incall? What are the little things you notice i.e. smells, flowers ect...
I try to make my incall look like a romantic set-up that a girlfriend would do for her man after a long day of work....of course 2016 is coming so I have to up it up but what does the hobbyist like/notice? I am a hopeless romantic so you will see rose petals and candles and such. I love rock so most of the time I play tool back round 8-)
Just come right up to me and start kissing me hard, bare ass naked.
No, that isn't what most would call romantic but I am not in this for the romance, I am in it for the lust.
Would you do that if I, er...I mean your John requested it?
Naked works for me as well...
Throw your arms around me, press your body up against me, stick your tongue down my throat and let's get the party started. Passion - felt or golden globe quality is what I'm there for. I will give as good as I get - maybe more in some cases.
I spent an hour with one of our lovely ladies recently and I am sure she went to some effort to set the right tone and put on something sexy and appealing but to be honest - and this is meant with no disrespect, but I wanted us both nakid and going after one another like long lost lovers even this happened to be our 1st meeting. My goal is to make her feel that I want to be there with her and our mutual gratification is my sole focus for the time we spend together.
I take most request maybe after you become a regular or we establish something so lusty on TER (God knows I have love affairs with men on TER that I never met before I love it) other than that no. My incall is in a building I would be afraid someone would be walking up behind you and saw me naked. Not my thing.
a woman ready to hit the floor, open my zipper and suck my cock while I'm still soft. I've seen 100 women, one almost 50 times and never got the greeting I've read some guys write about. Does this ever happen? Fur coats naked beneath, clothes so risqué that I almost blush (ALMOST), tongue down my throat-grab a bulge-drag me to bed, but not a shut and suck greeting. I guess I never asked, because I really don't care that much.
So if you're reading this and I knock on your door one day .... just sayin ... and you want to surprise me .... let me thank you now lest I get lost in the moment
You have no idea what you are missing. Some of my best sessions took over thirty minutes before the two of us ever said a word to each other.
It's nothing about "respect" Fucking and respect are hardly mutually exclusive. I can be fucking the brains out of a beautiful woman one moment and be having a mentally stimulating conversation with her two minutes later. Well Ok, maybe five minutes later, we have to catch our breath first. lol
Also, I hope the day never comes where my dick is still soft by the time some hottie has gotten it out of my pants. I don't walk around all day long with an erection like I did as a kid, but just the thought of a beautiful woman is still enough to get a rise out of me, I certainly don't need five minutes of coaxing Gambler junior to come out and play, even at my advanced age.
as a compliment. Don't think I mentioned respect either. You certainly pulled that out of your hat, very clever. The ladies must whip your cock out at the front door every time and before you leave cause youre still probably hard? Reread the post dude.
I'm not missing anything. Perhaps you were responding to someone else. Still a stupid response IMHO.
You seem to take yourself very seriously ... maybe I'll pms you before I see someone again. I'm not thin skinned because I bust my fair share of balls. AND I usually ignore stupid responses ...
not tonight . Lucky you.
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I have always equated subtlety with intelligence. If a provider can deliver the sensual and sexy message without going over the top, I am stimulated mentally (in addition to being stimulated physically.)
When I walk in that you look like your pictures (or close enough) and that there is no LE behind the door, in the closet or anywhere else. Other than that you could be in a burlap sack hopping on one leg and whistling Dixie and I wouldn't care!
no makeup no effort no nothing. Joe I'm back in Late January what's up. I could actually wear something other than lingerie SOLD!
Roxanne, ha - it sounds like we have a deal even Jack would be proud of. But I won't hold you to the discount as we haven't negotiated exactly how many verses of Dixie I'd be asking you to sing lol!!! But seriously, I think you've described my perfect woman as keeping it effortlessly real (yeah, even singing in tune is optional lol) to me has so much genuine appeal.
Effortlessly real...my kinda man 
You all make me smile; I like it here.
Merry Christmas
Hi There
I like it when I know the place is clean.
Alle
I want the lady to present as depicted in her profile - accurate photos, accurate likes/dislikes - and to have good hygiene in a clean & safe environment. And if the hobbyist arrives with a good attitude, respectful and courteous, freshly showered (or shower upon arrival) the lady should be pleasing and accommodating. That is all I need to have a great time. Rose petals, candles are great but I'm a basic guy who is happy with a beautiful naked lady with a good attitude!
I've walked into rooms where the lady was 50lbs heavier than her profile pics and my worst scenario was walking into a room with a bare mattress (no sheets) with a baby pen beside the bed. I didn't even enter the room, just left.
However, I've met lots of quality ladies that keep me coming back. As a matter of fact, I met a great one today who exceeded my expectations which is probably why I'm writing so damn much. Can't help it, I'm very happy
Iam very much like you,very romantic,to the point that I always bring flowers to my regular girl,but I am concerning that she may think that I am in love with her and she will not book me anymore.
With money in it and says I just paid to fuck you. Lol
This.
I'll let you know how it goes 
But the perfect scenario would be for the lady to have a glint in her eye. What I mean by that is that I can tell she is really happy to see me, beyond p4p. A long deep kiss would definitely play into that scenario. Of course everyone is going to say that you're really really happy to see me because of the 4 or 5 bills I'm bringing. I get that. I'm talking about something more. Most ladies can't, or won't let themselves do that. Part of the wall has to stay up. But every once in awhile it happens.
It happened with one of my favorite ladies of all time. When I walked into her apartment the first time, the door was ajar, and I was instructed to enter. She was on the other side of the room, and she literally ran across the room, and jumped into my arms. She smothered me with kisses. I could feel her heart pounding. I walked into to incall over a hundred times, and each entrance was exactly like the first. Could that be the reason I kept returning? Could that be the reason I drove two hours to see her each time? Could that be the reason I still dream about her? She's retired now, and I miss her. Man I used to love walking through her door!!!
I have regulars I do that with actually it's anticipation I love the look in a man's eyes when he sees that you are actually happy to see him in front of you! I personally love that most of them are taken back it's anticipation there's no way I could text you one time and feel like that.
..they are all different and I look forward to going with the flow not controlling it.
when i saw her the first time, i brought a very specific sparkling juice flavor (cranberry apple) and some chocolates from a hoity toity beverly hills chocolatier.
the next 4 or 5 times i saw her, she provided the same sparkling cranberry apple and some chocolates. i thought that was a romantic touch.
actually i just saw her again a couple months ago after a year's absence from each other. she had sparkling apple juice, which i thought was close enough considering i hadn't been with her in over 14 months.
things i dont' want to see in a lady's incall: half-empty beer bottles on the floor, dirty dishes in the sink, make up on the bathroom counter, dirty clothes on the furniture.
you won't believe how many women dont' clean their incall (this includes making sure the bathtub is clean for my shower, girls!)
nothing ruins the illusion of dating and shoves my face into the realm of "i'm doing this for the bucks, pal" than a messy incall. if you can't take time to clean your pad for your date, maybe you're in the wrong business, or at least the wrong economic bracket. get out on the street with the other $50 a pop hookers, and stop calling yourselves escorts. i dont' need to be escorted into filthy apartments.
even though we're on opposite coasts i'm feeling like i should be slipping you an envelope...
We just don't notice these things. They don't feel romantic. But we'll gladly do it for you (our lovely girlfriends, wives, etc.), because we know you like crap like that.
What DO we like?
- Tits
- Ass
- Anything you wear that shows off said tits and/or ass
We're pretty simple creatures, Roxy.
Have to disagree with you baby, tits and ass isn't all to this business in my experience. Please tell me you don't pay 300 an hr for some to open their legs please don't tell me that. Go to a bar and save 200 bucks. Never had a man not say "wow" when he comes into my incall. But hey it's an open discussion to each it's own. Men are more critical than women have you read reviews, men spend more time talking about the set up and smell than the session. "I went to her upscale hotel" "There were rose petals on the bed" I don't know I personally look for the whole experience. Perhaps I take this too professionally and complicate my life.
tits and ass as compared to the ambiance of the incall whether it be an apartment or a nice hotel.
On the other hand, the more mature guys (like myself) prefer to enjoy the whole experience; candles, soft music, snacks, etc. For us, it is all about the journey not just the destination (pop).
And that's it. I don't pay for rose pedals. Don't pay for bubble baths, tract lighting, champagne bottles of the perfect iTunes playlist.
I pay a premium for the best ass and tits in the city.
To get comparable ass and tits at a bar, I would have to visit at least 10 bars. WHO HAS TIME FOR THAT?!
a brain or a heart. Just those tits and ass, eh?
Besides clean, I'm a sucker for a fireplace in the winter, even a faux one if it's somewhat real looking. And clean & tidy is important. It shows the provider respects herself and others.
In general, the room should like like the provider put some thought into how to make me feel not only welcome, but "in the mood", so to speak.
My tantrika's place is the ultimate for this. When I walk in the door it's like the summer of love all over again.
But a neat orderly room with the essentials arrayed by the bedside and clean towels in the bathroom is enough for me. Actually, I don't do too many incalls these days
Enjoy paid time with all sex workers.
The provider shows excitement that goes beyond the anticipated donation. And I'm no hypocrite; I do everything in my power to make sure that the ladies are going to get excited for my repeat visits.
My perfect scenario right now is that my regular girl will continue to seduce me just like the first time,and always moore,that always be the same or better than the previous time,seduction is the key word of every encounter and she is the best at this...,always remember everything you did that first time and how you did it! and keep trying to do it better,this is my perfect scenario.
Physical atmospherics, such as candles and rose petals, are a nice touch and worthy of appreciation, but, IMHO, a provider's actions and attitude immediately after she has closed the door are more important to me for setting the tone than the physical environment. There are two things that, in my experience, are optimal for starting a session off on the right foot and have repeatedly contributed to some of my best sessions.
1) The provider initiates DFK immediately after the client has entered the room and the provider has shut the door behind him. Such a DFK can set a powerful erotic tone for the rest of the session and immediately turns me on. For example, a provider once pushed me back against the hotel room door that she had just closed and DFK'd me for a minute or two right off the bat, before I had time to do anything beyond entering the room.
2) The provider indicates that she is glad to see me. She could do so verbally, but body language and other non-verbal forms of communication are, IMHO, more persuasive, such as opening your arms wide, as if to invite him into your embrace. For example, one provider started undressing me right off the bat with a look of lustful desire on her face that, if it was not genuine, deserved an Academy Award for Best Actress.
That has been there todsay
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