1. Don't forget the proper donation for the amount of time, if you want real love.

2. Don't forget to floss three times a day. No matter how much you brush, two day old bacon stuck in your teeth, tastes like alligator breath.

Only floss the teeth you want to keep.

The first time I visited someone younger than my daughters, I had a mental thing to resolve. That lasted about 2 seconds. I prefer 30 + (no upper limit) because of maturity and experience issues. But have visited several in their early 20's when the individual seem like a fit. I would hope you as an older gentleman would have the vast experience to give the younger lady something exciting to remember and look forward to another "Older" experience. I am also in my 60's and love it when the lady seems
surprised with my awsome talent, as one lady expressed it. Whether she was telling the truth or just saying, always nice to hear. I am 62.

Being in my 50s, would any providers or other hobbyists care to comment on their experiences with younger women in the 30s?  I know many providers claim they prefer "older" guys like me, but do they really?  I now this is a tough question, but the last thing I want to concern myself with during an encounter is whether or not the woman is acting one way and thinking another.  I'm the kind of guy that wants to know we're both having a good time.  90% of my experiences have been great over the last 5 years, but as I get older (and thoroughly enjoy meeting providers in their 40s and 50s) I sometimes see a profile of someone younger that just seems like they're mature and caring enough to be happy to see someone 20 years older than they are.

Most of this is common sense.
The ladies advertise GFE because they are very good at making you feel that way.
Some ladies, even a lot may enjoy being with you.
Some practical items to consider:
1. The ladles look for someone who will treat them well.
2. I hear providers talk about good hygiene. Shower and use deodorant.
3. Brush your teeth before you meet them. Women hate bad breath and bad teeth.
4. Shave or at least keep yourself trimmed.
5. If you have them to your place or a hotel, make sure it is clean.
6. Make it easy for them to check yourself out.
7. Go out of your way to make them safe and comfortable.
8. Get checked for std's regularly and keep safe practices.
I know I list basics and you said you have been doing this for five years, but by doing the above the ladies may enjoy your company even more. Age does not matter, it matters how you present yourself and treat each person.
Balboa

Thanks - Got them all covered... I've just never been with anyone 20 years younger than me before... I always treat a provider with total respect and decency.  If I was ever treated poorly, I'd walk out - just as I'd expect a woman to do.

For many of us, self included, in your 50s means you're NOT an "Older guy" yet.

I've had pleanty of providers in their 30s, even some in their 20s, do things to convince me they enjoy their time with me.  Treat them respectfuly, treat them as grown-ups, not teens, be a decent person to relax with and you shouldn't have a problem.  A number of the ones I see have BFs/SOs older than I am.

I have little interest in providers over 50.  Have seen a few in upper 40's, and had good times with them.  Most of my providers have been between 25 and 40.   Their maturity was never a problem, regardless of age.   If you do your research, you should not have problems, no matter the age of the provider.  BTW I am 63.

Swim

I see both younger and older gentleman I do prefer gentleman older than myself.As long as you are respectful,provide necessary info required for an appointment,and want to have a good time then I have no issue.With older gentleman I find I can have wonderful conversations on an array of different subjects and quite a few times I find the time has  flown by.The thing is some ladies feel that being older eliminates the games that are sometimes played by younger gentleman this is not necessarily true older or younger depends on the gentleman.As long as a gentleman respects me and my time,we get along,and have a certain chemistry that creates a wonderful time between both parties.I truly have enjoyed the company of the older gentleman that I have  seen.

Younger women under 25 are such a crap shoot. Age and experience-wise, it seems my sweet spot has been 25 to 35, true age, not wannbes. The few women I've seen under 25 can take a pounding, but are soulless and brainless so after you fuck and wait to recover, don't expect anything but Fruit Loops.

if you don't see ladies 20 or 30 years younger than yourself. I'm 23 years older than my atf. What's the old saying "age is just a number"

I have seen some young providers who just wanted to get it over and get me out the door.  And then some you really were into the GFE.  I find that younger girls with agencies are a little bit clueless.  They start off naked and just want to f**k and suck.  Once it is over, its over.  

Independents seems to enjoy the erotic foreplay more and are aware that the journey is just as important as the destination.

As a rule of thumb I stick with those over 30...unless I hear from a fellow hobbyist about someone in their 20s who is very good.

When I was in my 20's I generally dated men in their 40's. I've always preferred older men. I'm not sure why, I just have. And my preferences have adjusted upwards as I've gotten older. The love of my life is now 55 years old, and I still think he's the sexiest man God put on this earth. I am reasonably certain I will continue to think he is the sexiest man alive when he's 90. Assuming I live that long. He probably will, not so sure about me

30's are too old for me. I prefer 20's.. older than that I can do better at a bar

Thanks for all the responses.  I appreciate the honest answers and have a better understanding of how to approach this.

I'm 58 and I prefer to see young (18-24) providers. If they're full GFE, I don't think age is an issue. Sometimes I think ladies say they prefer older men because: 1) most clients are 2) older guys are nicer 3) older guys won't wear them out......Don't know. I hobby in Carolinas and the young ones there are great......Visit Wilmington ( Raleigh?) and try Honey or Layla, or Gypsi, or Lola or Sophie................
At first I felt self-concious and tried older providers, but now I think 28 is older.

"But mostly older guys "get" that this is total FUN, and pretty darn easy and painless compared to the alteratives. They can simply enjoy it without complications. And they do, with delight and abandon. How cool is that?"

I am older than the average alligator wrestler.
You won't have to worry about me falling in love with a special gator.
I live life well,knowing there are many other desirable gators, and I'm going to have fun  wrestling as many as I can..Yee Haw

The age of the provider has nothing to do with anything! Read the reviews, if they have what you want go for it! And Who cares what they think! You are paying for a good time so enjoy it! You are not starting a relationship with them. The best thing about the hobby is when you leave, its over!

Though I don't advertise that I prefer older guys, I do. And it's not just me, I've heard of this preference  from a number of girlfriends in the biz, some in their 20's.

Older guys are more polite and more generous. They have some life experience and have gained perspective which enriches our time together. They are into a somewhat deeper connection (generally). They "get" what the hobby is about and that they are likely to meet some pretty amazing women in it (highly educated, articulate and interenting) as well as some with only skin deep but awe-inspiring beauty.

Older guys are more grateful!

But mostly older guys "get" that this is total FUN, and pretty darn easy and painless compared to the alteratives. They can simply enjoy it without complications. And they do, with delight and abandon. How cool is that?

Of course, it should be noted that I am in the "mature" category myself. But like I said, I have heard this a number of times from younger ladies.

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Pity you're not in Chicago!  You're beautiful!  Hmmm... I wish I could find some business to conduct in the Pacific NW

I am also young sixties and have had some wonderful dates with women of varying ages, mostly late 20s to early 40s. Each experience has been different, but  more becasue of the who the women is and not her age.

Jill, you might consider yourself "mature"...but all I can say from visiting your website is WOW!!  I'll take that "mature" anytime!!

If you don't have a problem with it.....than don't worry about it.     I, personally, don't do the under 30 stuff anymore, but that my personal preference.  I'm a talker and I want someone closer to my generation so we can have some sort of connection.   I love sex, but I also love to connect!!

about 5 or 6 ladies in 20-25 range.  These ladies were all skilled in the bedroom and good carry-on a good conversation about numerous topics.  I have repeated with several of them a number of times.  I did not see the others because of scheduling problems relative to logistics or calendar.    

Each of these ladies was selected carefully from reading their reviews and viewing their web sites.  After making e-mail contact, if the vibe wasn't right, I did not see them (happened to about 3 others).

Honestly I get along great with men of any age, unless something is seriously wrong with him. I consider myself easygoing and a real people person so I can always get into a conversation with anyone willing to have one!

Older men are great and I love them! So are men cluser to my age. When I am with my client I am not concerned about their age at all. That is the last thing on my mind. I saw bring it on, treat me nice and I will treat you GREAT!

I am 48 and I have been with a few young providers but I prefer woman in there 30's. I own Laundromats  which I maintain myself (no employee's) so sometimes there is difficulty in them checking me out if the provider is on tour or lives outside the area. I seldom visit the upscale providers for this reason. I do understand there safety concerns. With any provider, the golden rules apply.  Treat others as you would like to be treated. If you follow that rule, regardless of age differences,  you should have a good time.

Chez Jillian. What a great idea. I have made a note in case I'm ever nearby!

I TRULY do prefer 40plus...I have seen clients as old as late 60's, and PROMISE you age was NEVER a concern for me. (I am 35) Mainly as someone posted...It is absolutely how a client treats me. How well groomed they are and that is truly it. It has NOTHING to do with not being able to go "as long" or donation...I will go as long as you can and regardless of age my donation is what it is...My absolute fav men are the ones over 45. They can hold a convo, usually KNOW what they are doing and treat me better than the younger ones.  Most importantly, in personal experience, the younger ones have a hard time knowing where the lines should be drawn...They all fall in love! LOL!!!  What can I say, maybe I take the GFE too far?? Maybe I just enjoy what I do too much! ANyway, I truly hope this helps...the 30-40something providers will and DO appreciate the older hobbyist, I PROMISE YOU!!!

I 'm an older guy from the Midwest and that has to be one of the best websites on net!