Besides the typical dinner date, what are some of the other kinds of dates you've done, and/or experienced.  I've had some pretty cool dates.

I've done Indy, camped for 3 days at the track for NASCAR, and got introduced to NITRO racing

I had one date, that I was supposed to meet that evening for a dinner date, call and ask if I could be a fill in that afternoon on his co-ed dodgeball league.  If they didnt find a girl ASAP, they would have to forfeit their game.  I mean what's a girl supposed to do?  So I did the only thing I could do, I kicked ass and took numbers!  I'm very competitive, dont let the cute face fool ya, unless you happen to be on the opposing team.

I read where one girl who was going on some outdoor adventure date, and riding zip lines through trees and stuff.  I mean, like how cool is that?!

I have another date coming up, where our day will start off, on a team of waterballoon/dodgeball, all in the name of charity.

I love doing, the not so typical, and just wondered what others have done.



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I met one lady at the Renaissance Festival. After some e-mail banter, it was her idea, based on my screen name. We had a good time. Later on, she did a dance on my maypole. Both are pleasant memories.

I once accompanied a provider to the wedding of a co-worker of hers from her day job.

It was kind of fun, in a weird way.

We were pretty close of course and had known each other for about four years.

The most fun date was a five day trip to Bali.

Which I'm fine with.  Dinner, Theater, the occasional sporting event, a few movies.  Once a fellow arranged a facial and massage for both of us.. really.. Not so exciting I guess but unusual... for me. ha ha
I meet many fun and exciting individuals but can't say we are out doing the most unusual stuff.

Vibe-ing with one another is A-OK by me!  
Guess I'm easily amused!  

and to a couple of islands.. but I consider the vacation kind of dates in the realm of 'typical' too.
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and some have gone a bit beyond. I spent the entire day with a terrific lady. After some early morning delight, we had breakfast and went to a world class aquarium. We even got to see some fucking sharks...that is to say, two sharks...fucking. Gotta love that fish porn.

Another time, the lady had made arrangements for us to visit a nudist resort after dinner. We had a great time frollicking in the pool, although when the pool guy told us that it was time to close the pool, I had to swim a couple of laps to get rid of my obvious "excitement". That was an evening that I plan to repeat.

Another lady suggested that we go to the titty bars. She knew some of the dancers, and saw to it that they gave me a special show. Then we went to a pool hall and played a few games before retiring back to the hotel. Another fun evening.

Nothing for me as memorable as Bali but I did meet a lady for dinner in a restaurant at a casino (I was staying there)...had 4 hours planned...after dinner we stopped to gamble, got on a roll, and 5 hours into the 4 hour date we still hadn't been to the room.  She was fine with it, we went upstairs and spent our quality time together.  So I ended up with a 8 hour date, a pocket full of money, and she ended up with a nice tip.  To be honest, the spontaneity of changing plans really made it feel like a date.

Occasionally a date will conclude with us getting all hot and sweaty working together on a household repair or re-decorating project.

I actually brought a "snake" to a date, cause the guy was having drain issues.  I also brought along my "Home Depot 1,2,3" book.

He said it was one of the sexiest things he had seen, when he saw me lying on my back with my head underneath his bathroom sink.

You just never know what's gonna "do it" for a guy.  And you guys say women are complicated.  LOL

Jaycee

I've seen women with their head inside my sink and it didn't do anything for me...that was alcohol related!!

have nothing to do with anything remotely fu n for they guy!  They want to be wined, dined, maybe later 69'd! I almost have to laugh as most of these ladies seem to think they are royalty, and would never go to a race (luv the drags), and sure the hell not camp out!  Most feel that camping is staying in a mere 3 star hotel, that is near a river!
I give you ladies who would accompany a man on an adventure like that a ton of credit.  To do something the HE actually likes is cool. Eating a hotdog over the fire....NEVER....when he could be buying me a fillet at an overpriced resturaunt in the thinking of the normal Prima Donna HO!
Thank you ladies for pointing out that there are some willing to do something other than be totally spoiled, then paid!

Jaycee

I might be the person you were referring too doing the zip line canopy tour.   In December I took one of my favorite ladies, a well known Boston provider up to the White Mts in NH for a weekend at the Mt Washington Hotel.  

We had a great drive up to Bretton Woods NH.  The scenery and drive was wonderful, and on Saturday morning we took the Bretton Woods Zip Line Canopy Tour.  

This is a 10 leg , 3 hour course with the longest ride nearly a 1000 feet and you are 160 feet off the ground.  
Play video link in lower right corner)

http://www.brettonwoods.com/activities/canopy_tour/tour

My lady, who was not too keen on the whole idea to begin with, really got into it.  We were paired with 6 other people plus guides and even though it was only 20 degrees outside with snow we had a blast.  In fact the entire weekend is my all time favorite Hobby experience.

Just last week I had regular appointment with a touring provider in the AM.   During our time she mentioned she was a native New Englander but had never been to Fenway Park .   It just so happens that afternoon I had 2 tickets to a rare afternoon Red Sox game thus taking her Fenway virginity.  (Finally a virgin somewhere. LOL)

I'm constantly looking for adventure.  The same lady who did the zip line tour with me is having a promotion this summer where, for a reduced rate, she will split time between hiking or an outdoor adventure in the mountains of New England and of course some indoor time too! .  

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Before agreeing to it I was envisioning the headlines "Escort falls out of tree" and contemplating backing out.

I'm so glad that you invited me to do something I would have *never* ordinarily done- it turned out to be an amazing trip with absolutely phenomenal memories of heights that I hope I never see again LOL!

Great fun, great topic Jaycee- adrenalin is truly an aphrodisiac.  Really, there is no better way to foster a real sense of intimacy than sharing an adventure.
I've personally recently introduced outdoor adventure and date night packages at extremely reduced rates to actively encourage clients who are interested in a little bit more than companionship which begins on a couch and ends in bed like clockwork to great success.

A video of the winter adventure we shared:

Tomboys at heart...lol...I love having Fun and being adventurous...the craziest date I have had...we went paintballing in the woods...we were on the same team...so I had his back and he had mine...we had a Blast...as much as I Enjoy going to the theater and dining out...I Would much rather go to a football game and drink beer and eat a brat

It's like you've never met any ladies who like to camp?  It's not a girl 'doing something the guy likes to do'  When we do it... it is something WE enjoy doing.  I rarely do anything I don't like to do.  

PLENTY of ladies here, I'm certain, are self sufficient and have many interests.  

I've had MORE of the experience of suggesting a cool little hole in the wall MOM and POP cafe that serves Korean or Etheopian (sp?) food and had a client hands down reject cuz they EXPECT to go to the high end steak house. Luckily I'm game for many things.. and love many types of activities.

Possibly you need to be more conversational before you P4P and find ladies who have more of your own personality and attitudes.  My experience is that is makes the entire thing more enjoyable. Don't do things that you aren't having fun at.. unless you like to mentally vent at your Prima Dona date to work up a real good grudge f*ck. ha ha

I have the most fantastic memories of carefree and relaxed providers.  I've taken them four days to the beach.  A few girls went to Florida with me and we stayed on the boat I chartered and did some blue water fishing.  We sat on the deck drinking beer, Bloody Mary's, Margueritas or whatever in the hot sun.  I've got a license to operate so we were by ourselves on the boat.
I've done that three times with three different providers.  Believe me gentlemen, it's worth your time and effort to engage a woman in such a way.

Another time I took a girl to Savannah for three days of shopping, eating, beaching and loving.

None of it is very exotic but I did have a great time and so did the ladies.

It wasn't very expensive either.  I'd give them $500 a day for every day we were out of town.  I get occasional calls from them to do it again.

It's evident to me how little fun these ladies get to have.  The pressures of making money and being on call are huge.  Taking them away for awhile is a bonus they don't often get.

ice climbing or putting up some crown molding...

This reminds me of an ongoing joke between another provider and I, last summer.  She lives down south, and we email back and forth. Well, when I was starting out, she would write to me about all her "guys" wining and dining her, and I couldn't even get someone to buy me a nacho!  lol  Every time there was a potential for a dinner date, it fell through.  So, I would tell her that none of my "guys" wanted to feed me. And she would keep writing about all these great meals and fine restaurants. I was dying just to be taken out for a nice dinner, because I LOVE food!  Of course, this eventually happened, but not for a long time.  I had to write and let her know that someone finally saw fit to buy me a good meal, lol.

All these adventures look glorious to me!  I LOVE the beach, boating, and everything outdoors (although I am not brave in the winter).  Thanks for the link to the Canopy Tour!  I now have to add that to my "bucket list." And I was pleasantly surprised at the price for the tour.  It is more reasonable than I expected.  I enjoyed watching the video: looks like a BLAST!

Yes, I am heading into that "midlife" crisis time, where there are only so many hours in a day, so why not fill them with fun adventures?  And BTW, I am a "girly girl" but I go camping with my dog every single year.  I LOVE my quiet time in the woods, away from it all.  I spend my days swimming and tanning at the beach and my evenings at the camp site. No noise, no telephones to answer, etc.

I would also like to add that the most "out of the ordinary" date I had was going to the Orpheum (Mpls) to watch a play rehearsal and get a behind the scenes tour for a well known production there.  I had so much fun and I learned a lot!  I was able to watch my "date" work, watch the rehearsal, and imagine all the things I would do to him when his work day was done. lol

I love it when a lady calls before a date and asks me to bring my reciprocating saw. I know we are going to have some fun.

I've picked up a few ideas for sometime.

Some different ones I've been on:
--Hiking the mountains near Mesa Verda for a couple days
--Walking the Breast Cancer Walk (seems appropriate)
--Working a fund raiser at Kennedy Center (all 5 or 6 of the women from my date's co-op attended and brought a date)

I especially love the jacuzzi suites.

It is so fun to play, eat, play.  Or something like that.

Night paintballing is the BEST!  Where you get to use glow in the dark paintballs!  Its a workout, and an aphrodisiac.

Then, after all that sweating, you get to shower together!  What's not to like about that?!

Thanks for a great topic, you've given a newbie some ideas.(EOM)

I have always believed that an essential part of the journey I share with my partner, is not just the physical, but exploring the world, and each other's minds. It's amazing what happens in the bedroom when you can have a blast together outside of bed.

I go up to a beautiful getaway high up in the mountains, where we go hiking, star gazing and spend the nights in a cabin.  We are both quite fond of he secluded out doors and a good physical challenge.  It actually builds a fascinating additional level to the physical connection you share.  I'm hoping to add some canoeing or kayaking to our adventures.

I once did a motorcycle tour across Quebec's country side. I rode behind him the whole time, and we were aimless, visiting all the small countryside diners, where no one spoke english but were always very welcoming.  Being trapped for 4 hours in pouring rain on the highway was memorable, many pitiful looks from drivers - but we were loving it. We got to one diner and didn't even have to order, as soon as we sat our soaking bodies down she came out with soup.

I did a road trip from Tampa, Florida up to Washington, DC. We stopped in Orlando, St. Augustine, Savannah, Cape Cod, San Francisco, and the town of Duck.

I used to spend the early spring with a gent in the mountains, tapping sugar maples and spending the whole day boiling it down in a wood burning stove until we had our own maple syrup. Boy it takes a lot of wood to get it to the right temperature and keep it there.  Snow was still on the ground and air was cold but I sat topless in shorts in the snow to cool down after being in the sugaring shack. We'd feed each other snowballs dipped in the piping hot maple syrup.

I went to Sydney - where we went to the opera house, had high tea in a victorian tea room, ate at fantastic waterfront restaurants, did the bridge climb at sunset, and flew out to the great barrier reef where we were taken by helicopter to a small sand dune surrounded by vast ocean.

Going to Israel was particularly interesting.  Walking though the Hassidic neighborhoods in clothing appropriate to the religiously conservative, visiting the Western Wall, The Church of the Holy Sepulchre, going to the Dead Sea and then up to Masada to see what remained of Harod's ancient fortress.

Another tradition I repeat with a friend includes visits to New Orleans, where I prowl the voodoo temples and Wicaan stores for oddities, go to dive bars for drinks, and hunt down old school jazz acts, breaking to eat peanut butter and bacon burgers. Last time I found a lovely Kaleidoscope to include into my collection.

An increasingly more common event includes attending readings, speeches and lectures.  Last time I went to see a talk being given by someone in government who lived in Afghanistan for two years and only just returned. He gave an interesting breakdown of what life is like there right now. When you have similar interests, learning together is a wonderful bonding experience.

Some of the most memorable dates I can recall involved lavish home cooked dinners, that we either prepared for each other, or made together.  So nice to be able to tear each other's clothes off at the table for once.

mentions "tomboyish at heart" LOL

spending a night in the cabin, and all that goes with a day/night in the wilderness....with lots of "behind closed door" time...outdoors...

Sharks doing it? Is that weird I REALLY want to see that? lol  *looks around*

Went to a track and saw motorcycle racing...we both rode our own machines....imagine a full set of racing leathers and then removing the helmet and shaking out the hair...oh and let's not forget unzipping the the jacket exposing a very tight, white wife beater stretched over "the ladies".

Yep we had a blast that day.

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