For me, opposites attract.. I am tall and blue eyed. I love short(ish) brown eyed girls.  

I don't notice eye color in women

the fact that you have a dick and she has a pussy makes you "opposites."   SMH on that one.  

Hhhmmm  a dick and a pussy makes for a perfect fit. That's not opposite that's symbiotic.

I rely on chemistry now though.  Yes we do have those times when we're like well hot damn I'd hit that based on looks alone. With my I like the whole package. I do have fellas on my dance card that look vm like me. I definitely find them appealing. 20 years ago I may not have.

I believe it is chemistry that attracts us more than any other single thing.   I've gotten aroused just being close to a gal who otherwise would not have attracted me if she were naked and covered in chocolate sauce.

.only, she's beautiful and intelligent.  
.... we can almost finish each other's sentences. She buys the same obscure coffee. She tells me something about herself and I know it already and the same goes for her with me. I've never come across someone like this before.  
Freaking amazing.

...and a persuadable dick