What is the safest place for a client to not get cought?  My guess would be getting an outcall at a 4-star hotel.  All the bust you here about are almost always at crappy motels and other places LEO can intimidate.  My guess is that security and PR guys would never let it happen at a top hotel.  (I'm thinking like a W or similar in NYC.)  I doubht even a PI would get cooperation, and if he stakes out your floor or tries to plant a camera pointing at your door he would be out on his ass.  Just make sure you do not meet her in the lobby or elsewhere.  Arrange a time, unlock the door, and let her walk in.

Meet for dinner first and the night will just progress.  No chance of LE issues.

definitely 4 star hotels..the bigger the better..they are the safest places for clients and providers..the front desk clerks are not nosy..the staff is friendly..most have a bar or lounge..you blend right in..nothing can really go wrong unless you stand in the middle of the lobby with your cellphone and blurt out " was that room 708 lover..be right up"..

There was one in Boston about two years ago, though that involved the bust of a large escort ring operating there.

Guess the SO is getting too interested in where you're going.

Safest place...at home with your wife.

And there are NO 100% guarantees in this game.  YOU KNOW THAT!!

Do your homework

See a well reviewed lady

Both dress nicely

Meet for dinner or drinks first

Retire to your nice hotel

Don't be obnoxious, keep a casual, low keyed approach in public


It won't reduce the risks to 0.00000, but it will be as close as you can get.

You took the words right out of my mouth.... That was funny!

Things to concider.
A man has No idea who and how she acts when he isn't there... Or if she has alot of traffic coming to her room.... all that there may get attention.  It's really up to her, and how she does her business. You may offer to meet her down at the bar or what ever.... What is she doesn't care too. Cause after you she has another date... oops this may be to real for some of you....

Things to concider.   At a 4star  or even better a 5star resort  we have business people, and families on vacation.
Now these days- the security doesn't know if the females are actually a provider or a Civil. Because females dress provacative... Most ladies on business  that are in Town for conference don't! dress sexy, unless It's in our blood and no matter what we wear, we can't hind it . Sex appeal is a part of us.

It's nice for the men to seek quality and read the reviews...makes things much easier for them. Less dramaand more of a GFE i think...

We on the other hand- Must be safe and attract the gents we want with our ads... We both know what to expect, keeping in mind what we are here for ... An over all good time right??? Life is hard enough.  Lets just enjoy this.

Oh my goodness* after all those reviews, are you trying to help the men? Or did something happen to you that you didn't share?

Safety is Number!
2. be aware of your actions
3. enjoy the exxxperrience
4. don't judge all ladies.
5. watch your back....You never know who is watching
6. date wisely.... Not just want you can afford.

besos, baci, Küsse, القبلات, Kisses
p.s
trying to learn more languages....
Viv

The location is secondary to the circumstances of the meeting and your familiarity with the lady involved.  I've seen my ATF for out call at a particular motel many times over the years with no problem.  The fact is a woman walking into a man's motel room is not against the law.  Unless she's LE I have nothing to worry about.  If she was set up for in call at the same place it wuld be a different story-but she's not dumb enough to do that.

Now, if you are booking with a total stranger who didn't screen you and has no review history you could be walking into a sting.  It could be a motel 6 or a five star property but a sting is a sting.  

Worry about who you are seeing, not so much where you are seeing them.

In fact, I think as a hobbyist, if you are not in your hometown, the best bet is an outcall in a nice hotel where you can meet the provider downstairs for a drink.  The only issue is that sometimes, the provider is a bit uncomfortable meeting you at the bar.  She is worried she might see a former client.  However, I think that is the smartest way to go.  Always a risk though.

I'm not LE, of course, and I don't know how LE thinks about these things, but it's not as if LE can't get a room at a high-end place and bust clients.  The real issue is whether it's worth the resources.  If a provider is holding court at a place, whether high-end or low-end, cops aren't likely to do much if the girls aren't causing problems and raising eyebrows.

You're trying to find a one-size-fits-all answer to something that has no one-size-fits-all answer.

In an upscale hotel? Maybe in the Poconos or in Queens thats considered upscale but not anywhere else.

So, 4 or 5 star hotels are no sanctuary.