I had an experience just days ago where a provider, who is reasonably well known for years and which I had seen several times, tried to get away with forging my name on checks. She must have picked them up when I wasn't looking as she's spent plenty of time around my house and  knows the lay (pun not intended) of the land. Btw, it was not my donations as I always do those in cash. we are also on good terms, and I also always give a little extra, especially around holidays, so I know she was not sore at me for anything.

I'm not so concerned with the legal part here...Fortunately I have a bunch of bank alerts set up on my email and phone for such an occasion, so I must have caught the check transaction almost immediately. She had put in three checks and the bank credited the amounts back to me after they learned what had happened. btw, I'm not going to divulge her name because she is already in a lot of legal trouble for what she's done. Beside the fact she is a great (high scores) provider, I can't help feeling a little sorry for the trouble she's in, knowing that she has had family trouble and is over her head somehow. Doesnt' forgive what she's done but the current down economy can't be helping.

You don't want to divulge her name? Seems that you have reported her to LE and they are taking care of it.  The bank gave you back your money. And you don't even post from your real id.

So what exactly you want from the community?

I think many people have felt the pinch of the economy affecting their finances but that does not excuse stealing from another person.I don't understand how can you feel sorry for a person who stole from you and attempted to forge your names on checks?

A provider I know had a substance abuse problem, and she was busted for identity theft at one point.  Same thing...she had an issue with drugs getting beyond recreational, and she had a habit to feed.

Might be the same thing here.

A post doesn't always have to have an objective.  Plenty of people share plenty of things that are plenty irrelevant.

You know how I feel about divulging names.  That shit, if RELEVANT (meaning that it's a provider you would see in your geographical area) should be talked about on PM and email, not a public board.

Guy is just talking about something.  I don't see anything wrong with that.

post on the regional board. On GD board? Probably not even a proper place to put this. RO board is fine.

If he is just babbling, which seems the way, I will let it go...

I just think the guy is venting.  I wouldn't look at it any more than that.

Some posts are borderline. Sometimes its not sure if the poster is venting or trying to share information.

I felt that this was one of those. If its just a vent, as I said earlier, I will let it go

There are more than a few questionable providers with substance-abuse issues.

That's what I thought. We should all feel free to mention what we want. If you don't see the point in it, don't comment.

Good call. She had suddenly developed some skin problems and lost weight. So, I suspect meth addiction is playing a role here

Once a disrespect for the law......always a disrespect for the law. When you get comfortable with taking part in illegalities the continuence, there-of, is easy.

The IRS is looking for money now, so you will get audited if your shit is questionable.

If the IRS sees a lotta money in your bank account without seeing a reasonable tax return, they're gonna call you out on it.

Better to come clean and work out a payment arrangement.  It won't be painless, but many people are in those shoes now.

Early in my civie dating...  I took a gal to my home.  It never occured to me to hide my stuff.  At somepoint during the visit, she went through my checkbook.  No, she didn't take anything, but I found out later from others that she knew my bank balances...  she viewed our relationship as a solution to her money problems.

I was naive.  Not smart.    

don't invite providers to their home unless there is level of trust developed. I am not sure how much trust there was between OP and the provider.  Most people, if they were to do outcall, would do it at a hotel.

I hide my personal shit, just as I would expect a provider to hide her personal shit if I went to her place.

Which a lot of providers report their income on their return, if they do. If you show a negative number on your schedule C it is a red flag to the IRS.

I don't smoke pot, steal money, stab people. I don't even drink alcohol anymore, so don't do illegal things like drunk driving etc.

Just because someone fucks hookers doesn't mean that he does other illegal things..

Then they've got much bigger problems than the IRS.

Maybe it's the tax preparer who is causing the losses?  Yep...let's write off all kinds of personal bullshit.

Plenty of incompetent morons out there.  Hopefully a gal is smart enough to know that a loss is just NOT a realistic option.  And if some jackass is trying to convince them it is OK...run...run like hell ladies!

Jean Valjean and all of the Les Mis cast  

Earn.

You have the right attitude. It's a shame on that individual, for taking advantage of you so. I'm sure you thought more of her...

xxx
Jinni

But we'll never know who she is, because you chose not to reveal her name. If you're going to go this route, you should have just kept this to yourself.

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And no one really knows the whole story. It is the same deal as a guy who rips off a provider and she comes on here and vents...should she tell everyone publicly who it is? And the one side of the story issue stands here too.

I am not saying his story is fake, I am saying that here is not the place as it's not the place to out a guy either..for theft or miuch else..it's frowned upon.

Then PM the poster.  You CAN PM an alias, in case you didn't know that.

If you don't have VIP privileges so you can PM, then you really shouldn't be casting stones.

When I start talking about people hoarding useless information, here's an example.  If the provider is in Baton Rouge and I'm in NYC, what the fuck do I care about who she is?  If I wanna know, I'll PM the guy.

NEVER out on a public board.  And you don't owe your "bros" anything.  That's the biggest load of horseshit in the entire world.

There's no point mentioning this on a board. Back channel and tell your "hobby buddies" about her. By mentioning this on a board, you're only going to get curious folks wanting to know who she is.

And you're right, the credibility of he said, she said applies here. It happens on both ends in this biz.

If you wanna know the info, that's what PM is for.

And, like I said, if you can't PM because you're too cheap for $25/month VIP, then you really should not be asking for this kinda information.

Poor little hooker girl as tax cheat and scofflaw. They deserve what they get when they're eventually caught - as well they should be! Hey, we all work hard for OUR money and we must pay OUR fair share. And many of these gals are making bank, making two and even three times as much as some of us white-collar workin' stiffs. Hey, if you don't like to pay taxes, then get politically active and/or at least vote for someone other than the dufus politicians who can't think up more ways fast enough to spend OUR money! And for those doubly corrupt working girls who are also scamming us all by also collecting Medicare,  food stamps, public housing assistance, etc., may they someday rot in a deep, dank dungeon until long after their beauty fades away!....

We've got two Governors sitting in the slammer now for all kinds of bullshit.  And you've got Hollywood artists being chased for millions of dollars in unpaid taxes.

Honestly....the gals here for the most part report some, if not most of their income.  But just like any segment of society, there are those (and probably in similar percentages) that don't report most of what they actually earn.

Sorry that you seem to think that this is "out of line" here...but it's not.  It's no different than some of the assholes I've represented over the years.  And many of those "upstanding citizens"....still tried to scam the system.  And yea...I am hired to get them off.

But those that I represent aren't trying to sell Senate seats either  LOL

Where should she be outed if not this site?  Isn't this a website for hobbyists to review their experiences with providers?  If one ripped a hobbyist off, why wouldn't that be appropriate for posting here?

Also? The notion that it wouldn't be appropriate to out a hobbyist who ripped off a provider here is complete nonsense. While that may be literally true it ignores the primary mission of the board. And, even more importantly, it ignores the fact that providers have provider only boards where they warn others about unacceptable client behavior and identify those clients (at least it is my understanding that those boards exist). If a hobbyist gets blacklisted there, does he even get the chance to respond?  Does he even get informed of it?  Could he even find out on his own?

Note: I'm not saying those boards should exist. Clearly they are needed and provide a level of safety for the ladies which improves the experience for all parties.

I agree with you about society perhaps needing more jails for the egregious, profligate lawbreakers amongst us. But I would submit to you that a number of the providers here on TER are not just "getting over" on not declaring a few thousand $ here and there, but in the order of magnitude of $200K-$300K. And even while they draw on public assistance! The Fed went after Wesley Snipes, they ought to go after the "poor, little hooker girls" and track where all their money is going to/ending up via Green Dot and other debit cards! There's a lot of criminal activity going on behind the scenes beyond the mere P4P. And isn't one of the unspoken reasons for this board and our hobbyist community to partly police up the community and to get our act together? This includes our promoting safe sex, encouraging quality service and discouraging and reporting rip-offs, stealing, violence as well as human trafficking. Perhaps it ought to include encouraging payment of taxes and reporting of known, flagrant fraud. By not doing a better job of policing ourselves, prostitution will have slim chance of ever being legalized or even decriminalized as it will always be known as a community that attracts and harbors criminal activity and money laundering. Perhaps this is a bigger issue here of what comes first: the horse or the cart; being legalized and adhering to the law, or adhering to most laws and hoping that society will eventually accept and legalize it. But I definitely don't think that we will win the day or our argument for societal acceptance of prostitution by saying that just because corrupt politicians and Hollywood celebrities have and are getting away with tax evasion and other scams and fraud, that we as a "community" ought to justify or even condone such behavior. We, afterall,  have the up hill struggle.

just saw this... yes, there was level of trust and no concern for the SO finding out, which i presume is another reason to do it at a hotel. 3/4 of the time i use an outcall hotel. it was just one of those times I happened to not.

But here's the issue that might prevent this...we are getting one side of the story. I could come on here and say anything about anyone and out them for being a thief, an abusive ahole, the list goes on. And some people will do that if they didn't get their own way. It then ruins the reputation of someone who is not there to give the other side of the story or do damage control if it's a falsehood. You can't unring  a bad bell..

How would you feel if a lady got gonorrhea  and told everyone it was you who gave it to her. Right there, the ladies would be making choices whether to see you or not just based on some post.

Yes it's a review board and even those are sometimes utter bullshit. When you start accusing someone of theft, abusive behavior etc, it goes that one giant step further and can really cause trouble for someone if untrue.

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