incall?  What are the little things you notice i.e. smells, flowers ect...  

Just come right up to me and start kissing me hard, bare ass naked.

I have always equated subtlety with intelligence. If a provider can deliver the sensual and sexy message without going over the top, I am stimulated mentally (in addition to being stimulated physically.)

When I walk in that you look like your pictures (or close enough) and that there is no LE behind the door, in the closet or anywhere else.  Other than that you could be in a burlap sack hopping on one leg and whistling Dixie and I wouldn't care!

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I want the lady to present as depicted in her profile - accurate photos, accurate likes/dislikes - and to have good hygiene in a clean & safe environment. And if the hobbyist arrives with a good attitude, respectful and courteous, freshly showered (or shower upon arrival) the lady should be pleasing and accommodating. That is all I need to have a great time. Rose petals, candles are great but I'm a basic guy who is happy with a beautiful naked lady with a good attitude!
I've walked into rooms where the lady was 50lbs heavier than her profile pics and my worst scenario was walking into a room with a bare mattress (no sheets) with a baby pen beside the bed. I didn't even enter the room, just left.  
However, I've met lots of quality ladies that keep me coming back. As a matter of fact, I met a great one today who exceeded my expectations which is probably why I'm writing so damn much. Can't help it, I'm very happy

Iam very much like you,very romantic,to the point that I always bring flowers to my regular girl,but I am concerning that she may think that I am in love with her and she will not book me anymore.

With money in it and says I just paid to fuck you. Lol

But the perfect scenario would be for the lady to have a glint in her eye. What I mean by that is that I can tell she is really happy to see me, beyond p4p. A long deep kiss would definitely play into that scenario. Of course everyone is going to say that you're really really happy to see me because of the 4 or 5 bills I'm bringing. I get that. I'm talking about something more. Most ladies can't, or won't let themselves do that. Part of the wall has to stay up. But every once in awhile it happens.  

..they are all different and I look forward to going with the flow not controlling it.

when i saw her the first time, i brought a very specific sparkling juice flavor (cranberry apple) and some chocolates from a hoity toity beverly hills chocolatier.

Naked works for me as well...

We just don't notice these things. They don't feel romantic. But we'll gladly do it for you (our lovely girlfriends, wives, etc.), because we know you like crap like that.

This.

Have to disagree with you baby,  tits and ass isn't all to this business in my experience. Please tell me you don't pay 300 an hr for some to open their legs please don't tell me that. Go to a bar and save 200 bucks. Never had a man not say "wow" when he comes into my incall. But hey it's an open discussion to each it's own. Men are more critical than women have you read reviews, men spend more time talking about the set up and smell than the session. "I went to her upscale hotel" "There were rose petals on the bed" I don't know I personally look for the whole experience. Perhaps I take this too professionally and complicate my life.

I take most request maybe after you become a regular or we establish something so lusty on TER (God knows I have love affairs with men on TER that I never met before I love it) other than that no. My incall is in a building I would be afraid someone would be walking up behind you and saw me naked. Not my thing.

no makeup no effort no nothing. Joe I'm back in Late January what's up. I could actually wear something other than lingerie SOLD!

I'll let you know how it goes

I have regulars I do that with actually it's anticipation I love the look in a man's eyes when he sees that you are actually happy to see him in front of you! I personally love that most of them are taken back it's anticipation there's no way I could text you one time and feel like that.

a woman ready to hit the floor, open my zipper and suck my cock while I'm still soft. I've seen 100 women, one almost 50 times and never got the greeting I've read some guys write about. Does this ever happen? Fur coats naked beneath, clothes so risqué that I almost blush (ALMOST), tongue down my throat-grab a bulge-drag me to bed, but not a shut and suck greeting. I guess I never asked, because I really don't care that much.  

In general, the room should like like the provider put some thought into how to make me feel not only welcome, but "in the mood", so to speak.

a brain or a heart.  Just those tits and ass, eh?

Enjoy paid time with all sex workers.

tits and ass as compared to the ambiance of the incall whether it be an apartment or a nice hotel.

Roxanne, ha - it sounds like we have a deal even Jack would be proud of.  But I won't hold you to the discount as we haven't negotiated exactly how many verses of Dixie I'd be asking you to sing lol!!!  But seriously, I think you've described my perfect woman as keeping it effortlessly real (yeah, even singing in tune is optional lol) to me has so much genuine appeal.    

The provider shows excitement that goes beyond the anticipated donation.  And I'm no hypocrite; I do everything in my power to make sure that the ladies are going to get excited for my repeat visits.

I pay roughly $500 for the best tits and ass money can buy!

And that's it. I don't pay for rose pedals. Don't pay for bubble baths, tract lighting, champagne bottles of the perfect iTunes playlist.

even though we're on opposite coasts i'm feeling like i should be slipping you an envelope...

My perfect scenario right now is that my regular girl will continue to seduce me just like the first time,and always moore,that always be the same or better than the previous time,seduction is the key word of every encounter and she is the best at this...,always remember everything you did that first time and how you did it! and keep trying to do it better,this is my perfect scenario.

Effortlessly real...my kinda man

You have no idea what you are missing. Some of my best sessions took over thirty minutes before the two of us ever said a word to each other.

Physical atmospherics, such as candles and rose petals, are a nice touch and worthy of appreciation, but, IMHO, a provider's actions and attitude immediately after she has closed the door are more important to me for setting the tone than the physical environment. There are two things that, in my experience, are optimal for starting a session off on the right foot and have repeatedly contributed to some of my best sessions.  

That has been there todsay

as a compliment. Don't think I mentioned respect either.  You certainly pulled that out of your hat, very clever. The ladies must whip your cock out at the front door every time and before you leave cause youre still probably hard? Reread the post dude.

You all make me smile; I like it here.