if anxiety is the right word for it. The concept of two women is
exilerating. I've participated once at a soiree and found it was a bit too public for my liking but could see myself with those two ladies "behind closed doors".
I think the idea is to hurry up and slow down. And just like a one on one session, stay in the moment and let the action unfold around you (me?).
For me, it's mostly about the Benjamin's. To do what I think would work best for me, it would be double for two gals and then mote for multiple hours. If I had unlimited resources, I'd be well versed in doubles and could offer suggestions. Instead, I can only share my apprehension.
If I had the means, I'd do at least 90 minutes if not more to allow as many interactions and combinations as time allows to unfold. Then I wouldn't feel "rushed" sitting on the sideline watching the show.
My current flame keeps saying she wants to do doubles with me and another woman. The idea is so hot as is she. The other day, she sealed the deal in my mind when we were fucking and watching some anal porn when she said she wanted to fuck the babe getting fucked in the video. I did too!
I asked her if she was serious and she said she'd love to use her strap on and fuck her and that the idea really turned her on. Well, it turned me on too.
On our next date, I'm gonna break out my tablet and we'll look at the menu and begin the process for finding a 3rd party. This alone will be fun and I'm guessing well have to fuck again to seal the deal. Lol
I'd equate it to seeing someone for the first time? You don't know what to expect but you're damn well gonna do everything you can to enjoy every moment that lies ahead of you. I'm sure you will.