An interesting phenomena that I've noticed over the past few years:  

I suppose some people like being shit on, some emotionally so. I don't like anyone being angry at me.

Whatever boils your crawfish.  
That's the beauty here.  For enough bucks, anything is possible to make your fantasy come to life.
Kinda sounds like the guys going for this are hanging in the Dom/Sub aisle of the store.

To be kicked hard in the nads.

yes, FORMER.  After 6 years & many pleasant hours, I can not imagine anything that would make me want to see her again.  More like BEWE!!  (Bitchy Ex Wife Experience)  Moving on!

Are you sure you're reading them right?

when the attitude comes out I'm done.

Yeah I was thinking the same thing.  BSC sub/dom play.

But maybe it does, and it is rather a mental thing.. Typically those personalities don't make it very far with me.. I like easy going, pleasant personalities rather.. and I am not into S&M or any other kinky, out of the ordinary stuff either..To each their own...

Yeah, re-reading this, it sounds like there could be some psycho potential for danger, but I don't think so because it's more like harmless, annoying drama that's instigated in order to get a rise.  So they can then beg for forgiveness.  Nothing ever escalates or gets violent.  

Or some kind of personality thing? I checked out your site to see how you present yourself, and on the "At A Glance" page saw the description, "introverted, feminine, diplomatic" and thought, someone of such an ilk as you describe might move on to descriptions like, "fiery, outgoing, in control" or something like that. Given, personality is maybe only 10% of what swings the choice of who to see, but still...

Re: Yes!

I think we see this sort of the same way, Robin. If I ever visit you, let's skip the role play and you can set the agenda without any input from me. I guess that's my kink-- letting the woman take control and just trusting that she won't gouge out my eyes or anything. Of course, PUTTING the woman in control is still KEEPING control, but... Fantasy, at least.

Leave them to be.

I've heard of guys that like girls to give it to them with a strap on.  Heard of guys that pay girls to slap and kick them in the balls.  Not my cup of tea.

make-up sex part.

I had enough of that bullshit when I was married. I sure as well don't want to pay for that, ok I did pay for that when I was married. But hey, to each their own.

I almost fell into that shithole when I first started.
I realized that the women I meet here are friends.
Not soulmates....

..please note that "had" is past tense... a shame too as I really liked her on and off the clock.. especially on the clock...

Good food for thought.  This must be a personality thing because these "rifts" have gone on for weeks or months at a time before we finally make-up.  So we're not talking a 2-hour role play session here.  But I also realize now, unlike before, that its all being "put on" for his excitement.  So I just play along.  

I don't have a lot (or any) experience role playing as a Domme, but I have noticed that the guys who seem to like the idea of being sexually dominated are in extremely high stress, high pressure positions.  Not always of course, but that makes sense that they would like to be out of control for once.

Damn I'm glad I'm not rich or married.
Seriously?  
I mean I've read about shit like that. I thought it was some Jerry Springer shock value shit!

so the topic invites a discussion of which of our two worlds is more real.  (Or even the good old, what is reality?)

Suffice it to say, that with most gals I see, if it is for a long enough time, and a long enough get together, the BWE usually comes up in some way or another.

Think of it as the surly waiter you get at an otherwise fine restaurant.

Nothing is ever 100%, right?

My ex was not too bitchy, but it got a little bit worse towards the end of the marriage. There's no way I'd want to go to see someone and pay for that experience. There are a lot of kinks and fetishes out there and to each his own. If that's what some guy wants then more power to him.  
 

On the fact that BWE eventually appears.  

http://www.theeroticreview.com/reviews/showReview.asp?Review=1264333

That is one of the most worthwhile reviews I have ever read.