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I have the same demeanor and . . . .
WICardinalfan 37 Reviews 22 reads
posted
1 / 17

IMHO my behavior with a companion is broken into two parts.

1) Core values: We all have core values which drives our behavior toward others, be they strangers or friends.  Some value women highly.  Some not so much.  Thus an asshole will treat a companion female as crap regardless of who she is. It may not be apparent at first, but it will be over time.  A gentleman ,is a gentleman, is a gentleman.  Example; if a companion likes rough sex, both types might do it, but the asshole will continue if the lady says stop.

2) Reflection of the moment:  If a lady has a sense of humor and is playful, I might respond the same.  Or not, depends on how the session is going.  An example, which might strike close to home, is the type of conversation.  Chit chat is chit chat, but when a lady asks probing questions then it becomes a challenge and fun.  Or, if a lady is very sensual and seductive, I may just let her have her way with me.  It all depends.  

I hope this makes sense to folks.

636roels 5 Reviews 24 reads
posted
2 / 17

or disrespectful or a boundary pusher. But I'm definitely going to have a different demeanor towards different women. It's no different than in real life. If I don't like you I'm not going to make much of an effort, especially with a provider, I'm gonna blow a load and bounce. If I like you and know I want to repeat I'm going to make a effort so you remember me.

All that said there are 3 things that open girls up to guys being jerks: 1) they lied about price and start upcharging, if you treat me like a wallet imma treat you like a hoe. 2) they aren't confident, which to me is a turn off but to some it's a signal to try things.  3) you act super slutty like anything goes

jdentente 19 Reviews 25 reads
posted
3 / 17

In today's world, I would hope that the overwhelming majority of men in this arena treat the ladies with respect.

John_Laroche 21 reads
posted
4 / 17

I doubt you will get many honest replies from mo gers who turn asshole. They will likely blame the provider rather than admit that they could have walked away from a bad situation a few dollars lighter.

As for general demeanor,  I  certainly feed off the energy of the provider. Having her appearance and attitude match her ad goes a long long way.

Angel4Life 26 reads
posted
5 / 17

I live by the golden rule; Treat others the way you wish to be treated!  I am very fair and treat the ladies well.  I do have some over the top kinks, but most of the ladies will indulge. If a lady does not wish to cater to my desires, I will still leave a positive review but usually will not repeat.  I do not push boundaries. As a result, I always have a great time, and most providers can’t wait to a repeat performance with me.  I have about half a dozen who will reach out to me when they visit my area. Live and let live!

MasterZen 34 Reviews 18 reads
posted
6 / 17

I don't think my attitude or demeanor is very different between providers, except for perhaps those providers I know well where I may be more relaxed and comfortable.

 
Under no circumstances will I be violent or disrespectful. I can't understand those that are!

 
I am a lover, not a fighter.

RegencyHobbyist 109 Reviews 19 reads
posted
7 / 17

I treat all ladies with courtesy and respect unless they give me a reason not to such as by being disrespectful to me, trying to upsell/upcharge, or refusing to perform services which are listed in their ad or routinely discussed in reviews.

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 19 reads
posted
8 / 17

and personality with all providers regardless of their beauty, rates, or attitude.  I'm there to have fun, and if she doesn't want to lighten up, laugh and little and have fun with me, I simply won't repeat, but it won't stop me from enjoying the sex.  For me to repeat, it had to be a fun session both sexually AND socially. Some providers deliver the sex, but are just not any fun socially.  

Hpygolky 233 Reviews 17 reads
posted
9 / 17

But I can sense that there's guys who treat girls differently based on their race and their price point. Some guys have this misogynistic toward women that they take it BCD's...Dear poster, tell me I'm wrong.

WICardinalfan 37 Reviews 20 reads
posted
10 / 17

Agreed.  For every 10 good experiences there is always 1 or 2 who put little effort into the date.  Kiss, blow, fuck, go.  In those cases I don't waste my time and be my usual chatty self.  If all she will give me is a mechanical experience, mechanical back she will get.  

Happens very rarely to me.  

helixir 54 Reviews 20 reads
posted
11 / 17

Of the 300 or so I've seen that might say I was an asshole.  Why?  Not because of anything I did in the room, but because I gave them reviews they didn't like.  One of them disputed my review, another threatened me and the 3rd blew up my phone.

My simple rule in the room is to behave like a gentleman.  If I get attitude, I don't adopt one myself--I leave.

mike1631 6 Reviews 17 reads
posted
12 / 17

Pretty simple really - I always always live and operate by the 'Golden Rule'.  Nothing more needs to be said ;)

helixir 54 Reviews 20 reads
posted
13 / 17

You’re right—the instances I cite were really disagreements between provider and client.

What you’re talking about are more akin to deeply boorish, manipulative and even predatory behavior. The kinds of clients who act that way probably do have a keen sense of a provider’s weakness or fear and will leverage that for his needs.  Which is to say that while the providers may exhibit certain behaviors that make them prey for this type of personality, it’s probably the case that the client who behaves that way is showing his real self when he does that; he’s in disguise when he’s being nice, either because he’s not sure he can get away with it with certain ladies or because that’s a way to lure ladies in.  But once he shows that side of himself, it’s a sure bet he’s showing you who he really is.

It reminds me how vulnerable providers really are in this business.

Stay safe and good luck.

And your English is fine.  Considering most Americans can’t speak a sentence in another language, you’re already an overachiever.
: )

davincib1 96 Reviews 30 reads
posted
14 / 17

With a provider, although I can't say that all my sessions have been gumdrops and lollipops.  For me if the research that I have put in that lead me there doesn't reflect the provider's true mood then I just roll with it and mark her off my list from that point on.  There are no such things as "bad days" when large sums of money is involved IMO.  And I see no point in making a scene in a hotel room, with a person I'm not supposed to be there with anyways. Not to mention getting others involved.  I try not to take advantage of a providers kindness, and I come with only the expectations from past reviews of said provider.  

To answer your question though, the way a provider treats you is definitely a big part of setting the mood.  

CurlyW-NatsFan 30 reads
posted
15 / 17

I am never asshole in person.. Just ain't me... On the Internet, YES !!!  

 
Sometimes, a new person comes in my personal space, they don't get treated well. Overtime, I warm up to them...

 
Facts !!

-- Modified on 7/8/2022 11:09:57 PM

impposter 49 Reviews 35 reads
posted
16 / 17

Les messages précédents sont mes messages:
The previous posts are my posts:
http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion-boards/ter-general-board-12/re-oh-please-can-you-write-in-any-other-language-787652
http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion-boards/ter-general-board-12/4-3-2-1--994535
Etc..

Posted By: gdaddy100
Re: What Do U Call.....?
Apropos of a Previous Post Alluding 2 THIS.  
 (An Inside Joke amongst Educated, Cultured, Multilingual Europeans...  When Referring 2 Loudmouthed, Self-Important, In-Ur-Face, Uncultured, Ostentatious Americans!)  
 A Little Q & A:  
   
 Q: What do you call someone who speaks 3 languages?  
 A:  Trilingual......a Polyglot.  
   
 Q: What do you call someone who speaks 2 languages?  
 A:  Bilingual  
   
   
 Q: What do you call someone who only speaks 1 language?  
 A:  An American.
Posted By: helixir
Re: More To The Point  
 You’re right—the instances I cite were really disagreements between provider and client.  
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...    
  And your English is fine.  Considering most Americans can’t speak a sentence in another language, you’re already an overachiever.  

MintyFreshness 66 Reviews 22 reads
posted
17 / 17

I'm not aware of any demeanor changes from lady to lady.   I don't think ANY lady would say I've ever been anything but polite and respectful.   That said, I am a bit of an introvert and some ladies are better at drawing me out than others.   Those tend to be my favorite sessions.    

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