Good question.  

 
I see two providers on a regular basis. Both send thank you notes immediately after the session. They do this via text - the way I set up the appointment. The text is short, but always "I enjoyed seeing you" or "Enjoyed our time together" Whether they did or did not, does not matter. They're keeping the illusion real. Both are very professional, meaning they are on time, prompt response to e-mails/texts, and listen to requests. If they don't have it they will say they don't. They will offer a substitute clothing request, for example. They are beautiful, but there are a lot of beautiful girls out there and some absolute stunning ones, too. But, at the end of the day, we want reliability. Why Honda accords and Toyota Camry's are the best selling cars. We all want to try out the Lamborghini or Ferrari, but they are finicky, expensive, and high maintenance. For me, I can't speak to others, but for my regulars they are reliable, very attractive, professional (no drama) - and respectful; time, money, punctual, and after time have had a little extra here and there.  And as mentioned before, both provide the fantasy from first contact to the last text thanking me for being a customer. If you want their names PM me.

 
How to lose me as a regular client. A sure fire way to lose me as a client is to check your cellphone during a session. That means I'm "just" a number, you're checking your business on my dime, and you're not providing me value for my money, i.e.even if I want to close my eyes and lie with you, doesn't mean you get to check your phone even for a second. You're in the session from the time I step in the door (and actually before, with prompt responses and respectful communication) until I walk out the door. And as mentioned, an immediate follow-up  text/email is greatly appreciated. If I even get a whiff that you're not engaged (catch you checking your nails, staring off into space, etc.) you will not be a regular. I may still see you again, but you're not a regular. If I see you again, you provided some type of service or have sort of look that I crave, but you're not my staple.

 
The K-agencies do this frequently, especially if they think they are going to lose a customer. If they haven't heard from you for awhile, or there is a new girl, they will follow-up with you to make sure you had a satisfactory session.

how much you enjoyed having me see you is a nice touch; but don't go much beyond that.

Hello Mya.
If after meeting someone, and I have enjoyed the time together, I send a thank you email or text.  If I get a reply then I assume she also enjoyed meeting me and I will look to book another date.  If no reply, then I decide on a rebook based on how I felt about the first date and whether or not the next one will be just as enjoyable or maybe better.  I have neverbeen sent an after-date message from a lady.   But because of the replies I have received, my decision to rebook  or not was made easier,and I did become a regular client of a few of these ladies.  And we would also exchange messages from time time that had nothing to do with planning a date, but I kept it low key so as not to be intrusive.
 I miss them because they have all since left the business.  They were truly some of the best encounters I have had.  Each of these ladies were genuinely good people who took an interest in a client as a person, not just a paycheck.
So, to answer your question, I believe that many guys would appreciate an email or text (perhaps not a phone call which is less discreet) after a date, and the occasional "hi, I'm checking in to let you know I am available" type message.

OTOH, if she doesn't, I never take it amiss. What matters most is if I had fun. If the answer is yes, I'll repeat.

it does make a difference in locations I visit repeatedly.  Two ways this works.

INCALL:.  When a lady knows I am from out of town, often they will ask me to text them when I get back to my hotel, make sure I got back ok.  When that happens, wow is it a great feeling and seals the deal for me to return.  Assuming I had a great time during our meeting.  

OUTCALL: Every once and a while a lady will ask me to walk her to her car for a good by hug, or text me from the parking lot to say good night or that she had fun.  Once again, seals the deal.

What DOES not work is a text a day or two later when I am back home.  Yes I have a hobby phone, but you never know.

I can think of only one or two times I received a follow up message more than 24 hours after the fact, and the ladies were respectful to send via P411 or my hobby email.

So yes Mya, it can make a difference.  I live in a small town and have a local ATF.  She knows I will come back when horny.  No need to follow up after the fact.

I was pretty active for about 10 years and had more ladies send a follow up message than not. They were always nice, never threatening. I think it is just good customer service. The timing ranged from less than an hour to the next day. It was common enough that I began to do it myself whenever I enjoyed myself enough to consider a repeat. Usually by the time you've had a date, you've established a preferred method of communication - just use that. I'm the kind of guy who prefers a date with a sense of connection beyond just sex, so that kind of communication always helped strengthen that feeling and definitely encouraged a repeat if I was already leaning that way.

I always appreciate the ladies who touch base shortly after our get together.  Just a simple thank you, or to say how much she enjoyed meeting me, that's class all the way.  My experience has been that it's always by text, or email (whichever our primary means of communication has been) and usually enough time has gone by that I've made it home, or have had enough time to settle into a sandwich and beer at a pub after.  As to returning, I will cover that possibly with her before I leave, if she's someone I wish to repeat with.

If the lady doesn't send a follow up message, then I will. Part of what keeps me coming back is some rapport in between dates. As for the psycho who thought she owned her clients, that's a hard no for me. I don't even  let women IRL dating "own" me, much less a professional girlfriend.

I usually express my appreciation for a good time shortly after a first encounter.  I love it when the provider beats me to it.

Hope to hear from you again...have a great day.

END OF MESSAGE

Always appreciated, and does motivate me to rebook if there was a connection.

...a simple thank you...goes a long way!!!!!

Something like "I had a nice time with you today.  I hope you come and see me again."  is a nice, no pressure reach-out.  However, something like "I had a nice time today.  When do you think you will come and see me again?", or "can you come back next week?" is a little too hard-sell for my tastes.  I have had both.  Its easy to guess which one got a repeat visit and which one didn't.  

A follow up contact is almost certain to generate more biz, on average, than no follow up.  Also you can sweeten the pot by knocking off some inconsequential amount, like $20, for all future visits.  

It smacks of pandering and it reminds me that this is a business thanking me, not a woman I just had sex with.

 
I do agree that a follow up contact is a very nice personal touch, just don't fuck it up by reminding me it's all about business.

I am in a very competitive market and there are way more ladies available to see than I am physically able to see, so a personalized thank you note afterwards goes a long ways.  If I was on the fence about seeing you again (something that happens about a third of the time), this would push me over the fence.  I would much rather see a lady who enjoys and respects my time.  Believe it or not, providers and clients have many common needs such as feeling appreciated and not like a number.

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I never forget it is a business.  But I don't think "business" is a dirty word.

If it is someone else's $20, you are correct; that is inconsequential.

 
But if it were my $20, I would disagree.

If you really did have a good time then sure. I don’t send notes if I didn’t that’s for sure lol.

I've always believed customer service is customer service.  I know this is a business but the ladies who have taken a brief moment to send me a followup email or text after an appt are the ones that stick in my head, that I'm most likely to see again.  Is it a dealbreaker?  No.  But a little can go a long way, at least for me.