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Khori See my TER Reviews 230 reads
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Maybe because I know what I like.  And I say so.  I want to get off too.

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This is a variation on DebbieNoonerGirl's thread about the guy who didn't want her to come.

I just read a new review of a provider I've seen quite a few times. The reviewer was going on and on about how she was putting a pillow between her teeth to keep her screams from being heard, about saying to him that his big hard cock felt so good in her, yada yada yada.

She did this the first time we met. She was chewing on pillows 30 seconds after we started intercourse. I told her I'd rather she be real with me and let me know what I could do to please her, and tell me when I was doing it right or wrong.

I've asked the same of other providers. Tell me what will make you feel good. Tell me how you like DATY. Tell me what your favorite position is.  

Nobody tells me. I get "just keep doing what you're doing", or some variation.

I know that what I'm doing isn't what would make her feel good.

Why can't any provider level with me? Do they not want to feel good? Maybe it's just not possible with an old guy like me, so they just act.

ATLDAWG428 reads

I hate to spring this on anyone ..........................  but....................has it occurred to those who really believe they can make any gal cum.....that this is pay for play and not screwing your secretary  or significant other ???

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Yes. I'm beginning to think I can't make any provider come, and so I'm just concentrating on what I want that makes me feel good.

Maybe because I know what I like.  And I say so.  I want to get off too.

...they save their orgasms for when they are with their SO's. It's just too personal an experience for them and something that they don't want to share with a stranger in a P4P scenario.

Posted By: PRS2005
 
Why can't any provider level with me? Do they not want to feel good? Maybe it's just not possible with an old guy like me, so they just act.
It's very rare for me to feel comfortable enough with someone  I just met to tell him exactly how to push me into a heated frenzy.  It may not make sense, given that I have sex with strangers all the time, but there it is.  :-)

Sometimes, no matter how many times I meet someone, I'm never going to get to the point where I'm comfortable telling him those things.  With others, I'm feeling relaxed enough around him on the 2nd or 3rd date that I'm giving him a freakin blueprint to my orgasms.  LOL.  ;-)

But just because I don't tell you what I like MOST, doesn't mean I'm not truly enjoying it.  

 
Don't forget, we are there to please YOU so if what we like best is something that not every guy is going to want to do...... well, then that's a really good reason to keep that stuff to ourselves. ;-)

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NOONER: (noun) A sexual encounter during lunch hour, especially one that is illicit.

I have no reason to mislead you...I am a person who enjoys just being in the moment so I may choose not to guide you so that I can just feel and see where the spontaneity thakes me.  I am a serial cummer...that means I have learned how to please my body and soul with many different kinds of touch and the right mental space.  Many ladies do not want to be there...or they may have a partner whp does not want that...or they just cum so infrequently that they are afraid of the letting go process that takes you to a true tantic sensual space.  I will give directions and suggestions if I feel necessary to do so or you just really dig that vibe.

But don't ask and continue doing what you want . Actually use the advice given

Maybe the woman isn't intune with her body or for whatever reason doesn't have the ability to go into that space. Maybe its just her body language....biting pillows doesnt mean bad experience or that she wont cum....From my experience most of.my.clients I wouldn't hesitate to say what I like best....but sometimes when the connection has been off I've just said "screw it" and let them do how they wanted to.....

Posted By: PRS2005
This is a variation on DebbieNoonerGirl's thread about the guy who didn't want her to come.  
   
 I just read a new review of a provider I've seen quite a few times. The reviewer was going on and on about how she was putting a pillow between her teeth to keep her screams from being heard, about saying to him that his big hard cock felt so good in her, yada yada yada.  
   
 She did this the first time we met. She was chewing on pillows 30 seconds after we started intercourse. I told her I'd rather she be real with me and let me know what I could do to please her, and tell me when I was doing it right or wrong.  
   
 I've asked the same of other providers. Tell me what will make you feel good. Tell me how you like DATY. Tell me what your favorite position is.  
   
 Nobody tells me. I get "just keep doing what you're doing", or some variation.  
   
 I know that what I'm doing isn't what would make her feel good.  
   
 Why can't any provider level with me? Do they not want to feel good? Maybe it's just not possible with an old guy like me, so they just act.

The truth is some women, including providers cannot cum no matter what you do and we don't want you to:
#1 - wear down our vaginas trying too hard
#2 - Feel useless, hopeless in the sack

Personally I had my first orgasm at 37 years old and that was with the Hitachi Magic Wand. My boyfriend does me real good, and he is great at DATY but I still can't cum with just him. I can't come without help from the Hitachi Magic Wand, trust me it's nothing he's doing wrong. He understands that. Sometimes he puts the magic wand against my clitoris while he's inside me and I have a stronger orgasm than using the wand alone.

That's just the way some girls are made.

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