I'm just curious . Which would you rather spend time with? A very hot looking lady with acceptable skills and personality or an average looking lady who is very sexy and has better skills?

I'm pretty picky with looks, so I'd be more inclined towards hottie with mediocre skill. But it may also depend how hot she is and how skillful.

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but intellect trumps both

If I do my homework right I'll only be with a gal who's hot, sexy and has great skills.  I am rarely disappointed.

With that said, as others have mentioned, if you do a little research you can usually get both

And good for you. Since you're not paying for the women other men fuck, I guess they don't give a shit what you think. If you want to pay for them to fuck who you think is hot, I am sure you will get no shortage of takers.

And what the hell is it to you? If they want to fuck an 80 year old with no teeth and want to pay her, what business is it of yours? You hobby your way and leave the other guys to hobby their way.

How can an average looking girl be sexy? It is one or the other. Now, Hot or sexy and "beautiful" are two different things, so what is your point? One can be cute and not gorgeous or sexy and not attractive based on personality and skills. I think what you meant to say was "would you prefer a perfect 10 who was average in bed to a 7 who was a 10 in bed?" That makes more sense lol.

Most guys book us FIRST from attraction before we even get to show them the rest. Hot chicks have it easy, because those bitches get 10s in performance just for showing up and bending over...not fair damnit!

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A guy who is PAYING is not going to say, "Hmmm let me find a 5 with 9s in performance." If you are paying you want both! This is not marriage, it's fks for bucks!

Obviously no one is looking for a 5, but a 7/8 with a great attitude and performance is better all day than a 10 who rushes, upsells or just isn't into it.  

book the session in the first place.

You know what amazes me? Some hobbyists would be happy fucking cattle at the ranch. Before someone gives me the "eye of the beholder" BS, I just gag at what some hobbyists actually pay for.

Heavy women, older women, women without perfect augmented breasts, and un-glamorous women (hair and nails not done, casual dresser, little makeup) usually rate lower on the looks scale. But, all of these groups of women definitely have their admirers. So, just because they are a 5-7 on a scale of 1-10 doesn't mean they're not hot...to someone

You are a 10 on any day of the week as a looker and a performer! Damn a blind man can see that!!!

Contrary to most, I much rather be with a 7 on a regular basis who always performs at her best, no matter if that is a 10 or not. I also find more personal satisfaction in pleasing my partner.

regardless of all the fluff you just stated, he is NOT going to pay her to even know what her skills and personality are like. This is not dating where he has a month for us to charm him...he goes by photos lol. I don't think of myself as pretty...never have, but I think most of my looks scores are because of my personality (stfu lol) and my skills.



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Well LR I could write another really long post about this...think you would read all of it?????

For starters there is a HUGE difference between beautiful and sexy. My opinion.

The most stunning physically beautiful woman I ever met in the hobby was head and shoulders and waist and hips and thighs and knees and ankles and toes the WORST experience I ever had in the hobby. Ok there were two more in the running but this gal absolutely takes the cake.

Why? There is more life in every morgue in America that what is running through this gals veins.

I am not saying by any stretch of my own expansive imagination and ego saying I am the best dude in the sack any of ya'll, meaning gals in the hobby have ever had pleasure with. I am saying with full confidence I am not half bad and I think a part of that is I am pretty much more interested in giving pleasure than getting it. Plus I have figured out the more pleasure you give the more you get back.

Having said that I did everything I knew, everything I had in my bag of tricks, simply cared about her feeling pleasure and ABSOLUTELY NOTHING!

I absolutely love DATY cause I have done my research, know each woman is different and am willing to ask, follow direction and be patient to be able to give as much pleasure as possible. I am feeling pretty good knowing I can get-er-done......

With this gal ABSOLUTETLY NOTHING!

So YES she was absolutely stunning from a physical standpoint but she was not SEXY AT ALL!

Now I have also had many experiences with a gal who is not the most striking woman. She however is SEXY SEXY SEXY!

I guess what I am getting at is FOR ME, SEXY is more of an attitude that spills over into the physical part.

Just for me a STUNNING gal can't just bend over and get 10's from me. To answer your question I prefer a woman that might not be all that whose passion is just off the charts than some gal who might even be intimidating and about as interesting and exciting as a bag of rocks.

FYI London when I think about askiing a gal for some of her time and companionship the performance part of the ratings carries more weight. As a matter of fact if they are not 9's and 10's I do not care what she looks like. Let someone else bore her to tears. I am looking for animalistic mutual passion and when it works out right it is just so great!(animal house reference)! LOL

Anyway, that is just my opinion and maybe my way of looking at it helps you out with your confusion.

Shifterp OUT!

I guess i'm in the heavy (some see baby fat since i'm not a "bigger"  bbw) .... i've been referred to as very pretty, hot, sexy (sexy as hell lol) etc but/yet never been rated above a 7 for overall looks anyways go figure lol.

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Yea what he said!!!!!!!!!!

I Concur!!!

Shifterp OUT!

insisted he did not. In his case, he was with women I don't hold a candle to, so I told him that would be bad for his review credibility lol. He gave me an 8. I know where I excel and where I lack, and I lack in looks trust me.

thinks. In MN I was told I was too skinny...lmao, wtf. In cali, I am a freakin cow!

I have that certain "realness" about me, that makes guys think I am sexy even though physically I am clearly flawed. That is why I said sexy and hot are the same, but beautiful and sexy are not. For instance, I think one of the Arquette girls is sexy even though she has some weight on her and her teeth are crooked. She just has that thing about her that makes me want to fk her lol. I think Julia Roberts is beautiful, but I don't get that same "I want to eat her kitty" vibe lol.

Oh, and btw...come daty real quick ha ha. I feel the same way about hot clients who don't do shit and average looking guys who get me OFF! Just dayum!

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Personality trumps looks and honestly skills and menu as well. I dig you more for your don't take no bull outspoken personality. I would love to book you for that reason alone. I will not book on menu alone. I will not book on looks alone. I will not book based on alleged skill alone. Yes all this things factor in. The is just one thing I will book for based on just one thing personality. I have always been very happy when I booked because I got to know her personality and attitude from the boards. This goes for GFE sessions and FBSM sessions. Any more I don't always work down there, but if I dig who the lady is I still will have fun and so will she and my money well spent.

You can be as physically hot as hell and totally not sexy.  See my review of Apryl. She has made money in pageants and modeling. An honest 9 "model material" in looks but she turned me very off by the end of a session. Now let look at a lady that on the second session made me forget it was a session the only lady to ever do that for a second. China is very average looking. I gave her a 6 in looks as there is no way I could honestly score her higher. She has a very limited menu limiting her TER score. She is one sexy woman. I was very hooked after one visit. To bad she is retired. I am still proud to call her friend.


Apryl's review
http://www.theeroticreview.com/reviews/showReview.asp?Review=1006224

China's review
http://www.theeroticreview.com/reviews/showReview.asp?Review=1065855

China is average looking yet sexy. I would pay to fuck her.

Apryl was very hot but in the end I would have to be paid to spend time with her again. She is not sexy in my eyes. I would not fuck her for free.

Well your pics are blurry but I think you are hot and sexy!

I Concur with myself!!!!!!!

Shifterp OUT!  ps plus beauty, real beauty shines from within, not out inwards.

I am a Diest so PLEASE do not take this the wrong way! Or do!!!!!!!!!!!!!  LOL

Google it if it intrigues you.

Whoever or whatever made us never made any mistakes. We obviously do not understand ..it but who can blame us with about only 7 to 10% awareness of the complete understanding of the whole of our situation!

And no I am not smoking dope...sober and clean over 28 years as a matter of fact.

I know this is mushy to the point of nauseating to some, ok I get it.

However, WHOEVER designed you or made you or created you, WHATEVER you call it or don't, cool, they had what, trillions of choices of gene combinations, how many years of choices, so many choices but you turned out EXACTLY like you did, when you did! Now THAT is astronomically amazing if you get over the corny part of it and really consider it. Your eyes could have been different. Your hair and color could have been diffferent. You could have been rail thin, obese, WHATEVER. For some reason you got here, wherever here is. For some reason for all this to work out, whatever this is, he/she made you like you but different cause we(all of us on the planet with you now) needed someone EXACTLY like you to join the party. Party on Wayne!!!!!!

So looking though that lense London can you really tell me you are not beautiful? Plus that is something in the eye of the beholder anyways.

For those I nauseated, SORRY! Not intended but every now and then something just has to be said!

I Concur!!!!!!!!!

Charlie Sheen returns on FX tonight at 9!!!!!!!!!  YYYYIIIIPPPPPEEEEE!!!!!!!!!!!!  WINNING!!!!!!!!!!

Shifterp OUT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I seriously doubt it. I am not talking about her scores or what the next guy said...but what YOU think. I have never in all of my life heard any guy admit that. Average maybe, but butt ugly and a 10 in skills, I am gonna call bs.

If she's a 10 in looks and a 1 in performance, I have no interest.  Same thing if a girl is a 1 in looks and a 10 in performance (because I can get that for free by finding a chunky chick in a bar).

If you are talking about a 6 in looks and a 10 in performance vs. a 10 in looks and a 6 in performance, given my proclivity to DATY above all else, I'd take the 10 looks/6 performance.

But how much I'm giving up one for the other matters.  8 looks/10 performance I might take over a 10 looks/8 performance.  Or maybe not.

It just depends.

To be fair, he does have a point.  While I disagree with his pigeonholing of other people who pay for girls he would never pay for, in the end, we do give a shit what others think because that's why we read reviews, no?

Looks are definitely important. But I think the whole thing comes down to how far apart they are in looks and experience.

I've been with knockouts that have been good but not great lovers and ladies that are pretty (not knockouts) but are great lovers. It still depends on the degrees that we are talking about. It also depends on chemistry and your perception of beauty too. I saw one highly rated provider that just didn't do it for me. I was not in it from the beginning. I just didn't find her attractive.

As has been said by others though, with proper research you can get both.

I answered the question. If you don't like it you can skip my post.

no..confederate john will lick your ass along with the cows..his buddy gator jimmy rides the herd..

Personality and skills are more important than gorgeous looks. To be frank with you, as I've gotten older, I've begun to see that women who I would have considered "average looking" while I was in my 20's are really much more attractive to me at age 50.

If only I knew then what I know now!

Attractive to me, that I wish I live in New Orleans lol (just kidding about the living there since I can't stand the "Saints" and "who dat nation"--go J-E-T-S, Jets! Jets! Jets!).

Ms London, agree with your comment; however you're hot & sexy!!! Just sayin...that's a good thing

Just adding my 2 cents...don't like it skip it.

Probably can't get off his ample one to much of anything. But then again he could be one of those hot guys who know nothing about how to please a woman.