why is it that the only reviews I have are from guys I met ONCE , none of the guys I actually see on a REGULAR basis and really have an amazing time with are  members on TER ( so they say) and they tell me they only see me  . I think they are selfish they just don't want anyone else to have me LOL

Do you girls ever ask your clients to review you or they just take it upon there selves ?

I think that once they become a regular it would be awkward for them to review me.  I would like to think as you do that they just don't want to share : )

Well, with those eyes and a-mazing ass...I can see why they'd want to keep you to themselves.  

Perhaps offer your regulars an incentive (e.g., $xx off the next visit) if they write a review.

See I just feel a little awkward asking... I mean I am in the business clearly they know that's how we met  

BUT I always keep my room fresh looking , the sheets pulled straight as hell,  no trash in the  
garbage  or used towels anywhere in site so its like there are the first or the only one I've seen for the day

Then they may not be regulars anymore....Let me explain,...your menu is limited, which is cool if it works for you. Their thinking is that if they do an "honest" review of their time with you, it may be more hurtful then helpful. I live in LA and I know of you and your reviews, and as attractive as you look, you're not someone I would see based on your reviews. It's probably my lost but it is what it is. I once saw someone with your menu and I did a review of her, our thinking was that it would help, sad so say she later told me that the review actually hurt her, to a degree.... So I think, in my opinion is that your regulars are probably doing you a favor.....
That's my dos centavos....

It varies by the client and what they are comfortable with. Half of the gentlemen I see on a regular basis know of or are a member of TER, but don't submit reviews. I don't ask them, but I know, because they mention to me when a new review goes up. I have never asked for a review. Sometimes, the mention of a review will come up during or after a date, but I always leave it up to the discretion of the gentlemen. It is his choice after all. Besides, I like surprises..good or bad!!

Don't let the reviews be the focal point of your date! Just have fun and enjoy the moment(s)!!

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I will only write a review with your expressed permission, and I will not write a negative review...I'm well aware that this goes against what TER's purpose for existence is and certainly do not recommend my beliefs to anyone else, but this is how I feel I must proceed in the "hobby"...

Business owners like bread and butter.Stop talking shit about it selfish only want to see you.LMAO chic

agree that a lot of many regulars like to keep things private and discrete and I NEVER ask for reviews, would just ruin our time together xx

there is no real point to it as I see it. Soo.... I'll review if a gal is new and needs a review for credibility or to help establish herself, if she hasn't had a review for a "longish" while (3-4 mos), if there is something fundamentally different I notice that is not already in her reviews, if she specifically asks for one or if I choose to do one for my own particular reasons.  

Reviews are not always easy to write, and often require edits to get published. Reviews can be political... sometimes writing reviews for a new gal can cause issues with a long time friend. Sometimes, providers judge clients based upon their words in a review (or who they have seen) just as much as clients judge or choose a gal based upon her reviews. In a word, reviews can "suck" for a client.

When I look at your reviews, I see a consistent history of reviews written by decent reviewers. You have credibility as a provider. Recent reviews, no big gap, so likely nothing has changed enough to shout out in a review. If we met, I would only review you if you asked, or if our date was so extraordinary that I wanted to sing its praises.

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For a period of time, (and not sure if it's changed) TER only allowed one review posted of the same lady from the same hobbyist.  If you have the hobbyist has already posted on said lady and does another one it will be replaced with the most recent review.

Frankly unless something changed, I suspect most hobbyist thinking is what would be the point.  They've already stated what they thing and rated the experience.

For some of us, it's truly a pain in the ass, all do we realize it's business and marketing for the lady. I post reviews only if the lady either request it or doesn't mind.  I've met many that do not want a post due to various reasons.

Of course, there are those rare occasions where you have some ladies that aggressively to push you to post a higher rating, and give you grief if you don't comply.  I posted a 9/9 (which I am not a believer in ratings), rating and this lady, who shall remain unnamed, was very upset about it.  I'm always suspicious of them and plus they are very subjective, who's to say what's another person's "Once in a Life Time",  what BS.  

I think most seasoned hobbyist actually read the details in the review, look for consistency among reviewers and typically will pm reviewers for specifics or the real deal because they realize the subjective that varies among writers as well as the fear factor of being too honest about the encounter in a public review.  That's how the more experience hobbyist make their decisions on seeing a lady for the first time

If you write another review for the same girl, they take down the first.  And you only get VIP credit for the first, not the "repeats".

Not sure if the OP wanted a review for each visit, or was saying her regulars did not write even one review.

Ask,, and ye shall receive.

 
There is a corollary that ought to be considered first:

Be careful what you wish for, you might just get it.

 
I only started writing reviews after a few providers I knew well requested that I do so.  I've never regretted it

I know some guys don't like to submit reviews because they don't feel comfortable writing about all of the juicy details that TER requires for a review to be approved.  On the other hand, some guys write reviews of every provider they see in order to get free VIP on TER.

Unless I get too busy and forget, I try to submit reviews of new providers that I've seen, especially if she asks for one.  Although, I will not review a provider if she tells me that she does not want to be reviewed or if she's UTR.

Many factors are behind this. One of them is TER's new review policy - 15 days free VIP for the hobbyist. You can find this debated extensively if you search this board; I'm from the school that believes that they've found a decent balance with the current policy. Another is that most hobbyists don't write reviews - ISTR a provider guessing that only 1 in every 20 guys she's seen posted reviews of her on TER. Small sample size, I know, but it's a data point. Another is that your regulars either aren't TER members, or have reasons for not writing reviews in general.

Jelloman wrote above about his review-writing policy. I'm not in conformity with his policies across the board, though I largely agree with the spirit of it. I'd totally write a review about a session that went really poorly, because others should know about what went down, so they could decide if what I found objectionable matters to them. I've benefitted from somebody else doing the same. Fortunately, I've not yet had a meeting go poorly. If a session went basically well, but my personal tastes would drop the scores in a way that might hurt her business (through no fault of her own, just not my cup of tea), I'll refrain from writing the review. 15 days free VIP is not worth causing ill will.

On that last part, I go back & forth. While researching reviewers, I noticed that one provider would never whitelist a hobbyist who posted a score below 9/9. 8/10 or 10/8 was fine, but no 9/8s get whitelists. That's just vindictive. Another, higher rated provider that I've also been interested in, will whitelist without regard to the scores she is given. And she jumped way ahead of Ms Payback in my eagerness to meet, once I recognized that. Ms Without-Regard-To's scores are probably more accurate, as a side benefit. But I digress, the OP really wasn't about scores or whitelists. Sorry 'bout that

I know that some guys think that escorts are dumb, but they are not! They see what is going on.  They will not admit it, but many monitor the reviews and if they see that you are seeing a rival, too many women of color or whatever sets them off at the moment, they will cut off your slices.  How do I know what I am talking about?  I have had escorts tell me that they don't like my taste in women.Lol  How would they know that? Reviews!!  I guess what I am saying is it is much easier to be an undercover lover.LOlL

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