Let's say there is a provider "Alice." I see Alice.  Then she disappears.

If she is trying to be UTR with a stalker, ex-boyfriend, etc., then you should respect her new identity and desire for a fresh start without worries.  If she is trying to escape a history of bad reviews and trying to fool new customers that she is not the old girl with the low scores and bad reviews, then you should protect the community and request that her reviews be combined.  Generally, I would always report when two profiles are the same girl.  The LONE exception would be a safety issue for the girl.  Just my opinion.  Others are free to disagree.

...other hobbyists to know, the first thing you should do is report to TER that Betty is really Alice.  They won't take your word for it - you have to prove it.  You can do this if the photos are the same or she looks the same in both profiles.  If she doesn't have any ads linked to her Alice profile anymore, it will be more difficult.

I think you should ask her and be respectful about it.  There are many reason why girl change her name in this industry.  Maybe there is a stalker, ex-bf find out about her work, many things and of course this is probably rare....sometime girl change name because she has bad score on TER.

Review Betty.  Wait a couple of days and send in a problem report that the two profiles are one and the same. Get  2 free VIP days.

Were her reviews bad or did she have a history of drama? In those cases, I would be inclined to report it to TER (but not write it in a review). Otherwise, I'd probably leave it. Especially if that new identity came with an improved appearance or service.

then leave things be.  Why give her any grief

the provider told me why she changed her name prior to meeting under her new name. I had no problems with either situation so we enjoyed playtime under the "new" name. Yes, I wrote a review with no mention of the name change because I thought it was no one else's business.

She changed for a reason, maybe a creepoid? Ask her discretely and go from there. Happens More often than you think.  

Beetlejuice, Beetlejuice, Beetlejuice.

If you are happy with her, respect her wishes. If you think the community should be "warned" due to bad behavior, then by all means do so.

How about if she leaves for let's say the next ten years or so, and then let's take a poll at the end of those ten years and see in just how many hearts her memory still lives? I will bet you a dollar that no one will remember her. lol

There can be a variety of reasons she changed her handle, some of which could involve personal safety and security, others legal issues. She and/or her family may have a stalker bothering them; or she may be involved in a custody or divorce case in which her ex could use her status as a provider to his advantage in court. She changed for some reason obviously, so you should honor that IMHO.

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Actually, GaG, I think it would be extremely hard to forget someone whose posts are that level of fucked up.  I still remember MtDewking, and he's been gone a long time.  If Fancy disappears, and some of us are still here in 10 years, I think she'll still be in our brains somewhere.  I don't know about our hearts, though.

If you can do that I will consider it a dollar well spent. lol

I am not going to mention it.  I appreciate all of the responses.

I just want her to go away for the next ten years.

I still remember Cosette, and it's been a few years since she left.

Just how fucking obtuse are you people anyhow???!!!

For your own personal curiosity there wouldn't be anything wrong with politely asking. But I agree with others there may be a safety reason on her part why she changed the name. I don't see a reason to announce that.

What were you thinking sending her home? I think you need to call her up and take her out for a nice meal then home for dessert. You're welcome 😎

Cosette has only been gone for 2 years.  
I challenge anyone here to remember someone who hasn't posted in 10 years.

If you are genuinely a client/hobbyist, the actual right thing to DO is to see her or don't see her. Don't get involved in any of the theories as to why she changed her profile. The countless reasons as to why she must throw away a business model and begin from scratch should be of no concern to you. This could be a matter of literal life and death safety ; NOT for you to feel a moral obligation to mediate and or report. This can be a VERY dangerous business for the women in it. It is always the right thing for a client to never, ever concern themselves with sex worker management.
IF you are a client, just be one & respect that. Simple.

and it seems to have affected your ability to comprehend what you read.

Didn't mean to rub YOU the wrong way darlin ! My advice stands simply direct and true. The reviewer is old enough to decide for himself and he will or will not further participate, of course.
I've been a hooker for over 30 years and I assure you, there is often much more to a situation than either you or myself offer opinion on. The nice thing about communities is that one can gather insight from several experiences and decide for himself how he will walk these waters. Just because you don't agree with my stated insight, does not make me wrong.

Totally cool lady!

Your post was expressed maturely and logically Sarah. Nothing nasty about it at all IMHO, to those who realize providers can actually have adult opinions and make good sense.  Unfortunately some hobbyists who post frequently on this board have difficulty dealing with women who fall into that category.

She just wasn't posting under the name Cosette the last couple of years.  

And listen champ.