It only adds to the overall experience when the lady touches on any or all of the following...

The lady shows up early and stays late.

The lady eagerly decides that we are not going to waste any time getting started and declares " Game on " shortly after we meet.

The lady is uninhibited enough to strip down in front of me then get me out of my clothes quickly.

The lady doesn't wait for me to go in for the kiss but takes the initiative to kiss me because kissing is important to her as well.

The lady eagerly wants to do whatever I want to do whether dining out, drinking, dancing or just hanging around in the room, its all good.

The lady will anxiously ask me or lead me into orally pleasuring her through daty and dato because it IS important to her.

The lady doesn't care how long it takes to orally satisfy me. She genuinely seems to enjoy sucking dick.

The lady always takes the time and initiative to also get herself off as well. Squirters are definitely a plus.

Finally, the lady texts me a day or two later when she decides that she wants to do it all over again.

Dear Mikki:
Since you brought this topic up, from what you ask your present and past clients who have seen you multiple times, and from what you read about yourself on various review sites, what is the one skill set and what is their favorite anatomical feature about you? Also speaking personality traits and anatomical features what is the one quality that attracts men in both your hobby and in your civilian life that keeps them coming back? After all is it true what they say about you?

The grass is always greener somewhere else .

  No ATF providers for me .

  Never seen one that wasn't interchangeable.

Dear MP:
I assume that you have a predilection for woman who have a streak of dominance to them combined with an immense libido and aren't afraid to display this at any given time. You also like those who have an addiction to play and are obsessed with it as you are. I guess the next question is what nontraditional places do your partners prefer and what other venues did you have in mind to commence with you copulatory activities?

So I brought this up on the PO board from the providers stand point of
"what is their niche that they are proud to have?"

Now I want to know from the hobbyists:
What is it that makes you keep coming back to the same providers, your ATF, wife-vider [provider wife]?

I would LOVE to hear the responses! Please NO SHILLING!! NO NAMES! Just Features/Qualities..

Qualities - Characteristics - Personality traits only

Thank you and guess what?! We're only one day away from Hump Day :]

For me, it's NOT any specific physical act. It's that sense that she really cares about me as a person, is actually interested in me as more than just a client. A caring personality and a great sense of humor is also important. I know this is a feeble attempt to define "chemistry" but.....

Because at no point in time does she make me feel or remind me that I am with a provider. (Even when she leaves).

Its whats going on between the ears.  Its how she presents herself.  But when I think of her I think passionate. When you walk out and you have never felt this way before, you go back for more.

There are a couple ladies that have gotten a second shot at F_R.  In every case, they were beautiful, made me feel like a king and seemed to enjoy my company.  I've seen them socially (off the clock) on numerous occasions and thinking back, each of them has bought me a meal or drinks.  One of them has approached dropping the E off of GFE, so I obviously keep seeing her.  We're pretty good friends.

#1 she is 19 and i'am 21 ... keeps making me come back
#2 although she doesn't make it a GFE i still enjoy touching every thing about her
#3 she's latina and kinda hard for a asian like me to meet a gorgoeus latina civvie
#4 She teaches me stuff and i think i teach her
#5 she reads books to me

P.s She doesn't read no mofo books to me lol

You are SOOOOOO not my type, but I still owe you a drink.

Assuming that there are two equally pretty ladies, and since you asked for personality / traits rather than acts, I'd pick the one that I can have the most fun with and genuinely has potential for creating a real long term friendship.  I realize it's the GFE/PSE illusion and know how to differentiate it, but in order to be fooled into that illusion requires a characteristic that is virtually identical to the real.

As for traits: someone who isn't too bitchy yet isn't so passive to the point of driving me nuts, lady-like and generally conservative despite what she does for a living, respects my time, isn't 40 minutes late every time (10~15min late is fine with me), and does not act like she has a serious personality disorder, or has some serious animosity toward something or someone.  Haters and I are not compatible.

Most memorable for me were ladies who generally gave off the classy sophisticated image both in looks and the way she carried herself. Detailed oriented enough to knew some of my likes and dislikes down to a surprising degree of detail. Usually, I just go with the flow and try to adjust to the lady but when she cares enough and is meticulous enough to customize the time together to such level of detail, it is impressive and keeps me cumming back for more.

I suppose it would simply be someone who is arousing to be with and very compatible during the session as well as having an open minded / laid-back personality who likes to have fun outside of the session as well. Although not demanded, some occasional off the clock fun would be expected if I'm scheduling 2 ~ 24 hours at a time repeatedly. Despite my handle, it doesn't mean going out and getting trashed hurling out chunks together, some of my favorites were non-drinkers yet we had sober fun at clubs, karaoke bars, getting psychic readings together, going for a stroll at the harbor, etc...  just creating "virtual fond memories". I guess some indeed become rather genuine sometimes.

Why not reply to her question?  If you don't have an answer, why make a post on this!

If you want her to answer your "personal" questions, send her a PM.

Sheesh

This was actually one of the more coherent ones!  lol!  He posts verbose, impenetrable and incoherent posts to providers on a regular basis.  He has some bizarre fascination with their motivations and why they are in this business.  One can almost hear him jerking off as he writes them.  He is a troll who is best ignored.

I regularly see a provider as I love her company very much. Though sex with her is enjoyable, it is not the driver for me. She is a young intelligent, beautiful and decent girl who like others want to earn quick money from this work and quit. I somehow feel like playing a role in helping her achieve this goal, and therefore see her often, though never gratis. I am aware that for her I am just another client, who she can count on to provide some regular income and at times seek advice on the usual drama in this business.

I am using an aliase otherwise it would be easy to figure out her identity based on my limited reviews.

Except for the part where you said you want a girl who:

is on time
isn't too bitchy
isnt a hater
wants to create fond memories

Other than that, I think we could be e/o's ATF easily

Dear DupliciousCrust,

Since you brought this topic up, from what you wrote in the past and present we have seen multiple times, and from what we read from your various posts, what is the one skill set about you? The ability to write by discombobulating and burying the real meaning among arcane recondite sentence structure along with cryptic confabulation...  which is fine if you enjoy confusing people.

Speaking of anatomical features, what does that have anything to do with the question proposed by the OP?  She was asking specifically for personality traits NOT anatomical features.

It seems you have trouble comprehending a simple post written by the OP that everyone else here clearly understood, yet you expect people to comprehend your cryptic enigma full of run-on sentences?

First she is a real friend. She has gone well beyond call of duty. She helped give my son a way to help me. for that alone she will always well remembered as one of the best. She actually is a real friend with or with out the envelope. I have not been able to see her lately and she knows I likely will not be able to for some time, yet she still checks on me as a friend.

Second, she respects my rules. She loves to kiss but does not try to get me to do so. She makes it feel like we are fuck buddies and friends but not any thing more. The line and not blurred and I like that.

Third, she is a good cook and loves to cook for me off the clock.

Fourth, she has a great smile that can light up a room.

Fifth, She fucks me cowgirl like no one else. She bounces me off the bed. I am a very large man and she puts so much energy into it and goes down so hard that she gets me airborne for a few seconds. Then at other times she cuddles up to me and makes soft sweet love to me.

But my reasons are my reasons. 'They' know what I'm talking about and that's all that matters.

Like remembering my birthday, or even recounting our last conversation.

The attention to these little details is the secret to success in any business.

In business seminars I've attended, one quote stands out over all the others:

The decision on whom or what to buy is always made by the right side of the brain.  (That's the intuitive side.)

MP has a predilection for diving into grassy fields of a sideways sloppy joe that are the vertical smiles of a woman with an astronomical magnitude of libido at any given temporal position. He also has an affinity for the members of the opposite species who are dipsomaniacs addicted to the empirical formula C2H6O and obsessed with it as he is. At other times, he enjoys laying back with a puff of C10H14N2 although his lungs are more atramentous along with a touch of obsidian charcoal, to which is simply dismisses with a blurt of a few expletives.

In answer to your next conundrum, on behalf of my brethren, the traditional spatial coordinates that him and his partners prefer for tantric copulatory activities take place in a platform constructed of timber in an architecture embodying the scaffold of the pallet which contains a trundle which is not a cot but a fixated chaise. The non traditional coordinates, he can not disclose because you are on a need-to-know basis and at this temporal moment, you do not need-to-know. Sometimes the copulatory activities takes places with a multitude of associates in the presence of his dual mammal of canine species.

But Does this mean that I'll get a few days of OTC fun?  lol    

BTW, what is it that you hate so much.. ms.hater? I think every girl has a little bit of bitchiness.. as do men, but it's the degree that is important.  

And creating fond memories, I would agree that any strangers would not be interested in it, so the correct phrase would be 'creating make-believe / virtual fond memories'... maybe after a while it grows into something real, or not.

As for tardiness, there's one lady who was late over 5 f***king hours for a session.

I'm very patient, but after the 4th hour and 30 minutes... the remaining 30 minutes waiting outside, I thought I was gonna explode.  

( And I subsequently did explode ...  she cleaned up for me afterwards. lol)

Not about the Sex.  Now the reality is that my ATF and I happen to have amazing sex everytime we are together and we ususally end up completley exhausted when we are done....But I have had amazing sex with other providers and while I like them they don't ever get to ATF status.

What makes someone my ATF is that when I am with her I forget every care that I have in the world and just enjoy life and being with her. We talk and laugh and share stories and just enjoy each others company in addition to the hours of non stop sexual escapades.  I know that she is my ATF because I only want to see her for extended dates....typically over nights...because a one hour bump and grind session is not enough time.....ever.

I have been fortunate to have known three such women in my hobby career....One of them has turned into one of my best friends in the civie world and I still see my other fav on occassion.....I hope that I will have the same luck with my current friend for long time to come.

I just wanna get my dick wet with a wonderful lady that can put up with my shit for at least a couple hours...!

Oh well, that why they pay me the "big bucks" lol

as long as it takes off from the Denver airport. lol

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In short you like to fuck women, drink, hang with like minded friends and smoke. And where you fuck the women isn't any of Duplicitouslust's business but your dogs are sometimes there. It isn't exactly what he said but it is what it boils down to. MP you need to learn how to read and understand gibberish.

Now to cure everyones headache, here is a photo of Kaede Matsushima from sexasain18.com Now doesn't that help the headache Duplicitouslust's and !Drunk's post gave you!

When she makes it seem as though she is just ravenous for a load of my semen and is milking me in a way that suggests she is just begging for it.....

They'd call it The Mile High Club if it could reach that altitude.  lol!

I was going to attempt to learn Dupe's language.  But the last post came in a fairly recognizable English type language which is pissing me off as the Dupe languange CD was $ 299.99...and I could have used that on a session instead!

But he did post further down in Dupeese and I may still have a chance to translate...but scoed beat me to it

All I know is when they leave I can't stop thinking about them and I spend the next several months planning to see them again; yes and an hour would never be enough, i need that just to talk.

I guess the favorite part for me is the time afterwards, I love hearing stories about their life and the business, and sharing my struggles as well learning to be a hobbyist (yes for me it's not as easy as the others, i'm still trying to deal with the psychology of the whole thing).  Emails and text messages before and after really ice the cake.  I love laughing and giggling. I like talking, sharing and teasing before as well.  I really to feel that I've taking a step back in time, to a point when I was a teenager and I fell in love on the phone or just staring into her eyes.

I like it when they are real and genuine.  And yes, when they have a real orgasm, especially during DATY, it is FANTASTIC, and you can tell when they are real. And its still OK to fake it when you can't, if you can't be an ATF, being a temporary porn star is still allot of fun.

Please feel free to translate Duplicitouslust's gibberish.

There is a gibberish or Dupe language CD? Damn I had to learn it the hard way by actually reading his posts. I am getting anther headache just thinking about his posts. This should take my mind off of his posts. Here is a photo of Beth from Nubiles.net

and she gives me THAT look and says, "I'm not done with you yet."

One would have to live with me to get a hint, and let's just say there is NOT a line forming outside my front door....