I suppose I'm a little bit dominant or at least assertive as my clients tend to let me take the lead and seem to be good with whatever or however I pace a session or date, but sometimes I wish I got more requests for outfit requests and roleplay scenarios etc. I digress. My real question is do you guys have something set in your mind of how your experience is going to be or wish it would go? Or are y'all just happy when you get edging, all the acronyms in and msog?
I honestly think it helps to know what you want, besides the obvious, from a versatile companion. We aren't mind readers, but I'd like to think I meet and exceed my clients expectations. Any thoughts?
so my preferred scenario, after a bit of preliminary chat and necking, is to give the gal a massage, then move to the main course. After that I love receiving a massage.
If time and budget allow, I love to dine out with the person when that is done.
I started off giving FBSM & prostate TLC, then I progressed to FS & BDSM. It took me years to become GFE & PSE. Every session is tailored to fit the needs of my clients. I prefer chemistry & compatibility, plus I love special requests. I have lots of lingerie, and adult fun toys. I love to surprise my friends! I will always have a wide variety of playful options because I am a professional.
* I found that massage clients usually want everything, but FS it’s a lot to provide.
I have more of a general outline of what I want going in but things can change based on the girl I am with, what we have done in the past (if I have seen her more than once) and my mood in that moment. I generally don't like scripted dates and with some women that is what they are known for.
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Personally, it would be difficult to tell you what I want before we meet or as we meet. I often don't know until we get into the passionate part of the date as my mind may change as things change. I guess I like the unknown and am more of a just a "go with the flow" type gent as part of the excitement I get from this lifestyle is truly never knowing what will occur 30 minutes, or even 5 minutes, down the road when I am intimate with someone.
My personal style has evolved into a great mesh of perverted girlfriend meets sensual dominate, so the flow of my sessions are always uniquely curated with that in mind. I do like to start with a general idea of interest and desire for us to explore while making out time together feel spontaneous and natural. Lingerie, latex, sexy high heels, fetish and role-play request always get my heart pumping and a great starting point for me to create something special.
I try very hard--within the bounds of P4P discretion--to let the ladies I'm about to see know what I expect in our session. Given that I see mostly duos, I let them know I expect real engagement between the ladies, including toy play. Better to make sure everyone is comfortable with what's about to go down.
And I usually have at least footwear requests.
And yes, when the session starts, I let the ladies know exactly what I want to see, hopefully without turning into a bad imitation of a movie director. Given that some ladies are apt to think I want their attention focused on me, i politely but firmly guide them to the specific things I want to see them to do together, based on the "script" I have in mind that day.
I will say that it's great to have a regular rotation of 3 or 4 ladies who know and like each other and who all know me pretty well. These days, often the only direction I have to give to my duo is "Action!".
I know exactly what I want. If she passes the looks criteria I move onto her likes and dislikes. Then if the rate is ok I reach out. I’m never looking for a one and done. I prefer someone who wants a regular and desires to learn what I like. Which definitely isn’t vanilla .
Incall, I'll let he do what she does, if she ask me to shower, I'll shower. I want he to be comfy. But I'll set the tone during the fun part.
Outcall is a different beast. I set the tone, I know what I want and what I'm expecting. I won't ask her to bring a change of clothes because I'll usually will get her something to wear for me, I hated garters and the girls usually bring that as part of their costume. Usually a bralett and V thong is all I need so its sexy simple.
But because its outcall I like to set the ambiance and mood. Normally the young lady knows what I'm looking for based on my vibe. Hard to explain but most get the ideal.
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which goes right out the window as soon as I'm onsite.
I spend a good deal of time before the session thinking formulating a masterful plan about how I'd like the session to progress. But then, all of a sudden, she's showing junior a ton of love, all of the blood leaves my brain and she's fully in charge from there on out (no complaints).
Maybe next time (he says, every time).
