I am curious about something.  I know alot of people like providers to provide eye contact during a BJ.  But I don't get it.  It just feels odd to me sometimes when she does. Personally, I'd rather have her focus on the business at hand, so to speak, while I get to look at her doing her thing -- one of the great visual pleasures in life.  But maybe that's just me.  Can anybody explain the allure of eye contact during oral? Any provider perspectives on this?

Personally, my eyes are closed during daty if he is doing it right, and I am not about to stare at him when I cum, because I will laugh my ass off and mess it all up. Do what you feel comfortable with and if it bothers you, tell her to knock it off. Not all men like that deer in headlights bs. I mean there comes a point, when you get a bit creeped out by too much of a good thing. I sure as hell don't want a guy staring at me nonstop whilst going down on me.

1 - I think a woman's eyes are just sexy as hell !
2 - Eyes are a gateway to the soul .
But most importantly why I particularly find it arousing ....
It gives me the sensation or illusion that she is watching my enjoyment which in turn then she can see what she's doing right and what is driving me crazy !
It also then (I hope) sees its turning me on which then gets her turned on .
When I DATY , I watch her face and body language as clues to what she likes as well.
When you like to please the other person you like to watch right?

...remember when providers were naked except for tennis shoes with rolled down socks because that was what they were doing in porn.

I prefer to lay back with my eyes closed.  If you lift your head up to watch, your stomach muscles contract and you could easily pass gas at the most inopportune moment.  I speak from experience on that one.  Good thing she was an understanding SO.

There is nothing up here baby.. Suck my dick.. That's what I paid you to do..So lets focus on my erect penis..

Um, you have the right to what you like but when you mention the word "soul" in reference to a P4P activity, that in itself is creepy, and why many people don't want you staring at them or vice versa. I know very few women here giving up their soul...not to you guys anyway lol.  

Sure, maybe its acting, but what's wrong with acting?  

All I know is that it makes me smile more, and that's a good thing.

Amen....just look at my dick and quit staring at me. ( or i'll cum in your eye )

I want you to stare at me lovingly and submissively whilst you gag on my cock.  LOL!  Right! I bet THAT would happen!  And why can't I gaze lovingly at you whilst my tongue flickers over your engorged and throbbing p*ssy?  You won't be looking anyway!

Yeah, your right ........
Maybe a poor choice considering this is a "fuck board".
Also staring would be creepy and I should have put "glances" in somewhere as well .

I expect whoever I am pleasuring to have her eyes rolled to the back of her head, so "eye contact" should be impossible in the first place.

My rate includes twelve minutes of eye contact. Additional eye contact is available in five minute blocks for $30. If they purchase three or more blocks, I include one look of amazement at no charge.

Your "look of amazement" was very authentic and worth every one of those three $30, five minute blocks.  A bargain, really, if you do the math.

into my eyes to ensure that I am enjoying myself and about to be in total bliss.

Love it when my Provider looks right at me during a B.J. I guess it's her way of making sure I'm having Fun.

Most Johns  can't see her face with their belly in the way .  
   Scratch that , I thought it out . Smart fat guys won't let her do BJ's ,
      while he's standing .

That's my favorite way...head hanging off the bed, guy standing over me. Just sayin.

Do I expect or want her to stare at me while she sucks me off? No, but I am an eye guy so I definitely enjoy some eye contact. I have a girl that I see that will look at me while she's blowing me, then she'll take it out of her mouth and look at my cock, spit on it and go back to sucking me and looking at me. That's really hot. But then, I'm really bent.

I think I love you... Lol...or at least I lust you. I have had the mental image of you on your knees blowing me while I'm standing...now I have a mental image of you hanging your head off the bed with me standing...holy crap I'm gonna have some good jack off mental images for this evening...or is it that I'm just a mental case? Hell I know for sure that I'm bent. Just sayin.