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did not know who I was. Most knew I would in advance. No matter the handle or alias. Given the current state of reviews and my state of opinion... not sure I'll ever do any more reviews. I sure as hell don't need free VIP, or for that matter, TER, that much.

angelexotic1820 reads

let her know which customer you were? do they keep the review up or do they have it taken down?
I am just curious because I got a review recently it is a pretty good one I wouldn't mind keeping it up however the person that posted it will not let me know who they were
they said they want to protect their anonymity but that they definitely will come see me again
I like getting good reviews but I don't need them so badly that I'm going to keep one's up that are fake
I do have to say though that about 80 percent of the reviews I get the gents didn't let me know his alias ahead of time
however I am always able to remember who it is by reading the review and then I will white last
this particular customer in question here he will not respond to my PM asking him to remind me who he is
there's nothing that stands out in the review it pretty much just sounds like all my other reviews so it could have the potential to just be a fake one with someone who wanted VIP
all the information in the review is clearly stuff that's already been said and it sounds like a very generic appointment there was nothing in it that made me remember it was him
I was just curious because it's odd because he's reviewed about 20 other women does that mean that none of those 20 other women know who he is either,
I am guessing it's a fake review because I find it hard to believe that he's reviewed 25
or women aside from me and that neither one of them knows who he is!
secondly the review also tells what floor I live on which I suppose is a necessary to put in a review! :-)
I highly doubt anyone cares what floor I live on and that to me also gave away that it was a little fishy in a fake review'
is it will get taken down because I just messaged the mods about it and I know they do not like fake reviews up
if you get one they always ask you to ask the client to jog your memory about the appointment
when I ask this guy to jog my memory about who he is his answer was that he likes to protect his anonymity
means that he wasn't here in the review is fake and he just pulled the information from either my photos on my website or all my other reviews
'not hard to figure out what floor I live on if you look at the photos on my website that has nothing to do with meeting someone was here
in fact it almost sounds like they're overly trying to sound like they were here by adding such excess of details that have nothing to do with the review!
it's like they're trying to overcompensate and give extra extra extra details to make it seem like they were here because they're trying to definitely sound like they were here when they weren't giving all those details is necessary if you weren't here and you're trying to post a fake reviews you want to sound believable
if you were really here and you're not trying to pull a fake one there's no reason to give 70 different details in the review that makes it sound like you were really here I mean everyone knows I have a dog everyone knows I live in a condo on the water
not everyone knows what floor I'm on but you can clearly figure that out by looking at my photos on the website
sounds to me like somebody needed their free VI

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inicky46587 reads

In order to have a review taken down you must provide Admin here with solid proof the session never happened and you seem not to have that.
So my advice is just let it go, especially since it's an OK review.  Could it be a fake? Sure.  Guys do it in order to get free VIP days.  But you just can't prove it and can only suspect.  So I wouldn't waste my time thinking any more about it.


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Jacque_Jenesais569 reads

Send him a PM asking him to email TER within 48 hours, then immediately forward the PM you sent to the guy - to TER - explaining that you suspect it is a fake review. Follow up with TER after the 48 hours. They will just tell you if he emails them, they'll (put it back up).

I feel if a review is fake, and the guy is psycho, he's got a review on my profile, which connects him to me. In a sense, taking on the responsibility of staying up on our profiles, even reviews, is a good thing. I don't think you should ignore it, honestly.

On another note, I received a 9/10 from someone… and the review was definitely fake bc it mentioned anal. While I liked the scores, it caused some problems for a while bc guys thought I offered anal because of that review. I also, again, don't like having guys on my profile whom I have not seen.

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inicky46405 reads

Why would the guy confirm to TER he'd written a bogus review?  They'd kick him off the site.

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2labman331 reads

I screwed up a review by missing on the TER handle and name (multiple ladies using the very, very similar names) and I was just stupid and didn't triple check everything in the header.  Anyway, the lady who ended up with the review called me on it (thank you) and after a couple email exchanges, TER pulled the review.  Took a bit of doing, though.
The lady who called me on it is now my regular.  Besides other things, I like her willingness to stand up for herself.

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Tobi Telford528 reads

I've gotten reviews before that were excellent (I'm talking 9/10s and what not) and I still went through the proper channels to have them removed because I knew that they were fake. Why? Because I don't want someone using my name to appear "legit." Doesn't matter what their reasoning is (free VIP, building up a review history to get dates, LE, etc), it's deceptive and I for one want no part in it. Sadly, some girls don't screen as well as they should, and there are ladies who may look at a guy's handle and think "well, he saw Tobi so he must be safe to see." And while I think that's a totally reckless way to "screen" someone, I don't want to help someone who's pulling deceptive shit like that. It could potentially put other ladies in danger.

Also, I don't think that the burden of proof is on the lady who is disputing the review (nor should it be...how do you prove that something didn't happen?), I'm pretty sure it's on the reviewer to prove that the date took place (confirmation emails, etc). In Angel's case, that guy sounds sketchy as hell and I for one don't but the whole "I want to keep my anonymity" shit. If the guy wants to be so discreet, why write a review that anyone with a credit card can read? As far as I'm concerned, anyone who is deceptive like that has something to hide. Creepy.  

Posted By: inicky46
In order to have a review taken down you must provide Admin here with solid proof the session never happened and you seem not to have that.  
 So my advice is just let it go, especially since it's an OK review.  Could it be a fake? Sure.  Guys do it in order to get free VIP days.  But you just can't prove it and can only suspect.  So I wouldn't waste my time thinking any more about it.  
 

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no_email372 reads

...and I know you were replying to Nick's comments.

 
but I'm pretty sure Angle does not know if she saw this reviewer or not

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cspatz483 reads

wrote a real review of someone I saw. She didn't like it and had it pulled. TER didn't even contact me. They just pulled it. When said it was real they wanted copies of emails verifying the appt. I just let it go. It's not that important.

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inicky46441 reads

I was a rookie then and didn't understand the scoring rules, so I gave her a 7/7 when she deserved more.  So she contacted TER and the review disappeared, with the reason given being it was "unverified."  Obviously she lied and told them the session never took place.  TER never contacted me either.  The review went from being "Approved" to "Disapproved" in a day.

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Tobi Telford386 reads

I've gotten like 3 or 4 fake reviews and I had to go through a whole process to have them removed, which took several days in each case. Maybe the girls with lots of consistent 10/10s have more pull than us gals with less.  

Posted By: inicky46
I was a rookie then and didn't understand the scoring rules, so I gave her a 7/7 when she deserved more.  So she contacted TER and the review disappeared, with the reason given being it was "unverified."  Obviously she lied and told them the session never took place.  TER never contacted me either.  The review went from being "Approved" to "Disapproved" in a day.

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inicky46388 reads

My experience here is that the rules are "enfarced" with almost no consistency.  It all depends on which person at Admin happens to handle a particular issue.

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AnotherDonJohn371 reads

The " onus" on the reviewer is so minimal that it is effectively on the provider. All we have to do is prove we went through screening with at least one reply email from you with real content (date/ time suggestion.not auto reply). Then the onus is back on you guys to prove the appointment never occurred (cancellation message, etc).  

Why HTG advised the guys to save their confirmation emails in a previous thread. So, cspatz is not wrong but he just sees the minimal requirement as more of a hassle than I do. From personal experience of dealing with notorious 10/10 hags who lied about their age and tried to have my 8/9 reviews removed, i know that the reviewer has the upper hand. I won every time by responding to ter with details and the minimum documentation. I've also won on 90% of the problem reports I've filed correcting a hag's age because I provide documentation of a more than 5yr discrepancy

Not fair I know. Sorry.

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cspatz416 reads

...I deleted the evidence. She had it yanked not because of the score, 8/9,  but because of my description of her MO, ie, she claims to be submissive but really is a Dom with a very passive aggressive attitude. That review was up for a few days and my pm box was full of guys who saw her telling me I nailed her perfectly and chiming in with things that happened in their session that they did not include in their reviews either because it was weird, too difficult to explain or they were afraid.

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AnotherDonJohn392 reads

Two quite expensive ladies I went through this with took issue with some similar issue, of the way I characterized their personality, neighborhood, and incall.

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quadseasonal446 reads

I ALWAYS use my handle when booking . That way she can read my reviews and determine if we might be compatible for an hour or two . When I don't hear back from her I figure she didn't think we were a match at her donation rate and I move on .
 If I was stupid I wouldn't be wise enough to do problem reports when I'm broke and want VIP .  
Doing a fake review is no different than being a lying thief .
  The only time I lie to her , if she asks me what I do for a living or does she look  
 fat in her  new dress. :-D
  Works for me .

Posted By: angelexotic
let her know which customer you were? do they keep the review up or do they have it taken down?  
 I am just curious because I got a review recently it is a pretty good one I wouldn't mind keeping it up however the person that posted it will not let me know who they were  
 they said they want to protect their anonymity but that they definitely will come see me again  
 I like getting good reviews but I don't need them so badly that I'm going to keep one's up that are fake  
 I do have to say though that about 80 percent of the reviews I get the gents didn't let me know his alias ahead of time  
 however I am always able to remember who it is by reading the review and then I will white last  
 this particular customer in question here he will not respond to my PM asking him to remind me who he is  
 there's nothing that stands out in the review it pretty much just sounds like all my other reviews so it could have the potential to just be a fake one with someone who wanted VIP  
 all the information in the review is clearly stuff that's already been said and it sounds like a very generic appointment there was nothing in it that made me remember it was him  
 I was just curious because it's odd because he's reviewed about 20 other women does that mean that none of those 20 other women know who he is either,  
 I am guessing it's a fake review because I find it hard to believe that he's reviewed 25  
 or women aside from me and that neither one of them knows who he is!  
 secondly the review also tells what floor I live on which I suppose is a necessary to put in a review! :-)  
 I highly doubt anyone cares what floor I live on and that to me also gave away that it was a little fishy in a fake review'  
 is it will get taken down because I just messaged the mods about it and I know they do not like fake reviews up  
 if you get one they always ask you to ask the client to jog your memory about the appointment  
 when I ask this guy to jog my memory about who he is his answer was that he likes to protect his anonymity  
 means that he wasn't here in the review is fake and he just pulled the information from either my photos on my website or all my other reviews  
 'not hard to figure out what floor I live on if you look at the photos on my website that has nothing to do with meeting someone was here  
 in fact it almost sounds like they're overly trying to sound like they were here by adding such excess of details that have nothing to do with the review!  
 it's like they're trying to overcompensate and give extra extra extra details to make it seem like they were here because they're trying to definitely sound like they were here when they weren't giving all those details is necessary if you weren't here and you're trying to post a fake reviews you want to sound believable  
 if you were really here and you're not trying to pull a fake one there's no reason to give 70 different details in the review that makes it sound like you were really here I mean everyone knows I have a dog everyone knows I live in a condo on the water  
 not everyone knows what floor I'm on but you can clearly figure that out by looking at my photos on the website  
 sounds to me like somebody needed their free VIP  
 

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angelexotic235 reads

is that it's a tad slower than all my other ones but that's giving all these women that usually get lower than me hi reviews.
whenever I get a review that's less then my usual scores.
but then they also are reviewing a bunch of other women that usually get lower than me.
then they are reviewing all those other women higher.
then all of a sudden I am the only one with the lower score out of all of them.
I usually suspect it is some type of a fake review, it is a way to showcase your self and I am sure there are women that do this and manipulate the system.
I had it happened once before where these two girls that both work for certain service that usually get sevens this guy gave them both 10 9
then he turned around and post a fake review of me giving me a 6
so it smells like b******* from the start
so ter told me well ask him to do something to jog your memory
then he answered me back oh well I am famous you'll remember me but he didn't have anything to jog my memory that he was here
I figured it was an effort to showcase the two women that get terrible reviews that were working at the same service.
by giving those two women that usually got 77 all of a sudden giving them 10 9 and then showing that I am way less than giving me a 6 it's an obvious attempt to showcase the two other women.
well nevertheless now I got another review that is lower than my other scores.
which I do not mind if the person will let me know who they are!
when all of a sudden I get a low score and it is someone who is giving higher scores to my competitors that usually score lower than me'
its just weird how far some people will go to make themselves look better than other people'
its just obvious that it is what it is especially when the person won't let me know who they are I hope they will take the review down cause it just pisses me off when guys do this but oh well what are you going to do'
it sure as hell isn't affecting my business because I've been having at least 7 to 10 phone calls a day and I didn't even want to work yesterday or today so I was tired
I would love to do a couple massages though I hate having to take a couple days off altogether I'm not in a position to
but my fibro in my back has been killing me it's no longer in my neck now all of a sudden I I'm getting a little bit of immobilization issue with my right arm'
then yesterday I couldn't walk on my right heel its always something I'm used to dealing with it but a couple of FB SMS would really be helpful at this time
I wish I was one of those girls that could afford getting hotels and doing 5 appointments today but unfortunately I'm not

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harborview481 reads

So I do not find it unusual at all.  TER does not require a reviewer to reveal who he is & discourages it.  If the reviewer happens to be critical, he might be subjected to blackmail & intimidation if he revealed who he is.   Lots of guys do reveal but that's a choice.  

If you feel there are details revealed which compromise your security, then you can ask for them to be removed.

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angelexotic361 reads

well I am reassured now.

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macdaddy1944379 reads

who cares..i want you..

Posted By: angelexotic
let her know which customer you were? do they keep the review up or do they have it taken down?  
 I am just curious because I got a review recently it is a pretty good one I wouldn't mind keeping it up however the person that posted it will not let me know who they were  
 they said they want to protect their anonymity but that they definitely will come see me again  
 I like getting good reviews but I don't need them so badly that I'm going to keep one's up that are fake  
 I do have to say though that about 80 percent of the reviews I get the gents didn't let me know his alias ahead of time  
 however I am always able to remember who it is by reading the review and then I will white last  
 this particular customer in question here he will not respond to my PM asking him to remind me who he is  
 there's nothing that stands out in the review it pretty much just sounds like all my other reviews so it could have the potential to just be a fake one with someone who wanted VIP  
 all the information in the review is clearly stuff that's already been said and it sounds like a very generic appointment there was nothing in it that made me remember it was him  
 I was just curious because it's odd because he's reviewed about 20 other women does that mean that none of those 20 other women know who he is either,  
 I am guessing it's a fake review because I find it hard to believe that he's reviewed 25  
 or women aside from me and that neither one of them knows who he is!  
 secondly the review also tells what floor I live on which I suppose is a necessary to put in a review! :-)  
 I highly doubt anyone cares what floor I live on and that to me also gave away that it was a little fishy in a fake review'  
 is it will get taken down because I just messaged the mods about it and I know they do not like fake reviews up  
 if you get one they always ask you to ask the client to jog your memory about the appointment  
 when I ask this guy to jog my memory about who he is his answer was that he likes to protect his anonymity  
 means that he wasn't here in the review is fake and he just pulled the information from either my photos on my website or all my other reviews  
 'not hard to figure out what floor I live on if you look at the photos on my website that has nothing to do with meeting someone was here  
 in fact it almost sounds like they're overly trying to sound like they were here by adding such excess of details that have nothing to do with the review!  
 it's like they're trying to overcompensate and give extra extra extra details to make it seem like they were here because they're trying to definitely sound like they were here when they weren't giving all those details is necessary if you weren't here and you're trying to post a fake reviews you want to sound believable  
 if you were really here and you're not trying to pull a fake one there's no reason to give 70 different details in the review that makes it sound like you were really here I mean everyone knows I have a dog everyone knows I live in a condo on the water  
 not everyone knows what floor I'm on but you can clearly figure that out by looking at my photos on the website  
 sounds to me like somebody needed their free VIP  
 

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cspatz363 reads

... Good luck though. I have had 3 appointments nixed due to drama beyond my universe. I love her though and will persevere. Angel ... the James Joyce of TER.

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giggity7405 reads

Given how thin you've shown your skin to be regarding reviews that aren't even that bad, I can definitely imagine clients not wanting you to know who they are on TER.  You've previously spewed out personal details on sessions and clients just because you were offended someone had the temerity to give you a 7.

On the other hand, it's good to purge reviews that are fakes, so good luck if that's the cas

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MasterZen449 reads

did not know who I was. Most knew I would in advance. No matter the handle or alias. Given the current state of reviews and my state of opinion... not sure I'll ever do any more reviews. I sure as hell don't need free VIP, or for that matter, TER, that much.

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2labman356 reads

I've had ladies who asked not to be reviewed (in advance) and I'm fine with that.  How many reviews do you need?
I've also not reviewed when a date went less than spectacularly but I thought there was a chance that I misread a sign or that it was just a chemistry mismatch.  Neither is the ladies fault, so why penalize her with a less-than-glowing reivew?
A clear just-going-through-the-motions provider will probably get a review, though.  I'll try to find the positive parts of the date to balance the lack of trying to connect, though.
And sometimes I don't review because I may sense that she may want to stay a bit UTR or I don't want to share!  Well, anymore than I have too.

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Dave76015288 reads

I ask about reviews, whether they want them or not.  If no, then no problem & no review.   I have no problem with a lady checking out my reviews if she has access.  She'll get an idea of the ladies I like, the things we do, and the fact I can string four or five words together.

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