The other day I had a one hour appointment which started well, but: when we wanted to do it, she had:NO CONDOM!. She asked me whether I had, no I did not; she looked everywhere in her suitcase, no luck.
That was it. What does one do: get dressed and leave hotel to buy; expect her to get dressed and buy; ask the hotel's room service for condoms?
Does one ask part of one's gift back? Does one call the agency and ask for a reduced rate with the next (other) girl? (That would not be very delicate vis-a-vis the previous provider).
So far I did nothing. Any advice?

Both times we got to that crucial moment, and then the deflating letdown. Different ladies in different cities. Being the cynic that I am, I suspect that it may not have been an innocent oversight. I have carried a couple of emergency spares ever since. Be prepared.

Same here and I too guessed that it was not an oversight. Then to top it off no DAYT or BBBJ. Should have sent her packing but was in a remote area and knew I'd be shit out of luck. Yes I now always carry.

The difference is she actually called me on her way to the hotel.  So I went outside to a Walgreen to get it.

She works at a call-center with a large company, and she couldn't get out on time and then got stuck in the traffic ...

That was rather benign ... there was another time when I was with a civvie girl: she had car trouble and called me over to help her out.  Afterwards, we went inside her apartment.  Then she asked me to fuck her without a condom -- we weren't that familiar with each other -- I run away.

With over 30 reviews it's obvious you are no newb...or "one" would think.

What "one" does is be prepared! Apparently you were never a Boy Scout?

Geez. It's a simple condom. Something small that can obviously change the flow of an entire date.
Be a man. Carry at least one with you when entering play time.

If you haven't grasped that concept...it boggles the mind what else you may fall short on in this realm.

Things happen, we're only human.

You, since it would be inappropriate to expect her to leave you unattended in her location, need to run downstairs to the hotel shop and grab a box of condoms. She needs to use that time to call her agency/assistant/whomever and update her schedule to reflect your appointment will run a half hour longer.

When you get back, condoms in hand, the two of you have already shared a misadventure and can enjoy your time together relaxed while having a good laugh at the irony of the situation. Two well informed adults and nary a condom to be found!?!

A couple of month's ago, I scheduled an appointment with a "new" lady and brought along my own condoms. We made out for a bit, she gave me a BBBJ and after awhile I decided it was time to move on to FS, but her condoms were no where to be found. I allowed her to run around around like a headless chicken, looking in her suitcases, her closet, under the bed, in the bathroom etc for about 5 minutes. I finally told her, I brought my own condoms.

be prepared. shit happens

It's never happened to me yet. But I'm always prepared. I've left the house without condoms, and stop off at a drug store, on my way to a session.

a kit that includes a shaving, oral hygeine, and other necessities. i always have condoms of the male and female variety in case i get lucky.

BBJCIM obviously

but now married.  It is hard enough stashing the hobby phone but have a simple excuse if caught (found it on the subway and didn't know what to do with it).

But stashing the backup condom??  Are you kidding me?!?  There ain't no excuse good enough to cover for for that.

ps don't tell me to toss it if I don't need it - knowing me, I would forget  

I was out of town, so had to do a very rare, for me, outcall to my room.  She didn't bring any, but fortunately, I was the Boy Scout and had some with me.  But it did kind of piss me off that she came unprepared.  It's my understanding in general, that providers would prefer to use their own condoms over ones the client provides.

As far as what to do in your situation, I have no idea what I would have done.  Probably taken my donation, gone to get some, or just left.  If we had already had some play, might have given her partial if I was not returning.

Swim

on the way there, and leave em with her if you don't use em...

You propose that you would have "taken your donation?" How do you propose to do that, given that the envelope has long ago been spirited away?

You going to search her purse?

You really don't think it was an "accident" on her part, do you? I'm sure a significant enough number of her clients do not carry condoms, that she has learned this is an effective way to get the full donation, without having to put out.

Used to have a local here that NEVER bought her own.  It started coming out in her reviews, and she was washed up.  She was fairly trashy anyway and didn't want to waste her crack money on rubbers I guess!

"Dont/ never leave home without it!!"
the interest rate on American Express is quite high so
I prefer to always carry my "trojans/Magnums" the payoff is much better !! : )
The  "interest" and "rate" is Always mutually beneficial..: )-
Charge it!!
lovely lorena

'CVS' stamped on my forehead. Sorry. If the ladies are going to complain about using packages brought by clients it is HER resonsibility to 'provide'. Is it not? Why should i reward bad business practices by "leaving" her my condoms?

I am at a loss.  However, most of my dates have left the envelope untouched while I was there, esp if the action got started right away.  In those cases, it would have been right where I left it.

But you do raise a valid point that didn't occur to me when I posted before.

Swim

Well, I'm not experienced at all.
But for my past appointment I had condoms with me, and I think I'll have every other time.
Just in case

I was recently reading the FAQ on a ladies website where she stated that for outcalls, which I mostly do, that she did not travel with supplies to eliminate LE issues.  It was up to the client to have condoms and lube.  Just when you thought you'd heard it all huh.
But I thought it could make sense.                TH

Yep...there is something on the P&R board about one state arresting a woman if she is possession of I think 3 condoms...for prostitution.

Dear Lovelylorena702:
I would think that would be the first fundamental item that anyone who works professionally would possess after they would have their gender specific items. After all it would behoove one to be Salubrious about there health so they won't have lugubrious conversations regarding there state of being at a later date.

Here's what I would have done.  Let her know my disappointment  but try to make the best of the fact that we were both already there - HJ, finger play, BJ, DATY, COB, CIM, Russian,,,

Call the agency after the date and request some kind of concession  - it's upto them really if they want to keep my business.  

And of course - write a review!

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Dear Literbike:
I am just wondering with respect to that states statues what would be the quantity that would establish intent and anything suggesting commercial business with respect to the libidinal.

It's DC.... have more than 3 condoms on person... you can be charged with prostitution.

had three hour appointment and she only brought one.  No accident, well reviewed person.

When I was BRAND SPANKING NEW like in the first month or so that happened to me twice. I bought a lot of condoms but I kept going through my stash and using them and not checking so see how many I had left...I've gotten way, way better at that....when I see i'm down to like 2 or 3 I run to the nearest CVS, walgreens, rite aid, etc. Only once before I actually went to the store anyways I asked the hotel did they have any "personal adult items" and they said no but told me a CVS was less than 2 blocks away so off I went. The 2 occasions that happened to me in the beginning one of the guys luckily had his own and the other just well had him a good oral time out whole session and gave a friendly "reprimand" if you will to be stocked up the next time he saw me which was pretty soon after that.

Assuming a nice hotel...just go to the gift shop and buy some condoms.  Otherwise, be satisfied with some intense making out and a BBBJ if possible.  This does not sound like an insurmountable problem, but the provider should have been prepared with all necessary amenities. After all, you are a paying client.