I hobbied(detest the term)for reasons of laziness. I was too lazy to do the dating footwork. No rush though. Gambling always created a rush so i guess that addiction center in the brain is suspect to over-activity.

Narcotics(recreational)are a thing of the past; as is alcohol

There is a learning process involved in P4P and boy did I take some knocks. If not for being grabbed by the cajones(to slow down)by a special someone, I may have became seriously jaded towards the acquisition of sex.


Goodlife is a relative term. The gods may bless you with all sorts of luxuries but that doesn't guarantee you will appreciate or enjoy them.

But I agree the word "hobby" is lame.  Hobbyist is worse.  Makes us sound like stamp collectors. We had this debate some months ago and someone said we should just be called "hooker-fuckers," or something like that.  I still haven't been able to come up with anything better, but "the rush"  doesn't do it for me, even though I agree it's a total rush; the whole process of finding a new lady the waiting to see what you're going to find on the other side of the door.  I just think of it as "the game."  Hey, how about "cosa nostra?"  Italian for "our thing."  Oops, it's taken.

If it feels good, do it.

I partied,

big time in my teen years. I, like you, would take whatever i was handed.
I flipped out on Acid one nite and that was the beginning of the end for me. ( drug use, that is. )
I now suffer from chronic depression and a high for me now, is just feeling well.
I enjoy life being clean and sober.

That's the only rush I get, along with skydiving and being up in a sailplane or balloon.

I guess I like Inikies suggestion better: "cosa nostra." Too bad it's taken!

by repeatedly filing an empty hole???

no smiling on this one
HalfHour

I do it because I want to have sex with women that would under normal circumstances not give me a second look.  I'm 64, and the thought of having any kind of sex with a woman my own age does not get Mr. Happy excited at all.

I did the marriage thing, got 2 great kids, but marriage was not for me.  Civvie dating is just as much out of the question for the reason in above paragraph.

There's my .02 waiting for change.

Swim

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