You boys do realize that the majority of the bikini and Victoria's Secret models are at least 5'10 tall, and usually between 118-122 pounds ? Which seeing those numbers in print is hard for most people to digest. But seeing those numbers in person or a picture is effing stunning, oh so sexy, and drop dead gorgeous !!!
I rocked this body you see above for many many years! Funny, I gained almost 10 pounds for the first time ever in my life this past year, and some clients liked it much better! Trying to embrace my new curves, but I still prefer my bikini bridge Getting back there!!
You boys do realize that the majority of the bikini and Victoria's Secret models are at least 5'10 tall, and usually between 118-122 pounds ? Which seeing those numbers in print is hard for most people to digest. But seeing those numbers in person or a picture is effing stunning, oh so sexy, and drop dead gorgeous !!!
I might not be rich and famous but I've never had a problem saving my dollars for something I deemed worthwhile. While I have you on the phone I would dare to bet my last dollar, I can meet more ladies with ten cents in my pocket than you with ten grand. As soon as you've used your tried and tired lines, most women would know they are dealing with a weirdo Big loser. Got to go, working a double shift at Mickie D's, saving up for my dream Gal, Norah Lucille. Have a nice " mourning ".
He is also perfectly capable of picking up a mop for his janitorial job.
It is a good thing however that I don't eat at McDonald, just in case Quad has had a career change. Am I the only one who gets a bit queezy thinking about eating food handled by him? That is of course if you consider the poison served by McDonalds to actually be food.
Where've you been GF, I've missed your after the event predictions on the sports board.
If my boss at McDonalds wasn't such a jerk I'd get more than a five minute break.
Wish I could stay and play with you girlie boys.
Before I go back to work , I have good news, I might get a full time gig touring the country with my favorite part time job I usually only do during the State fair.
Posted By: GaGambler
He is also perfectly capable of picking up a mop for his janitorial job.
It is a good thing however that I don't eat at McDonald, just in case Quad has had a career change. Am I the only one who gets a bit queezy thinking about eating food handled by him? That is of course if you consider the poison served by McDonalds to actually be food.
Great question. First off, I have a friend who's 6'1 and 350 lbs. I am 5'7 135ish, formerly 220, from.a.size 18 to size 7 in 2 years. My friend considers me thin as a suoermodel, most guys consider me athletic and curvy. I consider myself a new and improved Brandy, and look better than I ever have at 30 yrs old. But "thin" is much more than a 1 syllable word to the now-thin...it's a loaded 4 letter word with a lot of insinuations.
If anyone here said i wasnt "thin" enough for the coveted status of being hot, id say youre crazy! I lost 70 lbs! Im in a size i fit back in 6th grade! Ive run 1.5 marathons, you're warped! But...there is still the pesky little monkey on most ex-bbw's back ...of the self consciousness of extra skin unless you were able to lose it at a perfectly balanced combo of exercise and slow progress, the past shame (both internally and from others ) that today will not let you feel good about finally looking hot In a teddy...since we all know big girls have NO business trying to wear fuck-me outfits. Add that to the chagrin of being a forgttable c-d cup instead of a bang-a-rang and cartoonish natural E. Even though it's nice to be able to buy normal triangle tops and strapless bras( and even just a off the shelf Target bra that you used to watch other chick's toss in their carts so casually ), the fat girl inside your humbled head will tell you that no guy wants to see up u in that shit. Thin is, to me...not spending 93 bucks on ONE plus size custom boulder holder only for it too be visually akin to an adult diaper and STILL uncomfortable. Thin you starts to wish for big fake perky tits, despite the fact that you can now get people to look at your FACE when they talk. Thin is in the eye of the beholder,....
...And the beholder, like me...is burdened by the knowledge of BOTH sides of the coin socially. It's nice.to be thin now, it's nice to feel like you can be seen eating, and it's nice to be asked out by a lot more guys...until you are dealing with the hurt of knowing that the guy who treated you like a princess and called you "hot" and "sexy" was never nice to you as a big girl. He won't call you beautiful, wont.answer your text message. It's a hard pill.to swallow, that first time you got used JUST for your visual appeal. You start to mistrust anyone who is nice to you who wasn't before. Fat girl still lives on in your nimble and defined body, calling you a slut for showing a little midriff.
You start bombing job interviews because the interviewer had already decided that a chick as NOT FAT as you is a bimbo who will only distract the (devoid of self restraint!) Male staff and probably sucked and fucked her way to that BS in Finance...You realize/conclude that being thin is all that ever mattered to most of the whole world and feeling like the hard earned degree you have is never going to be taken as hard proof that you busted your ass for years and that you're SMART and DEDICATED to finishing what you start. You start to actually MISS the protective cushion of your old body. At least you knew the people in your life LIKED and RESPECTED your brains. At least they believed you when you said you can count money on spreadsheets. Alas, your brains are irrelevant as long as you can be thin and the guys can stomach the thought of banging you. It's STRANGE to be from both worlds and I now know all too well that "thin" isn't something you are just visually, it's a state of mind. It took me a long time to actually BE thin, not just LOOK thin. Still...I've had to deal with the multi fold increase in pick up lines, the rumor in my family about my "anorexia" since I can't have possibly EARNED my Thinness, and the backhanded compliments that imply that I don't have to worry about earning my success, since some guy will clamor to make sure I dont have to trouble myself with silly ass GOALS now (just be his perfect and agreeable hot gf)...and the reality is that I feel really disserviced by the assumption that my weight will make "everything work out for me." I'm here to tell ya, don't count on that. As soon as you get comfortable not being challenged, your skinny ass will get tested by life THIN is not a ticket to a work free life with many real and awesome friends. It's pressure. It's like walking around in a suit of armor unless you are mentally prepared for all the shallow treatment.
So, what's the point of this fat/thin viewpoint? It's that thin ultmately.doesn't make you better. It makes you a smaller size. Self esteem and FEELING SEXY are what men like. Some men like bbws, some like spinners they can throw up in the air, some like chicks like me...average to muscular. If you don't feel sexy, size 7 ain't gonna get ya far. At any size, i never had trouble getting laid and now I Have trouble with to many shallow ass players to thin out of the stampede. Quantity blurs my vision to the Quality by sheer percentage differnce. It's ALL better to SOMEBODY. Now as a recovered "ashamed fatty" I flat out don't have a shit who thinks I'm thin. I'm nimble and I have a thigh gap, I FEEL THIN. It's only your self identity that needs convincing.
I'd go a step further to say that self esteem and feeling sexy (or at least feeling comfortable in the skin you're in) is what both men and women like.
I've known women in my life that were very beautiful, with very nice proportioned bodies that were not sexy, primarily because their SO was a lowlife loser with no self esteem himself and who told her that she was ugly, so that she would stay with his worthless ass, because in her eyes no one else would want her. It's very sad that people do that to others, but it's reality.
When someone is confident about who they are and are comfortable in the skin they are in it affects every aspect of their being, they walk different, talk different, fuck different etc.
You felt unattractive when you were heavy, I'm sure to some extent society imposed that onto you. But you did something about it, and you deserve all the praise you may get from it. If I read anything between the lines of what you said, it's that you are at peace with yourself now that you've done what you've done to make yourself healthier and that confidence and the thinner you is now attracting other people. That's awesome.
Not at all, good sir. The point I was trying to make is that being thin does not solve all your problems, nor does it automatically get you right where you wish to be in and if itself. The state of mind you're in really means just as much as the number on your scale.
That said here's a couple pics. The bikini one is from a few months ago, the other from my wedding day 3.5 years ago...
and have a lil booty, more than most for your weight...
I water and grow mine every day and for some reason I am 120lbs but got all my weight in butt and boobs. Throws me off balance lol.
BTW your pictures are nice Jay
Few thin gals have shape. Some do though. I have a ghetto booty. Not my fault. Loved when my boobs grew, my butt not so much.
I would consider Jay thin (with a lil something) but as far as me, perhaps athletic or what not.... purely because thin is thin. For me, thin has no shape.
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But I do have a backside that I think is proportional to my body.
I think that TER should add BMI and Waist-to-Hip Ratio to the Profiles. That way, my hostess wouldn't think I'm weird when I pull out a tape measure and portable luggage scale and tell her I need to take some measurements for my review.
Voila! No more arguments about thick or thin or fat.
Yes, BMI is NOT the be-all and end-all of a thin/fat/obese argument but it is a rough guide to appearance.
It is also disputed as an indicator of overall health. Some 38s are very healthy athletic types. Some 23s are out of proportion with unhealthy fat distribution.
There will always be exceptions to the health-aspect AND the appearance-aspect.
But, please ... If you were making the first cut from a list of choices and the first parameter was BMI (height, hair color, cup size and so on all come later), what BMI class would you choose:
(Any objections to starting a new thread called "Cast Your Vote: Preferred BMI" requiring a non-text subject line reply of the form "## (eom)" ?)
(There was an earlier thread from someone looking for wasp-waisted women: another exception to using waist-to-hip ratio as a measure of attractiveness.
Would not make one bit of difference unless height was in there. I could be 100 lbs and still have curves based on my height. I am down to 107 and in person still look about 115. It fkin sucks.
Would not make one bit of difference unless height was in there. I could be 100 lbs and still have curves based on my height. I am down to 107 and in person still look about 115. It fkin sucks.
Height is in there.
BMI is a RATIO of weight to (height)squared.
You can be 5'0" and BMI 25; 5'6" and BMI 25; 6'5" and BMI 25.
Let's say you're 107 lbs. You can pack that into a 6'0" package and it looks like this || BMI 14.5.
Tamp the same 107 pounds into a 5'6" package and that package looks like this: (_) BMI 17.3.
Squeeze 107 pounds further down into a 5'0" package and that package looks like this: (___) BMI 20.9
For TER purposes, it's a rough guide to narrowing things down to ||, (_) or (___)
One of the very first providers I ever saw (she's no longer in the industry) had on her profile details listing her as "thin." Her pics showed a nice, cute lean body with a little rear and small perky tits. When I was with her the profile hadn't been updated and pics were old. She was down right skinny, almost too much so. I remember her saying that she had lost a lot of weight when her mother passed away. She was a sweetheart too!
Uggghhhh.... I posted this but it ended up near the top of the 5-thousand comments thread, and not current....
You boys do realize that the majority of the bikini and Victoria's Secret models are at least 5'10 tall, and usually between 118-122 pounds ? Which seeing those numbers in print is hard for most people to digest. But seeing those numbers in person or a picture is effing stunning, oh so sexy, and drop dead gorgeous !!!
I rocked this body you see above for many many years! Funny, I gained almost 10 pounds for the first time ever in my life this past year, and some clients liked it much better! Trying to embrace my new curves, but I still prefer my bikini bridge Getting back there!!
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