Let’s all hear one for dayuse.com! It’s a life saver. I’m pretty sure there are women who would feel justified in shooting a husband who brought another woman into her bed.

Call me out that I have been eating pussy because they smelled the scent of pussy on my face when they would give me a kiss on my face upon greeting me.  If I smell it, I wash it off, but if I don't smell it, then I don't bother, and have been embarrassed like this on multiple occasions.  I read somewhere that most women's senses of smell are often far better than men's.  

I freely admit making a mistake in getting married again.  I didn't get into the "hobby" until my second marriage.  My first marriage ended upon (correct) suspicion I was still fooling around occasionally with my ex-girlfriend -- an affair that actually went on for several years.  The "evidence" was a scent of makeup on my shirt collar.  This is also where I learned that women will make financially self-destructive decisions if their pride is wounded -- divorce.  We had two good incomes and could have built a nice retirement nest egg.  It's just crazy to throw that away on suspicion (I'm not idiot enough to confess. I lied my ass off  But she had her pride.  That was 15 years ago.  I've been employed steadily since then.  She's been out of work multiple times and is apparently on her third year of unemployment.  It was a financial disaster for her.  I told her at the time what she was throwing away.  But logic is useless with a wounded pride.
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I married again rather quickly thereafter ... in this case because of the financial situation of my next wife.  And that's the crux of the issue.  I'm her financial support.  As a single she would be financially desperate.  Divorce would, of course, put the financial burden on me to support her.  I wouldn't want to throw her to the wolfs, nor do I want my holdings divided and diluted, it wouldn't be good for either of us.  
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Because she is out of town for long periods of time frequently (tending to elderly parents) and since I realize I have an appetite for variety, I finally made the jump and booked my first pro.  I never play while the wife is in town.  Having learned the hard way that insane pride will cause women to self-destruct even on mere suspicion.  I'm careful but not paranoid.