Demon rum strikes again.

 
This is the fourth time in my 40+ hobbying career that I've cut someone on account of their drinking.  
 This was a good looking, good performing, very affordable, and 10 year tenure local gal whom I had to warn several times over the past year that she is NOT to imbibe before we plan a session.   The immediate cause of the set-to this time was her insistence that she was fit to drive.   My opinion, backed by the proprietor of the establishment we were about to depart from, was that she was not.

So be it.

Just curious if other long term hobbyists have faced similar circumstances and how they dealt with this.

There is one at least whom I parted company with, but who by dint of AA and other resources made it back to sobriety and now we are on good terms.   This for about ten years.  (I have know her for about 25 years.)

Curiously, there is only one gal I had to part company with owing to their use of various illegal narcotics.   Despite all the notoriety and columns of news print given to that problem, alcohol is still by far the most destructive of the pollutants we populate our bodies with.  Somehow, I think this circumstance will never change.

I insist on being the biggest drunk in the relationship. lol

 
This goes for hookers, SB's and civvie chicks as well. Yes, I have had to dump several women over the last forty plus years for being bigger drunks than me. That said, I don't mind if a girl get shitfaced on a date with me, but she can NOT be a drama queen, a cryer, a mean drunk, or any of the dozens of other kinds of "unpleasant drunks" that we all know. I like happy drunks, some of them are the absolute BEST in bed. To be perfectly honest, most of the time when a date (paid or otherwise) gets too drunk it's usually a factor of trying to keep up with me. I tend to date women barely 100 lbs, and it's a rare 200 lb guy, much less a 100 lb girl who can go drink for drink with me for very long.

 
Speaking of drunks, I wonder if a certain fucking fucker has ever dumped a girl for being a drunk??? lmao

Funny, BOTH of the gals you describe sound like the nut job from the North Shore.

Vitae Summa Brevis Spem Nos Vetat Incohare Longam
.
They are not long, the weeping and the laughter,
Love and desire and hate:
I think they have no portion in us after
We pass the gate.
.
They are not long, the days of wine and roses:
Out of a misty dream
Our path emerges for a while, then closes
Within a dream.
.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XCGiQlF12hI

Sober gals are all sober in the same way, drunk gals are each drunk in their own way.

So far I've dumped a mean drunk, one who just passes out before we can get to business (then called me and asked me to tell a cop that she's not a whore, honest to God!), one who threatened to open the car door on a highway and jump out, and lastly the one I described above.

The one who I dumped and came back simply flaked on our appointments time after time.

I hope I'm done keeping a scoreboard on this subject.

who drink too much.  If you''re going to pass out on me, at least fall over the arm of a chair or something with your ass in the air.  I'll go slow and  try not to wake you.  

I remember this Panamanian chica that I've probably seen a couple of dozen times, both in Panama and Costa Rica, most of the time she has stayed sober, I can't say so much for myself of course, lol, but there were four different times where we got shitfaced drunk together with very mixed results. Twice she got sick and passed out on me, one of those times we did end up fucking the next morning, the other time she was still so sick (puked all night) that we didn't fuck at all. The other two times she became the ultimate "passionate latina" This was no "hooker sex" this was one of those times (ok two of them) that I could honestly believe this chica was in love with me. (until she sobered up of course) but the sex was so fucking hot it made all the other bullshit I went through the other two times more than worth it.

 
I do have to say, that getting a girl shit faced on a night that you are expecting sex is a VERY hit and miss proposition, your chances of having her just pass out on you are greater than the chances of her dropping all inhibitions, but personally as long as we are spending the whole night together I really don't mind it "that much" if one or both of us get too drunk to fuck on our date, as long as she is a "fun drunk" that is. I have no patience for bad drunks.

There was this young lady from Chicago that I later learned was going through some drug problems. I'd seen her a couple of times before with no issues but this time she must have popped one too many Oxy on her way up to my room. The memorable moment was when she completely passed out with my cock in her mouth. After making sure she was still breathing, I let her sleep for awhile until finally her driver came up and carried her out. I bumped into her a couple of years later at a M&G. She talked openly about that period in her life but swore she had no memory of the event. Most likely true.