There is someone with no posts or reviews that messages everyone who reviews me. They have been doing it for months. They ask the exact same  questions to everyone. The questions are about my location and things that are very invasive. I have their screen name in here. I’ve contact the mods but I’m not sure how to stop it.

I have been questioned by another reviewer on here regarding certain gals ive seen. Come off extremely intrusive and asks lots of personal info. Seems envious and obsessed.. I laugh it off and havent reported him.  

In my younger years (and before this hobby) I may have been know to go beyond what may seem appropriate in my internet searches and inquiries. I'm not suggesting this is insignificant, but, it sounds to me like this person is socially insecure and a bit of a nerd.  Or, he's a stalker

This is a bit creepy. Have you tried sending him a message and asking what's up?

Really?  I'm thinking she should carry a 10' pole, if you catch my drift.

Jealous boyfriend,  ex, or other who suspects you're a sex worker and is looking for proof.

Look, it could be a stalker. Or, it could be some guy who wants to see her, has never seen an escort, is super nervous, and is struggling to pull the trigger. A PM might shed some light.

I guess it's up to her.  He may become a solid regular.  What's it worth?  

"If there is any doubt, there is no doubt."

Invasive locations including location? I would throw red flags all over this one.

…i PM reviewers on ladies all the time…usually just the last two and i am respectful and only ask them to share what they are comfortable with and i have NEVER asked for an address of the provider or which hotel she hosted at (one instance). usually just “is it a safe area?” “is there a doorman?” etc

that TER will send this guy to the land of wind and ghosts.

That;s absolutely insane. Like honestly the review should be enough. You shouldn't have to answer more questions after the fact.

I haven’t dated outside this in years. I’m focused on my goals. No one I know in my personal life would do something like that.

and take action against this person for the sake of safety.

I think everyone ends up getting a stalker at some point in this hobby. I’ve had 2 in my time that have really tested my
patience. All you can do is make sure you keep your personal information private *with EVERYONE*, even small things about yourself you might not think is a big deal. There are a lot of scary people in this world.  Screening and privacy is key for both providers and clients in this hobby. It can go the other way too, clients also need to be careful. Someone can ask about you all they want, but if there isn’t much to be said then they can’t do much with it. Be safe.

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Could it be LEO?

In my opinion that's extremely doubtful

Ive attemped to post the screenname on here but wont go through

A guy just posted he did this on another thread. They do this to find out if the reviewer is real as they think  if they only review one lady they are not real. I have several guys who have only seen me and I asked them to write a review because obviously after years of seeing me they would certainly know me. They don’t play the scene though they just see me.  

A potential client may contact someone with just one review because they're worried they may be real. However, contacting those with numerous reviews could be with good intentions as well. I do it all of the time. Not because I am worried if they are real or not. Because they often are willing to talk about details they do not feel comfortable putting in their reviews. Guys know many of the ladies they are reviewing are reading these reviews. They become more cautious with what they are willing to write because of it. But in a PM, if they are VIP and willing to share, they are more likely to let their guard down and give it to you straight.

Most successful mongers who review develop a network of fellow reviewers they can contact back-channel for info about a girl that is more detailed than is in a review (YMMV stuff). But that's NOT what we're talking about here, where a guy is contacting every reviewer and asking for inappropriate stuff.  A BIG no-no.

Yes! And he/she has been doing it now for months. They claim to be new and just wanting information but the wording and information they want is not the typical “new guy”.

Set the guy up to figure out who it is if possible.