People respond favorably to someone who shows respect by taking the time to right a nice grammatical and concise letter.

It does matter.

Remember to include the day, time, and length of session you want.

Be sure to check her site to see what information she requests.

Good post!

a representative photo

Dear Mr. Tidwell:
Keep in mind that sense you are Mr. Tidwell ultimately you will have to show and give them the money. However with that said before that inevitable moment comes the things that you would want to put in a correspondence of initial contact would be the following:  
1. Where you saw them advertise?  
2. What are the stipulations for verification?  
3. Any questions regarding references or verification sites?  
4. Any idiosyncracies or items that would make them replused: ( I.E. Cologne, hygiene etc)

All you need do is send in your screening info.

Usually, people think I'm a funny guy, and I sometimes get social mileage by starting off a new acquaintance with a joke or two. But it doesn't seem to work with providers, and yet if/when I DO actually end up in a session with them, I find that most of them love to laugh. So avoid jokes. Especially the one that starts out, "So a grizzly and a silverback walked into a bar..."

Sounds like it might be good  LOL

My perspective isn't what others do but that's how I started and it's worked so far so I won't fix what's not broken.  

But I'll bet even YOU don't want to see those forever emails from a prospect.  

She might listen(with one ear) if you pay.

That's the stupidest thing I ever heard.

or a dozen donuts, wouldn't that be romantic? lo

Cos, Just fired off 20 - 100 page emails from government websites about meat inspection to your work email. lol.

Unless we got to know each other with lengthy emails.  

Not pushy at all. It helps to have all of the pertinent info on initial contact. Cuts down on time going back and forth.  

to a meet. Bet there's a cupcake in there somewhere...

If I run short of names...I'll just post a threAD  

It's like a guy who's asking "hey, you know where I can get a good hearty salad?" And you guys respond by saying "wtf, you need a damn good steak asshole".  

You should book with Taylor Steele, I hear she loves to laugh.

basically agreed with most of the replies.

I'm so embarrassed; I thought I was on a f-ck board.  

I have gotten donuts with ice coffee in the past mister, for morning encounters and yes, they are appreciated.  

Doesn't mean the waiter needs to hear his life story?

Keep it simple. Name, contact information, referenced that's about it. Rest they can get your reference

A proper communicative email with several points is hardly 100 emails. 1 and 100 my dear Les Mis comrade are different. And here I thought you were a numbers guy.  

Perhaps you've never received more than an email or two in a day.

...the correct analogy is the guy is asking: if he pays for the salad, what info he has to give the restaurant to get the salad to him and eat it.

before they met...They would never meet.

Here on this board we don't just exercise our nether regions, we exercise our brains too

The number of emails received is a lot, that's why I like receiving one that is chock full of info so we can go to scheduling instead of me having to ask - um, can you tell me about yourself (because I'm still not sure I'm up for meeting)"

Don't tell me, you told her your real name is Pete.

... who knows if she will even respond. My standard opening is a compliment, the date, time and length of desired appt, the fact that I am a TER member and will be happy to provide any additional screening info she requires. Has always worked for me.  All this shit about age and race and maybe a little tale about myself - I very rarely get asked any of those questions. Why throw all this shit out up front. You think it will increase your chances of seeing someone. I don't think so. Hey, why not send face pics while you are at it or in the case of all you fat fucks a photo shopped body pic.  

I say "sex, 3pm, hotel down the street, one hour" every time and it always works. This is not a date it is making an appointment with an escort. Cosette's paradigm is unusual and in a way doesn't count but my libertarian streak says everyone is free to chime in and I have always thought unusual is good not bad.  

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There's not a one size fits all for booking an escort.

Representating made up Chinese sounding concept uttered by your character and used as an asshole rapper name.

I like when a gent sends me an email that has a small introductory telling me a little about himself along with appt details(date,time.length of appt)and his reference info all in the first email.It does not have to be an essay but I find when a gent does include the introductory in his email gives me a little more info about himself than just appt and reference details.A physical description is always helpful as well.
I find that it cuts down on a lot of back and forth

Any introduction that contains a photo goes straight into my trash can.  There is absolutely no good reason to send your picture, gents. It suggests many things about you, none of which are good.

Tell me too many details, unless it makes them more comfortable knowing I'll let them in when they arrive, lol. I'm not picky.  

If you have a TER handle, p411 date-check, etc where I can find references, just refer me there. All that matters is that within two emails I can fully screen.  

Agreed. This isn't a LTR deal. It's a paid date. Shows you may get clingy.  

Ruining the punchline..