer that they don't ware heels as they are a little bit of a turn-off to me. I also dislike the slut look as well.

All depends on where we're going.  Once in a while I've changed the restaurant when I saw what she was wearing (Daisy Dukes in a coat & tie steakhouse wouldn't have made me comfortable even if they were and she was) but not often, and not with repeat providers.

Though, you have to admit, it didn't stay on long.

But for some reason we kept the stockings on. They felt good when we, well, you were there.

Glad you like those looks because I love them and that look makes me feel very comfortable and relaxed, which makes for a much better session.

I feel sloppy, not sexy, wearing jeans and a t-shirt or *shudder* gym clothes, and I don't even wear them much in my civilian hours (other than, obviously, at the gym). "Just wear casual clothes" is about my least favorite clothing request (right next to chicken suit), and I will only occasionally and begrudgingly honor it. About as "casual" as I'll get is a sundress and sandals. It's just not my style. I DO wear heels when hanging out.

The major exception is if the situation truly calls for it -- going to a place or activity where wearing a skirt or dress would be weird or inappropriate. But that's a very rare occurrence.

As far as what the gentleman wears? Doesn't matter nearly as much, so he should wear whatever's comfortable for him/the setting. I will admit I have a bit of a cuff link fetish, though.

Whenever I get the request to "dress casual" or "dress how you would on a normal day".. I'm always at a loss. I haven't owned a pair of jeans or shorts since I was 16... I wear mainly dresses in the summer and dress pants/dressy top in the winter... I actually had to go to a Walmart recently to buy a jean skirt and regular top because the guy was super specific(he reimbursed me though because he was a regular that knew exactly how I dressed, but wanted something different). In fact, my daughter asked me that day "What are you wearing, why are you wearing that?", LOL!!

I prefer that a provider show up dressed conservatively in business causual or business dress. Discretion is important to me.

Casual to me means dressed in a loose fitting but nice top and dress casual slacks or a dress that extends to the knees or just below. Heels are out of question, I prefer that a lady show up in an elegant pair of flats. I prefer that she have little or no makeup on. When I am viewing websites, how the lady dress and presents herself determines whether I book her. I prefer the casually elegant, sleek, girl next door type.

You have a chicken suit???

(I'm not requesting such.  I do not have a "make-love-to-a-woman-in-a-chicken-suit" fetish.  Yet.)

I love those looks. I am a blue-collar type guy. I love it when the lady I am with dresses casually, with little or no makeup
It turns me on. Many ladies try to hard. Besides it draws to much attention if she is dressed up and I am in a T-shirt and jeans. I am glad there is a provider who likes to dress that way, too many dress like its a business meeting, or a formal ball, or worse dress like a street walker. But in the end it don't matter that much because its all coming off any way when we are alone and nothing beats the nude look.