If he's a whack lover that hurts me, maybe not.

Some guys with thick/cocks throw it all around like we should just be able to take it because we're hookers - completely careless and without any skill.
I'll see these guys again if they are very nice.  If not I will provide a reference and move on.
Enduring pain is not apart of my job description.

If a client is big, is aware that he is big and is gentle until my body is lubricated and can accommodate him fully then that is great and that is likely a client I enjoy.
In my experience men with extremities - very small or very big dicks usually learn exactly what they should and should not do and that makes them exceptional.

As you described, would see again.

Viagra dick delaying is another story.

Have you every been with a guy who's dick completely stuffed your pussy girth and length wise ? So much so that every part of your pussy could feel his dick ? You try moaning and everything to get him and he takes him time (trying to get his money's worth),  but not too rough.

You know he is ready to cum but he doing everything he can to delay cumming.

Would you see him again ?

I agree with theskyfell
If he is truly being gentle and attentive to the fact I would absolutely see him again. In the beginning once I’m wet enough and use to you inside me being gentle throughout the whole time isn’t really necessary. I like alittle rough But if its soo big that I cant comfortable enjoy it then I’d let him know and refer him to someone else.

1. I won't see a guy who is even above average much less big, and 2. I rarely have to deal with the "more bang for the buck" type of clients. If that's what they want, they can find a woman 10 years younger and 400 dollars cheaper for that purpose.

Even hookers, are still human beings...thanks. For guys who have this attitude "I just need a hole to pound for a solid hour or two," there are women to take care of them...not many that I know of, however.

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For me, it is all in the personality. If that clicks then we can handle most anything, one way or the other

A guy is entitled to have this "monies worth" mentality...just not with me. There are tons of women out there that can deal with being banged for 59 out of the 60 minutes.

If it is causing discomfort I just tell them to stop and change gears. And then never see them again.

I find the idea of guys saying they want GFE in an hour, is a huge contradiction. I have never had a boyfriend see how many times he could go in an hour. GFE is supposed to connote, "relaxed, not rushed, and intimate." I see nothing relaxed or intimate about a guy trying to squeeze as many pops as he can, within such a short time. Hourly GFE with MSOG, is an oxymoron. To me, no such thing as MSOG in a damn hour. That is PSE.

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It's the "all you can do" in that hour. No-one I have even been with in my civvie life has ever treated sex that way. It's a certain breed of hobbyist that does and while it is their prerogative, it is also mine to A. not see them if I know beforehand or B. quit when I can't take it anymore.

So you don't like guys trying to get 2 pops in a hour ?

People aren't like that in the civvie world but they also don't generally have a clock ticking there either. Got a balance of the amount of time you can afford at a particular frequency in a given month and in most cases that amount of time is less then any normal guy would get in a civvie relationship. So you get the feeling of having to squeeze a while lot of desire into less time then any civvie relationship generally would allow.

Then the gent should choose a lady that has no problem being banged for 58.3 minutes.

I'm developing an attraction to you and testing your limits!
It's probably all in my mind but, your handle, the fact that you like girls and will still tolerate a man, pretty attractive to me. I love jumping into the middle of two "lipstick lesbians".

No offense taken...

I find that absurd to disguise it as GFE, when it is actually PSE. When I did offer an hour, very few men could actually get it up again to a nice level where the condom would work, and I am talking about all ages, not just older guys. They were so sensitive from the first nut, that it was simply not enough time for them to recover for the second round. What happened? I spent nearly 30 min. trying to raise the dead or sucking on a limp noodle that still NEVER got a second pop, or they took nearly the entire hour to go the first one and dared expect to recover for 20 min. and go again, when only 10 min. remained. Add to that, they still wanted to shower.

So, again that is far from what I consider GFE. Me doing all the work without even a 3 second water break, whilst he does shit, is NOT GFE...it is PSE. I don't mind either one, but I will be paid for the service he wants, and not conned into doing more for less. That was my main issue with offering an hour. I seemed to attract much of the above.

My solution...don't offer an hour, because you are usually taken advantage of and work for 90 min. anyway. I did not raise the rate when I made the change though...just made the time start at 90 min.so they got that extra half hour in there.  Now, it's 2 hours and yes, the rate changed for that one, because I don't want to see that many people. I have found guys who book a min. of 2 hours are not "pop" oriented, so it solved 2 problems.

For guys who know their bodies and what they are capable of, all good, but so many do not. I find guys who are more "pop oriented" vs. "experience oriented" are just not the type I want to see. Not putting them down, but just prefer not to deal with them.





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That he should though I must say, he must be rather in shape if he can manage what you describe.

Ok thanks for sharing the info. This explains why the bp providers have half hour rates. I did some expirements with 2 pops in a hour. Hard to do that on a regular basis.  It had to be with the right girl and thr guy has to be prepared.

Hell i do it all the time 58.3 minutes is the half way point, but being hung like a Gnat, all i do is fuck air..........................

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Sometimes if the lady is really attractive I get a massive hard on 10 minutes after I pop. I noticed the younger ladies will sometimes try to give another bj in2 or 3 minutes.  Must be the younger guys they deal with. Now I understand why the providers with more experince want to see older guys.

I'm with you an hour is never enough for a quality experience. I never go under two anymore.

Then again with who I see two is really not enough time.

Best name for a band ever.