For example, when getting a bj I prefer more mouth and less hand action.  I'm not there to pop and leave, I want a long sensual session at varying speed to make me crazy.  My question is this: Am I alone in liking this type of bj over a handsy one?  Likewise DT and making a gal gag matters less to me than her hitting all the right spots along my head and shaft/glans area.  I think a lot of gals are just going for the gusto to move along the session quicker

If this was your very first session, then she doesn't know exactly what you would like her to do. After a few more sessions then she'll know what you like to do. This was the case with the girl I'm currently seeing. Now after over a year of seeing her, she knows what I like and how to do it.

I like a lot of tongue action, too. Here's an example (not the chick, though): http://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=600498351#!

ROFL. JK, my dick is actually as big as my hand.  

Totally. I'm an awesome provider, but an inadequate mind reader. So just say it. More of "this" and less of "that." It takes a split second for us to fix what we're doing, and it's far from insulting, more of a constructive criticism.

where the guy said he wished I would have used more hand so… I would say you're in the door, you're naked together… express yourself.

Nice video.  Bit too much hand for my taste though.  Lip action like corn on the cob nibbling at the underside as well as long slow dick swallowing.  A regular rythm broken up by licking like in the vid then eye contact while she goes down deep for a bobble head motion then nibble again.  Rough then soft then rough.  Heavy head friction followed by saliva lubed sucking.  Rinse and repeat..

Exactly.

...No wonder providers can't find your dick.  

LONG fingers and all.  

rofl  jk

Collapsing on a provider who's on bottom?   Why not pick her up instead? lol  

Guys sort of want you to be psychic. We figure the more you know what we like without being told, the more "connected" we are, the more we feel it's a perfect match.

Having a gal actually listen to what you want her to do rather than doing what she wants to.  Some gals are great at that, others, not so much.  It's like they are indoctrinated in hooker boot camp or something to jerk off the guy while blowing him rather than just blow him.  It ain't called a "job" for nothing!  sometime ya gotta work it without manual labor...  Again, it's not all the ladies, just a few.  Generally ones I don't see a second time.

Forget the ones that don't give you what you want. Don't try to educate them. If they didn't get it in boot camp, they ain't gonna get it in the field. Or if they do, if you CAN teach them, they should be paying YOU.

Lame? Yes, Clueless? Yes, Mean??? Not a chance.

I've seen you weakly flail about, trying impotently to be mean, but sorry, you just don't have it in you. You being mean is as funny as when the Dungbeetle tried being a tough guy. Or when AnnoyingFungus tries to act smart. Some things just are not meant to be. Sorry, but you have already typecasted yourself, and you are about as mean as Gary Coleman. lmao

She was doing great up until then, but I think I may just start tying a girls hands behind her back to keep her from turning what could be a great BJ into a HJ instead.

Truth be told, "some" women just don't get the concept, even after being told, but it makes those that do even more desirable IMO. Great dick sucking skills will trump most every other skill a woman can bring to the table, and it's a great way to ensure repeat visits out of me.

I didn't mean that what's shown in the video is what I like for the entire BJ. It's an example of a part of a BJ I'd like to see, but haven't since years before I was divorced. I've tried to communicate this to providers, but I guess I'm not getting my point across (just as I didn't in my post above).  

Thanks for the link. The provider I'm seeing now looks better than that, but Ms. Goodwin does look hot.

So john tells me what he wants and I let him know what I can do comfortably. If that matches we are a good team, if not he is welcome to find a better BJ.  

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To the ladies, if the john walks in and wants his dick sucked in a way you can't then give the "smurf the turf",  and find a john that that fits.  

Don't touch that poison. I will stick with my hand thanks.

the ones in the photo are plastic. 0 calories.  

Are you blowing up photoshopped Aldo photos of the ladies here and trying to do 69s with them?

Just chiming in, in kind. I kinda like the rhyming. I like to get a little creative on here sometimes.

Isn't it against rules to post pics of hookers?

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the ones in the photo are plastic. 0 calories.  
   
 Or you could try this (sans dog, of course).  
   
   
   
 

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so she can take notes on your belly. LOL

Never had a problem. No hand action at all. All mouth nothing but the mouth.

If that was the case, GAG has been awfully mean to me too whenever I post something dumb lol