I don't know if this situation is fairly common or if it is a function of location. It seems that booking a session with a local LA lady will often result in a cancellation (often last minute), tho I have been fortunate that I have only encountered one NCNS so far. I suspect that some of these cancellations are due to her finding a monger willing to pay for a longer appointment, though this can never be proven, only suspected. OTOH the visiting ladies, who have a far bigger vested interest in making back the $$$ that they have expended on their visit, are much more reliable and have never cancelled or NCNS'd on me.

you touched on it. touring ladies usually use an incall. local outcalls are too easy to flake on

Although most of the cancellations I've had were for illness or Aunt Flo, which I consider legit reasons to cancel, I think that local girls will be more inclined to think you will still be there next week for them so its okay to cancel, whereas touring girls are trying to establish regulars in each city that are on their tour, so business will be good each time they return.  Touring girls also time their visits to each city around their menstrual cycle, so they don't have dead time paying for a hotel room while they're visiting somewhere.  Overall, I would have to agree with your point.  

I have only done local providers....

A local girl can still work her day job, if she has one, so the pressure of having to make money from hooking is less, which certainly can affect her decision making process.

Once a touring girl actually arrives in town, there's far less likelihood of a cancellation. Some do "postpone" tours due to disappointing pre-bookings, but at least you get a day or more notice. Once in town, they have fewer distractions than local girls.

or it's NCNS so I keep 2 agencies and a few regular as backup. Although it's less frequent, it has also happened with touring ladies. All my appointments are for incall. Most of the time it's in the morning. Reasons for cancellation varied. I don't keep track of them and don't really care if it's true because the end result is the same (the appointment is cancelled). I may still try to see them if I feel like it, but it's more unlikely because it will have to be on a day that I don't mind if it's cancelled again. On days that I really want to see someone, I usually just visit one of my more reliable regulars. I accept it as part of this hobby.

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I've booked with six touring providers, one of whom I've now seen multiple times. Of the five, one was NCNS, one cancelled her whole tour without letting me know, and one stopped all communication the night before the appointment. Of the other three, there's only one I'd see again.

I don't think I've ever had to cancel on someone when touring. Like you say Jack, we have more vested interest in building regulars where we visit, and expense invested in visiting a place and time set aside for seeing clients solely without the distractions of home. It also depends on how professional the lady is I guess. I'd have to be really sick or have missed a flight to cancel a booking on the day.

and that the only answers possible for an anecdotal situation are anecdotal or speculative answers.  

That might be why.

I have never had a touring gal to cancel on me..

...but no - none of the cancels were from strippers that I did take-out with

My touring NCNS / last minute cancels outnumber by local NCNS / last minute cancels.  In some cases, I'm pretty sure they just flaked. In other cases, I had the strong feeling that someone else's better offer (longer appointment) did me in.  

I am very fortunate the only time that I was in the LA area, I saw an amazing young woman who was as gracious as she was hot.

Yes, us tourning girls take a lot of time to plan. We pay for our trips months in advance. So making sure we come to get the few little appointments in a day is very important. Plus we come to have fun and make friends. Our goal is to get you to see us again. So not missing an appointment is very important.

I don't speak up about you often. But, I do take an interest in what you post, I'm glad you are here. I appreciate all views on p4p.

Although she never flaked on me, there seems to be a lot things happening in her personal life.

I gave her many many chances and she never so much as offered a simple apology. She even had the gall to PM me here to say that I was being "mean" and STILL never offered an explanation or a simple apology. Then she starts bombing my email with nonsense and STILL no apology or explanation. So she has the time to blow up my email with bullshit but she doesn't have time to make a one sentence acknowledgement or apology? Talk about a petty narcissist. Refusing to take responsibility or being accountable for her rude thoughtless behavior is unacceptable. No I won't give her another chance. If she was having personal issues she could have said that long ago and I would have been very understanding. But she refuses to address her NCNS. Her behavior is bizarre and she is not to be trusted.

Unless you name names, it's only whining.  

AAMOF I did post a warning on her latest LA ad about her NCNS so that others could be made aware of her shit behavior. Of course a white knight had to jump in to the fray, but he just wound up looking stupid. Then SHE jumped in and instead of offering me an olive branch to calm the waters she made herself look worse by not only not acknowledging the NCNS, but she tried to be snarky about it. Then, as expected, she had my comment removed. What a piece of work she is.

I seem to recall discussion on specific local boards about client cancellation rates and pre-booking.  

I absolutely positively don't think it's for bigger fish, because they could just schedule the big fish another time.  I think it's life.  You block off your life for a tour, and it can't interrupt.  

It's just like I wish I could reach through the computer and smack every reviewer who starts his review with "She wasn't the girl in the picture, she was 20 years older and 40 lbs heavier, but I figured "what the heck, I am already here""

but you got the BSC version of her.