and you do yourself no good to even inquire.

This is just a part of the life we choose here.

Over the 4 decades that I've been involved I can count about 5 of these circumstances occurring to me.

At least you got some communication.  In my case, most just cut off contact cold.

I have my suspicions in some of the cases, but they are just that.

I don't loose any sleep over it either.

Get back up on another horse and ride.

(Now that I'm gay 8o)

Anyhow, if you do want to do something on the classy side, just send a very brief email expressing gratitude for the hours of joy she brought to you and wish her well.

Do not expect any response.

Having seen a provider on a regular basis, she recently asked for me to no longer schedule time with her, and we should part as friends.  If I was meeting her contributions, getting great feed back on our "dates", and message stating cannot wait to see you again.  Any reason why I would get dumped?  I am some what hurt, my male ego, but rather more confused as she continues to see other clients.  Your thoughts...

Dont become like others we've seen where they start stalking ladies and such.  Maybe she's getting out, maybe she's cutting back.  Maybe she thinks you're a nasty meat Popsicle.  No offense, just sayin.  There are plenty of other great ladies out there who'll be willing to take her place Im sure.  Dont take it personally just chalk it up to great memories.  GL to you.

She was becoming too attached to you and the lines were becoming blurred? She had to end it for her sake?

Don't perpetuate it.  She owes you no explanation.  It happens, so just move on.  She could have any of the issues other posters above guessed at, or none of them.  In any case, if you contact her again she may make something up to soothe you or she may simply not respond.
Let it go.

Yes dont listen to Mr Fisher.....he's gay now!  LOL

And you are either not being totally honest with us or yourself.

Thanks for the feedback.  Just to let you all know, I did send her I note thanking her for the great times we had.  She has given me nothing but great reviews and references as well.  So I suppose the times are changing...appreciate the words to live by.

Could your review of TS Elle Fox have anything to do with her removing you from her portfolio ?

Listen, I'm a girl.  I admit to avoiding/delaying conflict and hurt feelings rather than just telling the truth.  

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Do you really want to tell your super nice regular client the reason why?  He's going to try to fix it or if it's not fixable it'll hurt his feelings.  Once a girl finally gets to the point that she says it's over, she doesn't want to fix it.

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told her all men take advantage.
More likely she is feeling constrained, controlled or restricted by you.
It's always abut the Benjamins remember that first and foremost and
try not to mix this unreal or fantasy world with real life.

we like change too here

You were probably too clingy.

Back in my past life, I had a regular cancel an overnight on me at the last minute (I was actually already at the restaurant at which we were supposed to meet). It was a real issue for me because I had made space for him instead of a two-day engagement with someone new because he was a regular. He had a good reason, and said he'd be back in town again to arrange the same engagement soon. He offered to send me some compensation as a cancellation fee, which I agreed to accept, but then he never followed up. Several months later he emailed to ask me to join him for dinner with another provider (an acquaintance of mine) he'd flown into my city with whom he was having an overnight. Seriously? I don't think so. So I said I was unavailable, but thanked him for the thought. And then I never wrote to him again. He tried several times after that to communicate with me, but I was just offended enough to not wish to engage with him again. And in all his communication, he not once brought up that incident. And then I retired. And he tried one last time to correspond even after I left, but I still never responded. I was done. When you're done, you're done.

well when its getting too close i feel like i dont want to see him again. its getting weird with time i like to keep it professional

Of course I could be wrong since I don't know the situation....

Thanks for all your thoughts on this. And in complete reflection, as a number of you pointed out- I stepped over that client boundary and was looking for more than I should have from her as an escort.  Lesson learned.  This was entirely my own fault, and she offered a truly classy out.

Did you ask her to clean your house?

So she must have been trying to be nice about it.

which many guys occasionally fail to accept is this:  

Everyone works for money.

What you wrote confuses the most.

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One-No matter how many times you've seen your atf, things will always end.  

Do you have bad issues with the hobby? WTF!

Seriously. Unless we all had copies of the case file complete with witness statements, video surveillance footage and wiretap transcripts what on Earth could anyone here possibly offer by way of insight. Should we tell you what to say on your next job interview as well?  

I definitely do NOT just do nothing "but fuck", nor do I have any desire to. I am great at what I do and love it, and I know exactly what being a good escort is all about...

I feel that lots of girls, and some boys as well, who grow up in families learn a value of pleading people and develop skills to do that. Maybe some who get good at pleasing people become pros just like some people who are good at carrying a tune become singers. If that's sort of close to how it is, P4P ladies might have a different way of looking at dissolving their business relationships. If they no longer feel like pleasing you, they stop and easily move on without much of a thought.

It must mean she had a jealous boyfriend.hear about you one two many times.or she started to develop unwanted feelings

Nice to see for a change.  

All of these may be factors.  I think its a good thing she actually said something to you.  That shows some level of respect.  She could have simply stopped communicating altogether right?  Like I said Boss, chalk it up to some great memories and make some new ones with a new lady!  Nothing wrong with that right?

he might want to re-read (at least once) what has been written.

Prepkid's post actually contained a common misconception. Clingy guys give us that line quite frequently. 'Never do anything with an escort but fuck', or 'I guess I was just too nice for you.' That is what clingy guys say when you don't return their emails after 15 seconds, and don't want to hang out with them for free. And ESPECIALLY when you don't want to date them. LOL. "Well, I guess you just prefer to be treated as a [insert epithet here]."  

Bad comparison! while it's true that "... People who are in any customer/service industry generally can't be a total and complete bitch (or prick)" but that's ALL they have to be, NOT being a bitch or prick. They don't really have to pretend that they care about the customers or enjoy their work. As long as they don't curse the customer out or screw up the order/service they get to keep the same paycheck working the same number of hours at the same hourly rate.

Assuming for a moment that your post is 100% sincere that still leaves oh maybe 99% of the ladies out there who are NOT like you. I'm willing to bet not even you yourself believe there are many other who fit the description of your post.

The more you give/put into your business, the more you care about making money. Not that this is a bad thing for the consumer. I just have to ask, if it's not about the money. Why would you be concerned about giving a good performance?

I have an enormous crush on at least one client of mine.  

She was being polite to you but she is prob just being professional you are prob getting a bit too heavy for her and she would rather you not waste your money looking for intense long term she cant give you.  Be happy she isn't horrid and rips you off giving you false hope.