I mean, what else are you going to object to if gals can't say that?

What are they supposed to say when they open the door?

"Come on pudgy, let's get this over with so I can see the next fat, bald loser."?

Don't deny us our fantasy dude.

This is one thing I wish the ladies would quit saying because it strains credulity.  

My suggestion would be something along the lines of "I'm flattered you want to see me and I'm looking forward to showing you a good time".

a winner of the loser lottery that is... old, fat, and ugly is the exemplification of a trifecta.

" Oh God, I love your cock". C'mon. It's been around 40 years in the civvie world and not one lady has said it's great....

of sorts to be polite like that but I agree 100%. Then you get there and they dont even smile when you walk in???

Some of us very much want to be lied to and flattered. Why would I go for GFE if I wanted to be treated like a cheap trick or get the usual civie treatment?

old fat and ugly are fine
if you're wealthy!

I truly do get excited in anticipation of meeting someone new. Now when I say it I am going to wonder if I have lost some credibility with the guy. I am excited that I get to meet someone who picked ME out of all of the hundreds of choices. I don't really care if he is old or fat. I can still be excited to meet him.

This gal seems to love surprises...

I think he's saying please make it believable by not resorting to cliches.

on credulity. Such as when you have exchanged many PMs/emails with a lady over an extended period of time, when you are meeting a woman you know well already, when you are meeting someone with whom you share a friend or special interest in common. There are many possibilities.

cuz it wuz-unt

I always say: "I'LL be looking forward to that" and, about 95% of the time I really mean it.  
Maybe the ladies I see are just great actresses, but most of the time, I feel they mean it when they say "I'm excited or happy or pleased or (inserted any other positive) to see you

been a while since i've seen you post, always good to see your posts.

Way cool, man!

I find the statement "I'll be looking forward to that" to be more of a practical/logical statement.  

You really do live in a van, down by the river.

... chicks dig it http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RiEIToOWr64

JCA is on the left.  Can you spell anencephaly?
He can't.

ok Spock.

Guess I'm practical/ logical then. That's what I say, and sight unseen it's kinda difficult corresponding with someone when you feel they know so much about you and you know diddly about them. I'm a rub girl, I don't need to know your entire background to fondle the goods. I just want to know you'll show and you're sane. I'm not that high maintenance. Do I mind that you're bald, fluffy, older... nope, I mind that you treat me well. There's no room for being vacant in Tantra and Nuru, kinda messes with the whole process of relaxing and truly connecting.  

Now that's a sad visual, but it cracked me up....I must be sick-e-

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...I got excited just thinking about how excited I made her just by setting an appointment. My bubble has been bursted(sic). You have ruined it for me. How can I go on?!

Dear Ms. Young:
What would you say when you are completed the verification process and you are ready to render an invitation to a prospective hobbyist?  What are the typical questions that you would have concerning their personality and their interest?  Also what do you want to know most about them and what are the things that you tend to concentrate on most during the getting to know you session?  Finally as a provider do you concentrate on finding the one quality that you might like about a person and then letting that be your motivation throughout the course of the encounter?

Is not a bad gig. If you do it right.

$ is all that matters and CF lived in a trailer down by the river no duh

What about a cashier who says "Have a nice day?"
Do you reply, "Why do you care you? - You will never see me again you insincere lying piece of crap."

I hope you are clean, gentle, respectful and I am looking forward to the money you will be giving me in return for me giving you something you are missing.

And watch the board light up with the angry comments about how rude and ungrateful she is.

But if the guy wants to be Insecure and not believe it, it's on him. If I care about someone, liked their show they performed, landed the plane softly, or am simply excited for someone's company, I say so. If they return with "No you're not, stop lying," then I know I 1. Either have to prove that I'm truthful, (I.e. Walk of egg shells because he's /she's too lazy to work on their own insecurities,) or 2. Know we're not a match, and it doesn't matter what I do, I can't help them out.

I am more than jumping for joy and excited to make 350 in one hour, i will even get right up in that fat old ass and do massage for the prostate. Even for fat smelly or old guys, come to mama. just be sure you bring your donation,  
 Meeting a new client means getting shit done, getting bills paid,. chasing your goals, one step closeer to achieving goals, Some of us are payin off student loans to get out of debt so we can buy property,
 Another appt means getting closer to the goals, That is EXCITING! no?

when it's an honest comment.

i think that providers just like the idea of you drooling over their pics enough to book a date. Its flattering that out of all the choices you've been chosen. I personally love the idea.

I always thank service professionals for their time (barber, tailor, mechanic, therapist, provider, etc) and let them know that I am happy to see them (for a new haircut, get my new suit fitted, fix my car, get a massage, or be intimate with a pretty lady).  Maybe the ladies also see it from this angle - you are the client and who help make their businesses viable.

Certainly something to think about.
When you have two strangers interacting in the manner of this hobby, there is more going on under the surface than the simplistic assumptions that we all make.

so he (the OP) IS right then?

hobbyists who take that the wrong way or just ignore it for sake of their ego/indulgence.

Do you really think a server or anyone else in the services industry actually ALWAYS means have a nice day or how are you?  It is part of the service. Sometimes it is meant other times it's a platitude.  

a home depot bucket by the bed so he can drop the cash in and then hop on top.

WOW!! VERY thoughtfully written !

Very well stated.   Love it and I agree 100%